Miguel1

Great thread. Hardest decision in my life in a bigger picture has got to be the decision of accepting the reality of humanity and how unconcious they really are. How hard it is to become more conscious, and how impossible this work can be for majority. With this decision, majority of my dreams and identity died. This accepting has been happening the past 5 years and only perhaps since a year ago I have started to develop a new identity with new dreams based on my new accepted reality. Fucking painful.

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Probably my best one yet! It is just so majestically beautiful. Wow. Makes me jump from joy and excitement, and shed some tears thinking what is the potential here if I invest years and decades into this. Subliminal. Need to turn your screen to horizontal. https://www.instagram.com/reel/DT8MAiAAo-W/?igsh=dWUwMGplMG96Zjlu

Since I spent a lot of time writing an answer to a question from @BlessedLion , I decided to copy-paste the answer here as well. Original question: From: My answer: Thanks for asking. This will be a more in-depth answer, simply because I am very passionate about it + I am not fully 100% clear and articulate about it, so I will probably be analyzing somewhat as I write. Short version: I can't, at least yet, put it into a short sentence. But it is something to do with the combination of art, dance, beauty, film (including acting), story-telling, insights, deeper thoughts, philosophy, writing & speaking. ---- Long version with examples: I want to touch people deeply on an emotional level. Inspire them like nothing else. And get them to FEEL deeply & contemplate deep stuff about life. For now, I want to keep it relatively relatable for the mass, so that I can get traction & traffic - but later as I am financially well off, I will go hard into the deepest stuff (as well). The vision is such that I will be at my peak in like 20-30 years, perhaps even later. My dancing might not be as good then anymore but I believe my peak level dancing will be in my 40s, so in a bit over 10 years - so maybe in my 40s and 50s, I will be doing my best work, since dancing will be a huge part of it (as I see it now at least, because that's the unique thing about me that separates me from the rest. More on it later) Here are some examples to get an idea: https://www.instagram.com/p/CygMx_etst5/ For some reason, the music is out of sync when you listen with headphones on phone, but on computer it works fine. On phone, if you don't use headphones, it is better in sync. I hate adding the music on the Instagram app but I have no choice if I want to use copyrighted music. Notice how on Instagram I can use pretty much any song I want without being copyright struck (Instagram music library, which is pretty much Spotify). And I can also write in the caption somewhat in-depth. On YouTube, music usage is very limited (which is probably 50% of my art lol. Need to think more about how much it really is). Plus, writing on description box / comments just doesn't have the same feel as writing on Instagram post captions. Here are some other raw stuff I shot lately: Watch these cuz they will probably be taken down here soon (copyright music) These raw stuff (emotionally & no edits wise) don't have anything else but dancing and they're shot inside. Shooting outside is probably my main thing, that's where probably my best work will be shot (altho I can def see that there's a ton of beauty to be created inside where you have more control over the environment - just require more budget). One problem with shooting inside, especially in my living room lol, is the limited space. As a dancer, the space I have is way too little before I run out of the camera frame. But just to give an idea what my dancing and music choice alone can affect in this vision. Include the rest ''the combination of art, dance, beauty, film (including acting), story-telling, insights, deeper thoughts, philosophy, writing & speaking.'' - And I believe at my peak in a couple of decades, I can create something so hella beautiful, I can't even put it into words... -- Also, I wanted to share these cuz they were shot the other day so they are my most recent dances recorded. Listen to the music carefully, while watching me dance, otherwise you miss a lot of beauty. use headphones & watch full screen, ideally on a bigger screen than phone like laptop & 4k - my dancing style is very subtle and has a lot of details (I wish I had a couple proper moving videographes to catch all the details of my dance), unlike breakdance which is all about big, power moves: ''And those who were seen dancing were thought to be insane by those who could not hear the music - Friedrich Nietzsche'' Keep in mind that my dancing & art is a very different side of me that I have not shown on this forum at all really. (I'm glad you asked me the question so that I got the chance to show this side of me as well, which is where I feel most at home... With philosophy & art. My dancing is mostly freestyling / improvisation (more about it later). And it's definitely a bit rusty, since I haven't dance much the past years (more about it later) but I still think it's very good. I can't wait to get to my peak form and especially to my peak dancing abilities. The next one is RAW. Might require some attention span, depending on who watches, but if you want to see me RAW... it has a proper, slow build-up (like any good stories) - and isn't this Instagram straight to the crazy high energy hooky kinda thing. This next one I love so much simply because of the song being called Line of Sight (by Odesza). And look at that damn line of light / sight in my window! So much fucking meaning and beauty in that connection. Last one. This song always makes me emotional. Not that the other ones doesn't. This one has a softness in it. The first, third and fourth videos are music by Odesza. The second one is by a smaller artist called BleedingXHeart. --- As I become more successful, I will have more resources (money) to increase the production level, by a lot! CRAZILY A LOT! Some key points about dancing: My dancing is a style that I've developed my whole life. It is unique to me. The style is very subtle. It's not like breakdance where you have all these big, power moves. My dance is all about the details. It has a bigger picture to it of course but the details are what makes it. I mostly do freestyling. I find it most raw. That's how I can express the most raw emotions. I hate choreographies because after repeating the same ol moves a hundred times, it has completely sucked the emotion out of it. Heck, even repeating it 3 times gets dry. But I do often have like a structure / idea / outline in my freestyles. And definitely something / some message / some emotion that I want to express. Finally, dancing is extremely effortless for me. All these clips were taken in an 1 hour freestyling session. Meaning, I didn't spent any time preparing any choreos for it. And keep in mind, my dancing is rusty, since I've been busy experimenting with other stuff the past years (more below). And I am also nowhere near my peak dancing ability. Perhaps in 10 years. This is why I would say that this is my most unique strength. Or an unfair advantage if you may. It also doesn't hurt that I look beautiful The Instagram post that I shared first is definitely much closer to the vision than these raw dances. Since it has elements of the other parts as well like speaking, writing (both in the video but also in the caption), an insight that I'm sharing, somewhat deeper thoughts in the caption, editing, story etc... But it lacks for example film and acting, and it's very short.. This vision / life purpose is in a way fresh / new for me as I have been spending the past years exploring other stuff like coaching, public speaking, teaching, pure philosophy (too much influence by my past teachers like Osho, Owen Cook, Rupert Spira, Leo etc. & honestly just a lot of spiritual & self-help brainwashing But I've always been deep into this ''fresh'' vision of mine, as you can see in my dancing skills. I have always been into film and beauty as well. Ever since I was a teenager. I just took a break from all of it for the past 3 years to explore the above mentioned. Now I have been able to deconstruct (thanks Leo) so much spiritual & self-help brainwashing that I'm fully ready to get back into it. Feels like I am finally going back home. For example, I used to think that my emotional side was wrong because of spiritual brainwashing. So much beauty and depth was taken away because of it, especially as I am a very emotional being. I used to think that my ambitious side is wrong because desire is suffering!! I didn't even realize how creative I truly am until recently because of all that. Sorry about all the neglecting... my life purpose. My heart is with you fully this time! Don't get me wrong tho, I have learned a ton of wisdom and grown (to a level I would have never been able to without the teachings) from all of the teachings, that I'm going to be using in my vision and life purpose. The issue was that I took the traps of the teachings to my heart as well. Thank you for giving me the opportunity to write all these and share it with ya'll. I have wanted to but I haven't been sure where - also just haven't been this clear about the vision as well. Honestly, I kinda want to copy-paste this and make a whole new post sharing it somewhere so as many people sees, but I don't know if I can really do it anywhere. Perhaps in the Life Purpose sub-forum. Maybe as an Inspiration (excuse ) for others. But actually, it kinda can be very inspiring! --- --- --- I'll be updating ya'll in this post as I get more material & thoughts! I guess I'll turn this into my Life Purpose Journal!

Same

I agree with the other mods here. It’s getting out of control with all these new threads.

This is key.

Push-pull should be natural in the sense that there are things you don’t like about the girl, so you tease her about them or even push her harder away, depending on the things. Then there are things you like about her, which then will make you pull towards you. This is not a technique. It’s called being a high-quality human with standards and values.

There seems to be a lot of repressed anger coming out, which is understandable. I recommend giving that part much more attention. Perhaps you already are. I notice there are still gamey stuff in your list of no gamey steps. Things like seeding, consciously getting her to qualify herself to you, and to invest in you. Texting 2-3 days and testing the waters etc — all these are part of game. I am not saying not to qualify. But qualifying happens naturally when you have standards and are looking for a specific, higher quality woman. Vibe and feel her for 15 mins. If good, take number, with the premise of hanging out. After number, chat couple messages, then go for the date setting. It doesnt have to be more complicated than that. In fact, you could also set the date sometimes while talking to the girl, right there and then. Time and day.

In order to invite people into your events and circle, you still need to approach.

Today I learned a new concept in Aesthetic Intellignece: Aesthetic Sensitivity. https://share.google/aimode/Msdqj9LHoLQqCA2Nj - - - - - While we are at it, there is also Aesthetic Coherence. https://share.google/aimode/4kiieK5qw5va9HVu7

A few tears dropped reading this. But I am listening to quite emotional music as well. Anyway, solid first post. Everything you said is pretty spot on. I have been doing this transition as well. To the point where I don’t know if I should even meet women in nightclubs anymore. Seems like there’s just too much trash there. What would be a place where higher quality woman go to? Museums? Art events? @Natasha Tori Maru @Emerald where do people like you go to in the evenings after your free time (except trolling on the internet 😉). And I totally agree on the point that if a girl is attracted to all the gamey bs and asshole behaviour, this girl is not a high quality person (is not mentally stable, cannot self-regulate and is not psychologically developed) — and someone who I have never been able to build anything meaningful and deep with. As of now, they feel like completely waste of time and instead of wasting shit ton of valuavle time on them, it’s better to, as you said, focus on finding the few higher quality leads. Man its crazy how accurate our transitions away from game is, and the timing. I’ve also been privately talking to couple other members who are having same realizations but yours is just all the way. I resonate all the way. I realized we need to connect. Let me pm you. At the end of the day, I feel fucking awful and misaligned doing all the pickup bullshit. It served me until my mid twenties but its been 5 years. I was in a relationship since then, where we dedicated ourselves to developing integrity, truth and consciousness. Now that we separated and I have gone back to unconscious sexual marketplace, the contrast is disgusting.

This is beautifully made.

Wow, what a lovely thread. In my own experience, the more mature and conscious I become, the more graceful, aesthetic and beautiful my dancing becomes — and original! I started off as a hip hop dancer which is foundationally kinda aggressive and ugly, but nowadays I have developed my own style which has a hip hop foundation but is completely beyond it. And my music taste has totally transformed. From hip hop songs to majestic ones. One could call my dancing style ’Majestic’ nowadays. I still visit my foundations from time to time as it has its own beauty and its where my roots are from, but my developed style is just a completely different phenomena in its level of beauty. This thread gave me a bunch of clarity into understanding all this change. Thanks guys!

What can you expect from monkeys?

Leo is correct here. Women are generally more interested in feel good vibes and emotions, whereas men are more interested in hard facts and truths. Doesnt mean that neither are full of shit.

That’s how intelligent God is in hiding from itself.

I cant with your 7400 posts while using that profile picture

Wait until you realize that even in a community like this, theres too many people interested in crap. Also, go tell people in this thread how it is:

Again, you can understand where they are coming from, but not connect with them. That’s the whole point here. You can understand a stage red terrorist, but have zero emotional connection, nor any connection to them.

Then what is that but acting / having a character where you don’t tell your honest opinions but hide them?

You would be disagreeing with too many things if you were honest and authentic.

Lol, me at my peak social mood. Ask the few guys here who has gone out clubbing with me hah. I am not often in this mood tho, especially when going out solo. Or since I kinda know everyone in my city, being too hyper is counter productive. I just often chill, and let them come to me. I’m kinda a mini celebrity here.

Yes. I ”cry” about this here all the time. My nickname could be ”lonely” lol. As an extrovert, it is extra bad. Introverts have it easy doing this work, in so many freaking ways. I can make it manageable by socializing a ton to find a few rare gems here and there. I recently just broke up from a long term relationship so it definitely affects. In a year of socializing, I’m sure to find a few rare gems to add into my immediate circle of friends. Also, finding and focusing on your life purpose is another key to deal with loneliness. Getting more in touch with God is the ultimate solution. But this is not accesible for most.

I’m completely with you here.