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@Never_give_up I sympathize with you. And I know for a fact now that if someone like you were to work on all the inner issues you have, it would take tremenduous work. Especially when people like you probably don’t have the money to be throwing to therapists, coaches, trauma workers etc. and for years and decades. When I was in my early 20s, I thought more like @BlessedLion. I truly believed that everyone in dark spaces could with effort, deal and heal their deep inner issues - and we could all live in a beautiful harmony, full of love and selflessness (what drives ENFJs). Growing up, being in the space for over a decade, coaching people myself, seeing so many people working on themselves for years & decades (yet improve relatively only very little), I have lost hope. Not going to happen in my lifetime. I am also quite impatient and ambitious, so I have not been built to sit around and babysit people with slow care. I was built to go out there and conquer. - Sorry, I am not exactly sure what I am trying to accomplish with this. On one hand it is to articulate to myself and let the heart breaking feelings out of my system, on the other hand I just wanted to make you feel like I sympathize with you, instead of telling you ”just work hard! You can break out of it, as long as you put in the work!!” And maybe you can. But maybe it is too late. At the end of the day, reality is much harsher than what the green hippie fantasies younger me wanted.

@BlessedLion You underestimate how dark the human life can get. Also, a lot of people just don’t have the ambition and motivation to break out of such hell, and to build a beautiful life for themselves.

@Natasha Tori Maru Extroversion of you. Supposedly I am an open-book and a warm person as hell.

I always feel bad for them. Mostly because she would never be able to experience an attractive man like me (not meant to be arrogant lol). — Seems impossible to quote a second time on phone but you also say on your next post: ”If men get approached by a girl and the guy doesn’t want her, the guy is always flattered and treats her with respect and dignity.” Totally agree. I always show the girl how much I appreciate her courage, initiative and proactiveness, even when I am not interested in her.

I have to disagree with you here. Whenever I have pursued a woman and made her the prize (whether big or small), it has never ever worked out. And it’s not like I am repulsive and unattractive in nature. It’s been so ineffective to the point that I have grown up and eliminated that part of me completely. Now I only lead: The other way around has always been how it works best (and I have been in 4 serious relationships). She needs to see me more as a prize - but obviously I need to also see great value in her too, if we are talking about a potential serious relationship. Otherwise it doesn’t matter too much as long as she is attractive and fun enough. If she desires me bit / good chunk more than I desire her, I believe this is the best balance, when it comes to building a serious relationship. I do agree with you on the idea where the woman chases after the man hard, and the man is just meh about the girl. This ain’t good either, from my own experience as a man.

You guys are too scary and mysterious, even tho we type only 1 letter different.

@OBEler Thanks I think Alien Mind is for the advanced course. Inspired by your wish list, for years my big wish has been: Creativity !

Where the hell did you pull out that ”articles” part in the original link 🤣

Link doesn't seem to work. Can you check the correct link? I want to re-read it.

Brother, if you are a long time member here, then you should know his deepest and most fundamental thoughts and position on science. He doesn’t need to and should not write his 10-hour series on deconstructing science + all his improved thoughts and insights since the series, everytime there is a new thread discussing science. - And check your tone with which you are discussing here. As someone else pointed out, you are getting heated out of proportion.

If most people were Turquoise level conscious, practical science & practical survival would be 1000X (at least) better and more efficient, yet we struggle to even go past blue.

You can’t be serious. And you are a long time member here?

Leo is right here, Without employment (survival is deeply threatened + lots of free time), people will triple down on being people: unconscious, selfish, bullshitting & immature animals. And yes, why would the rich just give away their money? They are the epitome of selfishess. They got to where they are because of their selfishness. All this time, they could have given their money to the underdeveloped countries and starving children, but they didn't.

Bumping this up. How is it going with ya’ll who participated here? Any new insights regarding the topic? Started off very well but died off as fast.

@Emerald I was one of those kids who had to take a lot of responsibilities as a kid, and I relate a lot to what you are saying + your statements. My parents divorced early on, so my mom being in a foreign country (Finland), she didn’t speak the language. I spoke as I was born here. Also, I was the oldest of 3 children. So I kinda became the father of the family at the age of 8-10. That being said, I wonder how much I’ve become in touch with my feminine side, ”thanks” to all that in my childhood. I have probably had to do a lot of inner work directly due to my childhood. What do you think?

@en-el hak Well articulated. I’m totally with you. On top of that, I have not mastered physical survival. And on top of that, my personality craves for deep, authentic, emotional connections with people - but most people are just unconscious survival machines. Even the so-called spiritual people. Especially them. No wonder no one does the work, the existential pain is too much.

This is a more feminine quality than masculine. The latter is more masculine.

The way his model goes is this: He helps starting businesses grow into 1m a year EBITDA - completely for free via his free stuff and socials. After that, he has basically built massive trust, goodwill and finally, the businesses have proven to work and the founders are clearly hard workers who now handles the basics it takes to run a 1m a year biz. Basically indicating to Alex that it’s possibly worth investing in. This is where Alex’s Acquisation.com comes in. He takes a percentage of the company he invests in and takes it to 10m+ with his skills, knowledge and network. And there are tons of businesses interested in letting Alex take a percentage of cuz they trust him from all the free help.

The blog is an absolute goldmine. Don’t neglect it!

Very well said. As I’ve pointed out, I’m one of those sensitive guys and I attract girls left and right. That being said, I am also a very grounded, strong & healthy masculine person. Not sure which one is more valuable when it comes to attraction, but surely together they are like an atom bomb of attraction. Top that with looks and extroversion and you are God.

This is too much. If it wasn’t this bad, you could have kept seeing her for the experince and meet other people at the same time, as long as you don’t mislead her to believe you are looking for something long-term and serious with her.

Guys, Try to keep it civil and respectful or we will have to close this thread.

I meant 3469 days

Oooh, it’s that time of the year! Happpppppy 40th birthday friend! 🥳 I realized you are exactly 9 years and 6 months older than me hehe

Your profile picture is fascinating 😉