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@Holdup are you completely independent of the good or bad opinion of others ? why do you not allow overweight women ? is it because society will think that you don't make a good couple ? if you would somehow make an amazing connection with an overweight women and you would feel for her a lot like somehow you would get very very attracted towards her .. would you date her in public ? whatever judgments you make on other you make on yourself .... and other peoples judgments affects you only when you believe in it .

@John detatchment helps sparking attraction.

@foninja try the sedona method to release emotions

@mystic sedona method 1. feel the emotion 2. ask yourself could I let go of the emotion 3. ask yourself would I let go of the emotion 4. ask yourself when would I let go of the emotion. Repeat the steps till the emotions passed

@Tenortone21 i will coach you, tell me your problems... I have gone through a lot of psychology concepts for quite some time, the working of the human mind is the same for every one, if you follow the instructions I give you your life will certainly change for the better, but if you want results you have to do the exercises that I give you on a daily basis. Always remember Change is the only constant, some people try so hard trying to resist change like it was even possible. :-)

@Leo Gura how would you guarantee results when nothing is guaranteed ? like supercharge your life in 3 months ? or 6 months ? would your clients actually get 100% results ? you had laid down certain types of rules for coaching clients.. are those rules necessary ?

20 years from now this forum will be full of genius's from different fields and without massive egos.

1 change minsets from competitor to creator 2 change mindset from scarcity to abundance 3 cleaning up my diet 4 adding 10 min to my meditation practice 5 testing the waters for my life calling

I'm Popeye the sailor man I'm Popeye the sailor man I'm strong to the fin-ich Cause I eats me spin-ach I'm Popeye the sailor man. This was the first thing that came in my mind when I saw your post...

@Doddie whats the root cause of your Addiction? Fear of emptiness probably... Identify that and just feel the emotion completely, meditation exercise eating clean all this will help you build will power also folding your bedsheet first thing in the morning will help you build will power

@IVONNE men are logical creatures, we defy emotions for logic.I feel that both men and women feel the same on the inside, and everyone is different so you cannot generalise,have you considered that you would get a crystal clear understanding of what he feels if you ask him and not the guys here?

Hey,anyone who just wants to make a connection for no reason?

I am my greatest enemy, there is no such thing as difficult and toxic people it all comes back to me, I am the cause of all my emotions not anyone or anything.. The I has to die and it will.

@IraMendoza sweetheart ... because you gave up the bad habits that made you feel full you are now feeling empty ,just let that feeling flow through you , that emptiness is a void that everyone has but they try to fill it with drugs,sex,money , life purpose etc but it can never get filled that's the secret curse of humans; however what you can do is change your perception , you can see actualized.org latest video to help you understand about this ...and even at first if you don't understand son't worry you are not alone but stick around ... have patience you will get used to this and your life will transform...

@Selena@step1 what you need is intrinsic motivation , motivation from the inside , money, sex or friends ain't going to give you anything of true value, these are all extrinsic motivation and they tend to fade away with time or as you acquire them ... visualization is a good strategy you could apply.

@Rocky when i would smoke weed and meditate i would notice my head spinning and i would not be able to meditate i would feel very very uneasy more of something pushing my head not spinning exactly.

@Eli nothing is good or bad but thinking makes it so. Which means that from the time we are living we are labelling emotions good or bad and thus when we experience it we feel good or bad.if you do the exercise Leo mentioned in the master your emotions you will notice that your moods will change temporarily but as soon as you stop you will realise that those emotions will come back because of years and years of conditioning.when you are passive about the emotions you would want to practice feeling it completely without any judgements be mindfull of the negative conversation in your mind while feeling the emotions and just surrender to it because thats the only thing you can do to a emotion. Resistance causes pain let go of resistance. However if you want to deal with emotional issues then practice meditation. And perhaps enlightenment I don't know much about enlightenment.

Uninvited pain is at its peak, I'm speechless but I want to speak, Against the crowd, but on my feet All I can do is hope. I'm trapped in this open cage, With beasts who are full of rage, If death is near before its age, All I can do is hope.

I've dropped my religious beliefs last year, yesterday out of no where this golden nugget entered my mind Ask and you shall receive ( ask the right questions to your self and you will receive the right answers) Seek and you shall find(your life calling) Knock and it shall be opened to you ( knocking is like taking action consistently, massive amounts of action)

@charlie2dogs i don't know.

@Kelley White thank you kelley

Maybe it's not to late, to learn how to love and forget how to hate. Mental wounds not healing, life's a bitter shame I'm going down the rails of a crazy train.

Actulized.org is the map. Leo's videos are the cake. The wisdom he shares is the key to jail brake from the prison of your mind

@BHL_20 each time you control your impulse you are building your willpower up. Letting go of control is doing nothing.

@Maccoy you don't really know it bro you just understand it intellectually an affirmations is to set a Grove in your mind your act is a symptom of whats going on in your mind..enlightenment is an extestential truth but most of us are blinded by the illusion which we can break with years and years of meditation and enlightenment work or it can happen by chance also I don't know all this but I've been learning all this since some time.