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If AI, robots, mechanical structures serves the purpose of natural nature and humankind better than they do, then it is just natural to be replaced. Just like we replaced any living mechanisms that were dominated Earth before us.

@aurum @Emerald Think of it this way: The man has his life purpose as priority number 1. The woman probably has his husband and family on a higher priority than her life purpose - OR her purpose is the family she creates. This is the nature of female and male (generally). Males loves to go out and conquer, and to leave a legacy. Women are all about maintaining and investing into relationships, being present to the moment and enjoying Now. In this way, the woman invests in the relationship more than the man. I don’t see myself ever putting my significant other over my mission in life. And I don’t think I would be very attracted to a woman who is as ambitious / masculine as I am. Again, not saying she cannot have her own career, but we don’t necessarily need 2 crazy visionary leaders who are always out there conquering the world. And the mission is for me and humanity, not just for my significant other - altho she can reap some of the benefits of the rewards of the work. But only if she has put serious work and investment in our relationship. Makes sense?

Getting girls require more than just looks, unless you are really on the top 1% of looks. I am above average in looks and girls come to me left and right, and I credit that a lot to my personality and game. Looks definitely help me a lot tho, unlike what the dating coaches want you to believe.

You can push it in a healthy way, or unhealthy way. And if you sell yourself as a spiritual leader, people are looking upto you. You have an extra layer of responsibility to do things ethically.

No worries, as I mature myself, I find older & older women more attractive as well. I’ve also bumped into some surprisingly good looking women in their early 40s

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Don't forget that the algorithm knows that you love his content, so it will push his content for you, and yet it is the 4th! Also, his content from over a decade ago is like 100X more algorithm-friendly than his later years.

I respect the self-awareness and integrity to correct yourself. Yes, devastating health issues are definitely one of the top ones.

Try searching now, and perhaps you'll find them on the 4th or 5th page

Ah, Leo just made a blogpost about the algorithm. But see Leo? Trying to run a fully ethical and honest business in this world is not as easily done as said. We had this discussion last year, I believe. You made your millions doing unethical shit, and so it is easy to talk about ethical business now, sitting on your high horse And in the first place, what even is a fully honest and ethical business? How does that even look like in practice? It's a freak show out there. Raw survival. All the big players are gonna devour you, if you even attempt to be so foolish as to think about being a fully truthful player. But yeah, gotta agree with Rafael, the blogposts have lately been pure wisdom and insights, en masse. How the hell do you puke such depth and original thoughts out, in such a fast pace, is beyond me. Disgustingly good.

There are definitely cases where suicide is and should be the answer. And those cases are more than you would believe. It’s a fantasy to think that we are in such a world where suicide is never the answer.

Changes to the algorithm have directly cut his business in half in the past. The current algorithm rewards and pushes mindless shit. Leo's stuff is the complete opposite of that = no organic pushing by the algorithm.

It's called evolution.

Beautiful.

It's easy to fall into such an idealogy, when all your interactions with women all your life has been negative and more or less, brutally rejected. You can try and keep shoving your hand on a hot stove and get burned, but at what point will you give up?

@Emerald Got it. From my own experience tho, I would say for the attraction to remain healthy in a serious long-term relationship, the girl should invest slightly more. I find it healthiest for attraction, when I am focused on my mission and life purpose and she takes a more supportive wife/gf/partner role. Not saying that she cannot have her own career, but that her ambitions are nowhere near as high as mine. But I am an extremely ambitious person.

Be with her for experience, you are young as hell. You are not running out of time to date around anytime soon. Think of it this way: you are learning relationship skills for when you actually do meet that girl you spend your life with. You are also learning what types of girls you like and what you dislike to be in a relationship with.

Why call it a prize then? Just simply call it basic respect & love for your partner.

Taking initiative and being proactive is very different to chasing and putting the girl on pedestal. Completely opposite honestly. You don’t care, that’s why you can approach confidently, self-amusingly.

Yes, it’s always 10X easier and more enjoyable to lie to yourself and seek affirming communities and idealogies, than to face yourself in the mirror and do the hard, painful work. Hence self-deception runs amok in humanity.

Maybe because when this first starts from your childhood, and continues all thorough your life for decades, it’s a completely different game than when it happens now that you have exhausted and burned that sexual and intimacy need so much. I’m only 30 but I’m starting to feel and understand Leo more and more on this department. I’ve gotten so much sex and intimacy needs exhausted that at this point, the shit, drama & untruthfulness one needs to go through to get sex & intimacy (at least from normies, aka 99% of people) isn’t necessarily worth it for me anymore. From this point, having girls suddenly disgusted with me? Fine, not too bad. But as a child, where social validation is literally life or death for me? Where I haven’t developed the intelligence to know that there are other shit in life to pursue than just sex and intimacy? Where I haven’t exhausted any of my sexual and intimacy needs? Come on brother.

@Never_give_up I sympathize with you. And I know for a fact now that if someone like you were to work on all the inner issues you have, it would take tremenduous work. Especially when people like you probably don’t have the money to be throwing to therapists, coaches, trauma workers etc. and for years and decades. When I was in my early 20s, I thought more like @BlessedLion. I truly believed that everyone in dark spaces could with effort, deal and heal their deep inner issues - and we could all live in a beautiful harmony, full of love and selflessness (what drives ENFJs). Growing up, being in the space for over a decade, coaching people myself, seeing so many people working on themselves for years & decades (yet improve relatively only very little), I have lost hope. Not going to happen in my lifetime. I am also quite impatient and ambitious, so I have not been built to sit around and babysit people with slow care. I was built to go out there and conquer. - Sorry, I am not exactly sure what I am trying to accomplish with this. On one hand it is to articulate to myself and let the heart breaking feelings out of my system, on the other hand I just wanted to make you feel like I sympathize with you, instead of telling you ”just work hard! You can break out of it, as long as you put in the work!!” And maybe you can. But maybe it is too late. At the end of the day, reality is much harsher than what the green hippie fantasies younger me wanted.

@BlessedLion You underestimate how dark the human life can get. Also, a lot of people just don’t have the ambition and motivation to break out of such hell, and to build a beautiful life for themselves.

@Natasha Tori Maru Extroversion of you. Supposedly I am an open-book and a warm person as hell.

I always feel bad for them. Mostly because she would never be able to experience an attractive man like me (not meant to be arrogant lol). — Seems impossible to quote a second time on phone but you also say on your next post: ”If men get approached by a girl and the guy doesn’t want her, the guy is always flattered and treats her with respect and dignity.” Totally agree. I always show the girl how much I appreciate her courage, initiative and proactiveness, even when I am not interested in her.