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Leo has a video “What is Actuality?” Talks about this.

Somebody once said , reality is perfect because if for some reason it would have been important to have it some other way, it would have been so. That makes sense to me. So ideal is Now.

@Tim R I was joking ?

How would we verify if it’s there or not? A camera?

Never thought about it that way, interesting. But that means a person watching would have to think that the girl/woman is yours. So it becomes owning. Can we really say that? Even in the relationship? In my opinion we don’t own anybody...

Slightly off topic but I’ve always wondered why people use this mouth-open-I’m-so-excitited thumbnails? To lock whom?

Since most of the time I don’t give a damn what people think of me I have fun with this whole subject. Push their limits ?

“You are not the center of universe” by my mother. Quite tough but fair?

Let’s choose wisely though..

Cool??

I don’t remember which movie it was but someone recommended to rub one out before the date/ interaction to calm down a bit. They said it’s easier to formulate sentences and look relaxed for the date. I would guess it applies for younger dudes. Depends what the goal is also ?

I get You. I have thought about it a lot. Feels like I’m moving to this direction. The more advanced societies in general also maybe.. The border between love and friendship has not really existed for me. There’s a little bit of jealousy left still though. At the same time I understand that we don’t own other people...I’ve been in two relationships, where including a second woman into the household was under consideration. I have of course tried to analyze if it’s the part of me that needs constant experiencing/research or is it about getting everyone’s emotional and physical needs met... Interesting subject ?

@StateOfMind I have actually watched porn with the intention to realize/sense/read if the female role gets any pleasure from the whole process. Mostly mentally analyzing I guess. Tbh it’s almost impossible for me to look at those videos if I suspect that she gets nothing from it.

@flowboy I have to agree.

Love that elephant story??

Judgmental grumpy hairy old fuck with sandals...who morphs to a 20 year old girl in a mini skirt, then to a tree, then to a dog , to a flower, to a bug , to air etc. On and on and on so fast that it happens all at once.

In my opinion it’s more discussion than arguing. There are no emotions here. Plus we’re pretty much on the same page, with somewhat different criticism. Maybe my post about shovel was a bit too much. In my opinion everything is perfect, everyone are perfect. Otherwise it would have been some other way. But we still seemingly choose our favorite teachers, right? Hawkins definitely gave me something, no doubt. For me J.Krishnamurti, R.Spira, Leo, A.Watts, R.Dass etc are just more likable. Maybe I wasn’t ready to see the world thru Hawkins eyes??Who knows. Take care?

5.45 up every day. Started with it about 2 years ago. Ca 8 h sleep seems to be optimal. 10 h and more and I get a feeling that reminds light hangover? I guess its worth testing different options to know.

I have dived into these concepts actually. And Hawkins has his points. I just didn’t fancy his measuring techniques. I have always liked tiny details, it does not mean refuse to see the big picture?

@ADVAIT I tend to analyze very carefully the theories that people spread. Just because someone enthusiasticly talks about” painting a house with a shovel ” it doesn’t mean you should try it. “Who cares how accurate it is!” does not work for me.

@ADVAIT What do you think of his calibration system? I tried to understand it... not saying that its bull but one of my first thoughts was: ” If it’s totally foolproof, why I’ve never heard anyone using it for finding missing persons or whatever?” Also he measured republicans being on higher level than liberals... Otherwise interesting person.

With all seriousness, it’s a joke. When you look at all factors... And there’s got to be tens of thousands of people that match with you in the world. Maybe hundreds. Perfect fit equals smooth sailing? A total disaster equals endless learning possibilities☺️ Edit: Lately I’ve been thinking/feeling like this: Since we are all one, whatever experiences I don’t have to/get to have , can some other person have/get. Right? So there’s no loss really...

Nature seems to be the easiest place to switch on the “observer mode”. So why not. An adventure. The answer to cure Your restlessness is not in the nature though. You have it with you;)

Sweden, near Stockholm.

Or we can agree that an experiment with 3.5 billion Martha Stewarts and 3,5 billion Donald Trumps would be far less interesting.