Karmadhi

What places are you going man Even in the meh clubs of my city (which is not that great for girls), i can usually find 8-10 girls worth approaching, especially since girls change every 1 hour or so (some leave, some come etc). Plus John is not claiming to get 70 numbers of 9/10 looking girls, probably he approaches anything 7/10 or higher.

In a big club in a city full of hot girls like south america where he lives or las vegas in your case it should not be that hard. Like i go in clubs in my city and i easily find 20+ girls in a place much worse. In clubs girls are usually dressed up and wear clothes that make them look their best to the point of catfishing so i doubt it is hard. Even a 6 can become a 7.5-8 in a club.

I have noticed you always use nightclubs as examples. With drunk girls things are quite different. I know a girl that made out with a guy in a club that she found very ugly because she was drunk as fuck. It would never happen in a sober setting. Do these guys you mentioned get equal results during the day or through social circle? So in places where girls are sober?

That is not even evil though. He is not hurting or killing anyone. And he definetly has compassion, i dont know why you think he does not. Keep in mind some of his videos he is playing a personna, in his interviews he seems very likable and interesting where he is being himself properly. He is quite narcisisitic though for sure, however most successful people tend to be so unfortunately.

1. Evil does not exist. 2. Even if he did, how is he exactly evil? His worldview is toxic yes however i think young men these days need his attitude a lot. Young men today are so fucking lazy, victim mindsets and soft that his advice would benefit them a lot if they apply it correctly and ignore some of the toxic elements.

Do you think this is also somewhat personal taste? Personally, i prefer a 9/5 job than doing my own thing. I am not really an entreprenuer kind of person, i enjoy working in a decent firm more. However the nature of the job is really important so doing something you like in a firm versus doing your own thing. Is one clearly superior to the other or is it subjective depending on individual taste

So i have noticed that Leo among others say that a female will get attracted to guys she sees as higher value than herself. So this means in turn that in a couple, the guy will usually be higher value (according to her perception of value) at least. For example, females find much more if the guy earns less than them than the guy does. Same for confidence, same for neediness, same for status, ambition etc. Meanwhile guys do not care if a girl is below his percieved value that much, so if she is less attractive than him physically. So does this mean that in turn females prefer to be inferior in a couple? This may sound mysogonistic as fuck (and it is kinda) but i just wanted this clarified for me. It really confuses me when Leo and others say that females will get attracted only to guys they percieve to be higher value than herself. Meanwhile i rarely see average looking guys not getting attracted to average looking girls (im using the guys defintion of value). So a guy is more much tolerant about this shit than the girl, at least from what i have noticed.

If you re a soft nice guy like a lot of men are these days, especially in developed countries then he will be a good counter balance to that. I really like his no fucks given attitude and has a lot of stage blue and orange wisdom to him, especially when it comes to mental fortitude. He can get overlooked for some "asshole loud mouth player" but he has better psychology and mental mastery than most guys out there. However, i heavily disagree with his political, society and conspiracy views. Just ignore those and focus more on his advice on how to make you a stronger and less fucks given person. Also he has this amaizing video that i always watch whenever i feel bad or hopeless with girls. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=stZN7F1orq8

So i have in the last 2 years tried actively to improve my social skill and made quite some progress. The fields i have made progress have been mostly in becoming more expressive, so smiling more, laughing more, laughing harder, being more emotional in the way i talk, having a higher delta of vocal tonality etc etc. However, i have also noticed that this does make me more likable but i feel like seducting is something else. It is more chill, focused on a specific type of eye-contact, more sophisticated, bit more serious and brutal. How do i balance these two? So basically i feel like the first "mode" as we can call it, is a bit platonic and will make me likable but attraction wise? I do not know atm how to juggle the two "modes" I know the ideal is to combine both but for me at the moment seems impossible. I cannot be high energy, funny, expressive and at the same time to be chill, seductive, dominant energy and ruthless attitude (masculine energy 101). Any advice?

Honestly, i do not know. Getting a guy like this has its pros and cons. Pros is that you get a guy you are highly attracted to and is high value. Cons is that he knows that and will not put up with much BS from you and you will feel a bit scared that he might leave you for someone else. That is the issue of dating very desired people by society. You never know how long it will last, especially since guys tend to like sexual variety. So up to you, you will not loose anything by trying. However if you want my advice, do not date such guys seriously. Most likely they will break your heart. Such guys are good for casual stuff. Try to find a high value guy that is less popular with girls if you want something serious that is also safe and fulfilling. Yes, they do exist trust me

HHAAHHAHAHAHAAAHAHAHHAHAHA bro you made my day with this i swear That is not how girls work.

Would you consider statements as "Jelousy is a feminine trait" and stuff like this toxic or sexist? I have seen quite a bit of Owen and RSD old videos where they talk about females and tbh i did not find much mysogonistic stuff there, at least not more than you would find in a book like "The Red Queen" or "The Way of the Superior Man". Saying women want to date masculine alpha males and hate soft betas is kinda true. Maybe i missed something? Yes pick up can def be toxic af but it is the pick up itself in general more than what RSD was saying specifically.

Then become a bit more ruthless and do not moan about having to cancel off some girls after giving them a good time. They would do it to you without flinching, so would other guys to girls. It is really good that you have such a high level of empathy, i also have some strict rules that i do not break at the cost of my success (not going for girls with boyfriends even if she is down for eg) but for the sake of practice, keep doing what you have been doing. It will be worth it, every great country is build under a mountain of corpses.

Plus bro, dating is a brutal, ruthless business. It is not sunshine and rainbows. You will break a shit lot of hearts and your heart will be broken a lot of times too. That is the nature of dating. Of course try to minimize it but sometimes to make an omlett you have to break a few eggs. If you had to break 10 girl's hearts in your journey to getting better with girls you should do it without blinking once. Keep in mind that heartbreak makes people stronger, you are not killing them you know. I am grateful for all my heartbreaks, they made me much stronger emotionally, you should be too if you had any.

Beauty is subjective, do not use "ugly girls" as a phrase please. Just tell them what girls tell to guys when they dumb them. "Im not feeling the same way anymore sorry". Works for girls so it should work for you too. From now on go for girls you are actually attracted to, since you are getting good results with the ones that you are not. Do not assume a more attractive girl will be less likely to be into you.

I really enjoy doing that and meeting new people. However i do not enjoy the making moves part that much. To me it seems as i am doing this to get the girl and hence her love/sex and nothing more. Especially the physical part aka touching her and shit.

How can i develop a vision regarding pick up? I already have decent social skills, plenty of friends and enjoy my life as it is. To me pick up is just about getting laid and doing something that scares you to some extent. Except this there is nothing i see as benefits that i do not already have. How can i reframe it in a way to motivate me where it is not just about the quality of the dating life? I would understand for someone that has bad social skills or very introverted but i already have worked on it years ago and now i am quite comfortable with who i am and do not struggle meeting people and making friends.

How does this work? I honestly am very confused about it. There are girls that are very into me and with those i can make a lot of mistakes and they will still tag along and want to date/fuck me. Unfortunately these girls are quite rare. Then there are other girls (most) that basically cross me out with the slightest "mistake" that i make. MUCH MUCH more unforgiving. How does this work? Why some girls can tolerate "bad game" or mistakes MUCH MORE than others. What determines whether a girl is into you or not. So if a girl is into me she can tolerate worse game than if she is not. What determines that.

What did Trump do actually? I am not American and remember when he was elected in 2016 we were all like, omg trump will ruin everything, it will be so bad etc. But then, nothing happened. Like he had some BS with north korea, iran and EU but no big harm was done (no wars either). It seems to me that his presidency was just meh, blank, no good , no bad done. I am talking from an ignorant european pov here, so idk internally in the USA what damage he did (or if he did anything good). I was expecting a lot worse from him though

If the girl is girly she will be playful and flirty instead of cool and cold. To me the girl in hand is either very shy or just not into the guy a lot. Not saying he cannot turn it around though, he can for sure.

You are right however i am curious, what is the girl's job then? It seems as if the guy has to basically carry the whole date, should it not be more fair if the girl also puts in some effort? It seems to me that if the girl does not put any effort then she must not be very attracted to you in the first place. At least from my limited experience when the girl was clearly into me she sexualized, and did a lot of things to make it effortless for me. Or maybe she was a more proactive girl? Idk honestly.

What matters is not how hot the girl is, but how you think she percieves you! I will give you a personal example. I might be decent looking (5.75-6/10) max and when i interact with attractive caucasian girls i tend to be like you, i feel like they re out of my league etc. However, when it comes to Asian girls i am much more confident and entitled. Why? Because i have noticed due to my appearance (i got baby face), a lot of them find me cute. This has lead to me having this delusional confidence with them and whenever i talk with one, no matter how attractive she is, i feel like she wants me, like i can easily get her if my game is on point. Why i feel this way? Because a lot of them have showed interest in the past. I got this based on my appeanrace but you can also get it based on your game or other stuff. As long as u get positive experience you ll start becoming more entitled. How you get more positive exprience? By talking to a lot of hot girls.

Bro as long as you arent creepy you re good. Just dont approach during the night on the street unless its a super busy area (outside bars/clubs), learn to handle rejection if she is not interested, smile, dress well (VERY IMPORTANT), be casual etc. If you are really really paranoid make sure there arent any cops close when you approach.

What about non-club settings? Same requirements?

Hey guys. I am making this post because i am honestly tired with treated like garbage by girls, like i do not exist and being ruthlessly punished by the slightest mistake i make. I see guys that legit have nothing more than me get laid or have girlfriends but when it comes to me, no girl wants more with me than a first date (if i even get that). At first i thought it was my looks, i tried to improve it (workout and get in great shape, good cologne, good clothes, haircut, gromming etc). I also though it was my personality (tried to improve my humour, flirting, charisma, expressiveness etc). None worked more than a make out or a first date. None made me relationship material or a girl wanting to love me or seriously date me. Having a healthy circle of both male and female friends, life purpose, hobbies, knowledge of a lot of different things, integrity and uplifting others did not help much either (outside being good friend material). Should i just try to go for average or below average looking girls? I just want to be feel desired and loved by someone for once. It is something all my friends have experienced at least once if not multiple times (even if they did not eventually get with those people) but i basically never experienced it. What should i do? I feel like there is nothing wrong with me but at the same time what i have experienced shows me there definetly is. I know guys less confident than me, more logical than me, more serious than me, less social than me, less interesting or kind than me that still got at least 1 girl to love them. Should i just try to go for girls no one wants to date? I know society's "standards" for what makes a girl "valuable" are totally fucked up and basically focus on appearnaces but that does not show anything regarding the person inside. Maybe one of those meh looking girls is a great person inside that just wants to be loved by someone and never got it due to society focusing on the hot girls? Maybe such a girl could love me? I am confused. I need advice please. PS: I have been going out on dates with girls on the last 6 months and outside improving my dating skills to the point where i can get semi consistantly a make out at the end of the date, nothing else changed much. My "game" got better but the girl's desire to properly date me did not improve much and i was always punished really harshly for the slightest mistake. I really doubt every single couple out there, the guy never made ANY mistakes during the whole courting process.