Elton

@Mal hahahahaha and how do you know Vishal is correct? See there is no right and wrong but thinking makes you believe that there is something called as right and wrong

Aaaaa I feel i'm being open minded when Im accepting what Leo says he doesn't just concoct things from thin air he is a pro at personal development... He has referenced many books and I don't know may be what he says is not the truth but there is something that tells me I should follow his advice.. Ya transition is cool but it might take years.. I'm just following the plateaury process in personal development.. But thinking about the next stage is good cause I'll know when I'm there...

But actions, I have control of...

I observed that I have no control over my thoughts I experienced this first hand today.

Orange would be exploiting others for personality development, being results oriented,being a workaholic..

okay will keep you posted on this , tomorrow my meditation will be about focused observation and leaving behind concepts, now i will rest and enjoy abundance hypnosis ..

My rational mind tells me that that was an ego defence mechanism. I'm sorry about that but I can't understand the concept of no self I don't put in enlightenment work but I do meditation work... I will start working on enlightenment too but maybe later after I find my life purpose..

This thought came in my mind when I read your post again the image of me typing with my feet ' hi ' thats what I will have to do to tell you Enlightened guys that I exist ! who, who, who is typing this??? My hands are not doing it automatically, my eyes and hands are doing it with the controller which is the brain. And I am controlling the brain. See I will write r 4 times r r r e, who did not want to do what he said he would do? it was this entity here? Who is feeling frustrated this entity over here¡!

@Ire@arletbode@Elton By solving the Upper Limit Problem you live in the Zone of Genius

This question has caused turbulence in my mind...I don't need any outer validation....I'll just try to feel this emotion completely.

When I was in a situation of a break up 6 years ago my university exams were going on, I used the following technique to stop being disturbed from the loop that I was thinking about again and again.. The break up.. I was studying about acoustics and a scientist called sabine used the open window as a refrence to measure reflection of sound I got a idea from that, I used the negative loop as a reference to know that I was off track and would come back to my studies... Sounds very simple but I feel its powerful because we keep thinking about situations that we don't like, why do we do that? Better is to use that itself as a refrence and to be aware that your disturbed.

@Ayla i usef to think that I could prevent thoughts for few seconds but my brain labels see hear and feel when I try doing it,but I still think that I can prevent thoughts for 2-3 seconds.

It is not the caugh that carries you off,it is the coffin that carries you off in.

How happy the blameless vestles lot,the world forgotten by the world forgot,eternal sunshine of a spotless mind,each prayer accepted each wish resigned.

@Displayname i saw a movie on this, and reading your story got me emotional.. I am really pleased that you have so much courage and I've drawn inspiration from this post of yours...

@Flower why not meditation?

@Ayla i don't really remember forgiving anyone... I know that I get angry and vindictive, but that feeling goes away and then I forget about the situation but I don't sit down and consciously forgive someone, do you think that it might have an effect in my life and deep down I might get angry? I think that might be the case...

@IVONNE by loving her in return of her meanness...

@jes Thumbs-up , switch to + ve motivation a.s.a.p.

@Oneness a psychological coach who can makes you laugh is a very rare thing! And I feel its a very good idea..

@Abhijeeth it is a result of aligning your self with the values.

@Ire @arletbode In the Big Leap there is on example in which on guy dies working himself to death.. The author told him to start doing what he loves at least one hour daily... following your bliss would be the key to find your Zone of Genius, the Zone of Excellence is the one where you get comfortable and in which society wants you to be, Even I didn't find how to find the Zone of Genius in the first reading, so reading it again.. Try to take down few notes if you can and do the exercises, follow the process and forget about the results.. (finding the Zone of Genius)

I've been trying to apply the core concepts in my current job and man its so dam tough to do it in a career your not passionate about, but still there is a lot of satisfaction in life when you apply the life purpose course core concepts, this is just the warm up round, have to still find my purpose of life but it feels like hell sometimes, yesterday experienced the Upper Limit Problem everyday I experience if little but yesterday I blew it and it was quite obvious that I was ulping :-) I see funniness everywhere! ✨ Now I will learn how to stop being a victim ( doing the job I'm currently working) and will do those exercises in hope to be free from this job that tries to suck all my life, but it cannot because I'm on the hero's journey. I also had an insight while yesterday night, that if I keep applying these concepts in the field I love greatness will be a choice,and Leo is not kidding when he says you Can create an extraordinary life..

@Fadi Alarabi you are acting like a victim, even I act like one most of times..take 100 percent responsibility of everything. Also check out the new video as well as part one of how to atop being a victim, externals aren't the real issue.

Just last year i had been on a trip to Shimla and Manali in India these are some really beautiful places to visit , it was my college trip and i was super excited to go there...when we were in the train we were all enjoying the freedom we thought we had being away from home we were listening to music and dancing and screaming and i was really tired by evening ... One old man with his wife were sitting next seat they lived near Shimla and were going back home ... In the night the temperature began to drop I cannot tolerate the cold and we were in the general compartment so was feeling very cold all the warm clothes were packed and locked in the suitcase and i was too lazy to get it out and wear it so i decided to be awake in the night, i was a heavy smoker at that time just last year in Jan... So I began talking to this old guy asked him how to fight the cold as i would be staying there for a week or so , took some tips simple ones (drink soup and tea) and all few min later that guy started talking about life and the art of living and i was very curious .. He pointed out to me that the freedom we thought we had wasn't really freedom and just one hour into the dancing that we were really tired and not later in the evening.. he told me that to succeed we should detach from money and not worry about anything and whatever we needed would naturally be attracted to us ... His wife claimed she didn't understand him for years lol :-P (me practicing meditation for a while now i see why) and he told me to come and stay with him for few days , I don't know if I was wise or not but i decided to stick with my class and didn't go with them .. But that guy still remains in my consciousness not his face and all but I still remember .. Why did he call me with him ? why only me ? what would my life be if i'd be brave enough and gone with him...was that a call that i rejected .. i don't know !! A month later went for an industrial visit with my class and at that time I was rejected from a girl , the rejection being very fresh had caused a lot of distress at that time and i wanted an external fix, one girl in my class started telling me about meditation and her experiences; being a new member of actiualized.org at that time i would frantically watch videos of Leo to dampen the wounds of my bruised ego and i came across his video of how to meditate and now i meditate daily i just hope this sticks forever. I was searching for life's answers at that point of time , why do we live .. what is the point of life ? what is the purpose ? and i found this... for few months i would think i'm a pro at meditation and i know the deepest mysteries but after practicing it day after day now i feel i'm totally unaware , it is micro therapy and it ain't always pleasant and its effects are also not that as a magic pill , but i do trust this process and i have faith that it will bring something magical just the way it entered my life ...