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@zeroISinfinity yes
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@XYZ i don't think I can explain the unexplainable. But I have had an insight which might already been taught by others. To experience being focus on emptiness use distraction as a bell to focus again.. However I realized this technique the practice of this is very difficult for me at the moment.. so focusing on breath or body awareness could also help..
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Happiness is an attitude. You can be happy when you take ownership of your own life. Unconditional happiness is when you're a total victim yet you remain happy. This could be only possible if you were really funny on the inside.. But when you make a commitment towards happiness, you kind of start taking ownership of your life and refuse to be a victim. Happiness is a attitude.
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@BobbyLowell yes that's true but now i feel I must reconsile with the people I have problems with as it could be my own projection.
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I get this feeling that people don't like me... Because I don't like to share things with them and I don't expect anything in return too but their vibes are not very good... I feel like everyone wants something from me... Why should they get anything from me? I don't get anything from them... I just want to detach from all and not give a fuck but always I come back in the same loop feeling bad because of others opinions of me... I cannot get along with people after some time...initially I can get along very well but I ultimately cannot. I hate people they think that I'm selfish but the truth is that everyone is selfish.
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@Wisebaxter i cut down on weed cigerette and junk food all together and of course alcohol too... Food gives me the most cravings so once a week I can eat some junk food if I want to.. It's been more than 100 days now I used 2020. New decade new life auxim.
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This problem is solved now through pc exercise and massage
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I just realised that I am suffering from erectile dysfunction, its very hard and emotionally taxing, I am unable to maintain erections. All I want to do is make my woman happy but its sad to realise that I can't. I feel so so so so low on confidence and self esteem, can anybody help me out please. Can lack of concentration be the cause? Can lack of confidence be the cause? Can fear and worry be the cause? Is this condition reversible, have some compassion and reply to my post. Most of the time no one even replies to me. Sometimes I wish that I'd never been born at all...
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Is there anyone else on this forum ? Just like me ? Who always tries to change ... But never succeeds. .. it's been 4 years now I've been trying to change trying to quit smoking, trying to find and live my life purpose but always I get stuck in the same behaviour patterns. I tend to feel bad on a regular basis not living up to my full potential not being able to change... I have stopped watching leo too due to the advanced topics he now covers how can I get back in track, I feel so lost and frustrated.. I need to make quick change..
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@mohdanas hi mohdasnas glad to meet you I have made a lot of progress these last 4 months, have gone nofap for 90 days had penetrative sex 3 times just finished a solo meditation retreat of 50 hours not neglecting my day to day activities..found my life purpose and developed a plan to get there.. made a vision board and have learnt yoga too and application of knowledge is also taking place.. Hope you are fine and everything is good with you..
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Elton replied to Elton's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
@Shmurda thanks for the advice I wish I could do that but I am working from home and cannot avoid work responsibilities at least have to check emails from time to time... but that's a lot for your advice really appreciate it will try doing more hours today.. ? -
Hi guys ? I'm posting after a long time on the form hope you all are in good health... So since April 1st I have been doing this solo meditation retreat and unfortunately I am able to do like only 6 hours on an average daily, mostly doing the do nothing techniques combined with strong determination sitting, vipassana and ana Pana methods.. I have had few insights but these are just limited to my personal ego. I have had a stiff neck and want to believe that it got something to do with my throat chakra opening up as I have been also practicing the practices of kriya yoga from the book kriya secrets revealed. Is my assumption right ? Until now no profound experiences as such and I'm beginning to have self doubt about all this ... Am I just wasting time ? Are these hours going to be helpful for me even if I don't experience anything.. the suffering emotions seems to come up a lot. But in reference to the niti niti method I can't find the I within me and then who is the one that is suffering? Even though I can feel the suffering in the feeling body it is not constant but that doesn't help me to end the suffering either. Also realizing that all the suffering are based on lies although one book made me realize this but have grasped it And kind of integrating it always asking the question it it true ? Hope you guys are making the most of the lock down and this is a blessing for me actually, I have been reading meditating exercising and journalling more and have more peace of mind. So I'm on day 7 today doing to be doing 6 hours till I finish 10 days.. I wanted to do 13 hours a day but this is what I can do and when I criticise I Rob myself of my future right .. So please feel free to give me advise on some exercises I can do to achieve some profound states or some advice to end suffering except for psychedelics cause I am not ready for them at the moment and thanks for everything every one who have supported me in this journey here I am grateful to each and every one each and every comment..
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Dear All Life coaches, My name is Elton Mascarenhas and using the Life Purpose course I have found out my life purpose a few months ago, I reside in Mumbai in India and Life Coaching is not so popular here, here counseling is more popular and people don't like to visit psychiatrist or psychologist (at least the people who I know) (maybe its a limiting belief). Can any Life coaches out there help me as I don't know which courses I can do to become a Life Coach, Please help me with where I can get a certified degree so that I can start practicing this for REAL. I would also prefer online courses to do from home so that I could transition from my current job to becoming a coach. I am also worried about not being able to make a living if I do become a coach. As these professions are not so popular here. @Leo Gura you are one, my role models, for many years please suggest. @MIARIVEL you are also one of the two coaches I know, so I would want your advice too. any other life coaches please give me suggestions regarding the courses and I would like to hear feedback regarding the earning potential too as I don't want to die of poverty.
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@Leo Gura when is your subconscious course coming out, I feel only that can help me now... I have been unable to re program over the years and I feel I've come back to the same point where I started..
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I keep comparing myself with others that add on to my misery , can't stop being a wage slave, reading books and audio books journalling also not helping I can't manage to do them on a regular basis too... I managed to be attractive to the opposite sex however can't perform sex ... Does anyone know how to rapidly change everything I just want to have amazing sex live my life purpose be financially free and super healthy. I'm 28 now and I feel that time is slipping away, not being able to have sex is killing me from the inside.. Help me someone
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The path towards self actulization is very difficult. Happiness is external. Making millions of dollars is not possible now. Psychedelics are bad. I'm fundamentally flawed. I can't materialise my life purpose into money. I can't find my life purpose. I have to complete the life purpose course to find my life purpose. I need to smoke. No results in all these areas so figured out that these are accurate limiting beliefs. How do you change a belief guys ? Currently working on craving with Headspace... I realized that it is essential to journal and implementation of the lesson can help. I have to try it I'll share the results with you guys.
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Today dealt with craving and one of the most feminine force I have met. Through breathing Not accumulating thoughts in the head nor in the genitals . Breathing and bring thought aweness dips in public but will try tomorrow.
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@Matt8800 i have already watched the moralising vedio ... But I don't feel its being used irresponsibily but used as a strategy to brake free from morality by using the truth.
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The cultural and society condition tells us what is right and what is wrong, our inner compass results from our outer compass created by family/religion/culture. Practicing morality can result in good spitiual growth as it will prevent us from unnecessary emotions like guilt. Recontextualization in terms of moral and cultural views is not easy to do, and the emotions that come with this attempt cannot be bypassed. But if reality is just an illusion than all the negative emotions are illusions too and also are the positive ones... To be really honest I'm at a point where morality is fucking with my emotions and I feel a lot of guilt on my chest. Body awareness can definitely be used to let go of guilt, but why does the author of radical honesty think that it is necessary to be radical honest to your partner about the past, why isn't being radical honest about the present enough ? Being honest about the past will always bring the risk of being judged, demonized and abandoned.
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@universe lol
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I'm looking for a girlfriend..I know this is not a dating forum but it's difficult to find self actualization people in normal day to day life..
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@Shroomdoctor i have the same problem I start with full enthusiasm but then I stop maybe due to lack of descipline or homeostasis or lack of definite purpose in life. In my journey of self actualization I came across this guy named Martin Meadows. He has written several books on self descipline and has some audio courses on udemy too.. he also had a one to two week email course which was very helpful to me... Self descipline is like mastery to do it in one area of your life in which you really want to apply it then it will automatically branch into other parts of your life.
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Immediately get back to the thing that is resisted, you have to take action quickly. Speed in getting back on track is essential.
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@Shin yea the past is the past.. But I see rigid patterns of repetitive behaviour.@Key Elements finding someone who accepts me for who I am and finding out about boundaries/ values sounds good at the same time scary to me. Courage , honesty and faith and the willingness to change and perhaps re- frame the ego may save me.
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@Key Elements what if no one accepts me for my past I have the possibility of staying alone then all my life which I don't want.