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@Leo Gura After contemplating what wisdom am I lacking I got the following answers: I am underestimating the importance of laughter I am expecting literally every person to be gentle with me ( which is a great foolishness) Only I am responsible for my own happiness as when I become happy it is only through me happiness flows Other's thinking are hugely different from me so their actions thereby many people will act below my expectations Bad things have good things hidden inside them as when they happen they show the true nature of something like is it hollow or of good value Also being a patient of OCD I already enrolled in a doctor's therapy in which I am on antidepressants and so forth. Any suggestions @Leo Gura and guys/girls what can I supplement besides my therapy?

@Leo Gura and people after contemplating a little I recognised that my epistemology is very poor. I absorb information from all sources and fear to question the information and the source too. So is the questioning a key for me even though I am recieving diverse perspectives ?

@itachi uchiha Sorry u didn't understand my question. My question was that are there any other things which I can supplement with my ongoing OCD therapy with my therapist and the medicine which my Psychiatrist is giving me? Also I have already found the field in which I can be master in and I am not talking about passion here ?

An update guys : -Recognition of change -Ingenous design

Thank you @Leo Gura

I have been contemplating this topic and I gained the following insights: -Intial thinking about the situation is almost always short sighted so are initial actions -Life is a revelation process of one's shortsightedness (unquestioned assumptions) Any thoughts @Leo Gura and guys/girls?

@Leo Gura After going out almost daily on the street I noticed that there are some very few girls who will look in the eyes back if made eye contact. Also I approached girls where I didn't reach the hook point but in very very few I reached. So when one can know it is the right to approach a girl if she ignores then ? If she looks back then is it right to approach her ? Anyways I also learned that rejections are a part of life. Almost an year back I posted a topic of getting rejected as I proposed one girl (which I did wrong) but now I am grateful that she rejected me a few days before I discovered that she has an abusive nature which I don't like.

@Leo Gura Can patient of OCD(on antidepressants) watch that video? I contacted my Psychiatrist after watching that video and he told me not to watch that video. He told me to discuss over next appointment of mine.

@lostingenosmaze Ya ? I know it. Searched it already in the past.

I have been struggling with OCD since past 2 years , I am currently on antidepressants.Can your heavy metal detox episode help me in supplementing it with my ongoing medicines? @Leo Gura

Ya @Leo Gura innovation is the key to understanding and success in life

I think that we have to go against the grail of natural foolishness.

Or it could be on the level a person understands a situation ?

@something_else Ya so the only solution then is to move on and nextzone the ignoring girl (I have put the answer in bracket )?

@Medhansh Dude you didn't understand my question like if I find a beautiful then I would approach her but before approaching her if she ignores me and walks past me then what can I do ? (Obviously the answer will be to move on and try on another girls)

Yup the girls who came to me in my past are the source of this feeling. Anyways I feeling greatful that the girl whom I proposed rejected me as (I have listed the reason in above post). @Nahm However your question is difficult to understand .

Nope I don't think so as I have got some (even though a very few ) results . And also I liked the idea of social circle.

An update guys : -Jumping upward and back -Going upwards in a 2D plane

Sorry for commenting suddenly out of the blue. Anyways your advice is life changing if it is heard and applied correctly. Love to see you enjoy your night at Vegas through the video you posted on your blog @Leo Gura

@MrFundamental Ya as intelligence is diversity so it is found in many forms and infinite of perspectives.

By the way to add to the list : -Looking at a situation from different degrees -Design

@MrFundamental I was cotemplatively questioning that what is intelligence and it came to my mind. Although your perspective is also good. Why don't we keep this thread alive ? and we try to combine all the good in the perspectives

@Leo Gura I took a spiral dynamics test consistently and it was showing stage yellow and green most of time. I took another test it was showing stage orange. So which stage am I really at ?

@Ya know My values are : -Focus on my life instead of other's life -Focus on my life purpose -Socialise with people and stop talking with people who hurt me and do wrong to me -Be honest with myself and everyone else ( if I donot like something I must stand against it )( I must stop pretending) - Make my life revolve around the thing I love most (Science especially Biological aspect of Science ) Regularly I meditate,contemplate exercise . I have written these values on a paper and try to follow everyday by reading it.

By the way I just want to provide an update that I have been meditating from more than 2 years and contemplating since almost an year. I meditate and contemplate daily.