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@AION but I would rather disagree as for making chance with a girl one needs vulnerability mindset , not achievement/loss mindset. And vulnerability is directly related to authenticity which in turn is related to honesty with oneself and others.

Dude from my experience - Moving on is a superpower .

@Raze ok .As long as it doesn't lead to leeching of audience. @Ulax Cole Hasting's Ultimate Self Mastery Course. He is a youtuber . You can type Cole Hastings on Google and get the info.

@Princess Arabia ok got it.

@Princess Arabia ok but ownership of emotions such as taking responsibility is also threatening to the ego which leads to all sorts of problems.

👍 Done. Now onwards acceptance of my jealousy , anger and all negative emotions including suffering.

@Princess Arabia thanks . I am trying to do it.

@Princess Arabia yeah it's counterintuitive . Changing thoughts vs accepting them.

@Human Mint ok sorry.

@Ulax I learned to accept it by switching my mindset from that course which I took 1 and a half year ago. Need the permission of @Leo Gura to tell about the course as it is a different community and school.

@Harsh Bagdia my life is now improving as I am overcoming obstacles. Thanks for the concern but your tone hurts as you don't know my situation because my father is paying a large college fees and I'll be sitting for college placements after a week from now. @Leo Gura What about the course? Does your course contain same materials as other good self help stuffs as I have taken 3 self help courses before and they were amazing as they helped me a lot besides eating antidepressants as prescribed by my doctor.

@Leo Gura As a request could you do videos on survival and shadow work ?

@Leo Gura you are right that Game works. I have had a few girlfriends in the past but that doesn't matter ,so is for everyone else. I realized multiple times that I can get a girlfriend. Yesterday I warm approached (approach through social circle) 5 girls and 2 of them were good interactions while 3 of them were ok. I also discovered that connecting with girls by vulnerability lead to some of the memorable interactions. Thank you. @SageMind you can do it by being vulnerable , persistent and reframe rejections as opportunities for becoming a stronger man and finding a girl suitable for you.

@Leo Gura does being single and trying to get a relationship grows you ? Does being single grows you? How does one cure jealousy when you see others around you in a relationship while when you try on girls you get rejected ?

I have approached 100 girls in my college with no acceptance but only positives are that I realised that I can get a girlfriend, it doesn't matter wether I had a girlfriend in the past or not. And yes putting effort/taking action matters. So could you all answer the above question ?

Guys, today I talked to that girl who said me to sit beside her once and it went ok.

Today in my class , I talked to 5 girls and one of the girls called me to sit beside herself and we talked a little bit .Also a boy threatened me but that is his insecurity. But realizing this fact is more important than this threat. So the key for single guys is Optimism + Action.

@NoSelfSelf yeah like now I am feeling ok. A section of it consists of self awareness which is asking oneself questions. Thanks again.

I approached the girl whom I liked and asked her how the exam went . She said something by making a hand gesture like she doesn't know. However, it hurted me for a little while afterwards but afterwards it became ok . Thanks to Game and self help .

Thanks @NoSelfSelf so first I must value myself as enough .

Ok yeah I remembered that we talked about specific problem for which I think that I am on antidepressants for more than 5 years but I am responsible for it. Could you teach me game ? You said that the other book that I was reading is garbage but I found immense value in it such as which can I apply right now which is self questioning and also I realised ( sorry I am not joking ) but I am experiencing some moments of happiness as I accept my negative emotions , negative thoughts and the experience .

HOw is game different from pickup ?

@NoSelfSelf ok. We even connected on discord - were you teaching game or something else. Just asking.

@NoSelfSelf so what must I do instead?

@NoSelfSelf I expected her to talk to me in a normal manner but she was shy and that's ok as nobody talks to a stranger in an open manner and I have done cold approach before. I am also jealous of guys and girls in my class having relationships as there were some girls in my class whom I liked, I approached them , complemented them but they first rejected me and then started dating someone other guys. I am suffering but that is ok as it will lead to something positive as time has proved to me again and again that negative situations lead to positive outcomes. It doesn't affect me when I am rejected by girls but I am affected when I see others around me having relationships.