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It's still out there.

@Psychonaut This sounds awful. No person should have this much authority over you. Do you have friends you can reach out to about this? Professional help?

@integral Dull, dead inside, worn out, unfulfilled, like something is missing.

It's fine to speak out about people who treated you like shit without being blamed for doing so. One day he won't care anymore.

Don't listen to coaches who throw this around (like Corey Wayne). Their aim is to make money off you and give you temporary solutions that adress symptoms instead of the root cause, encouraging you to come back for more. Their advice is harmful when it comes to forming meaningful connections with people as it creates unrealistic expectations no person can ever live up to. Soon you will say: "If I was James Bond, not only would she be on time, but she'd also have my Martini ready."

Classic. You gotta speak up for yourself and get more comfortable with conflict.

What about online platforms and apps, facebook? Have you been solo travelling?

Spot on.

@Sugarcoat Hang in there, things are bound to turn around eventually. @Letho Appreciate your kind words, bro 🙏

@Shodburrito Chill, this isn't church and there's no need to confess. It was your right to vote for whoever you wanted. Go easy on yourself.

Sorry to hear about your year. According to you, what connects those two sides of you? The power struggle between two opposing parts really is no joke, it's intense.

Facing your fears is a success. Getting women isn't.

A smart man will go out and test for himself what women are attracted to.

The same way you make yourself skydive, you just jump when the door opens.

Can you really be their support if you don't want to be around them? It's already a heavy burden for someone who does want it, by the sound of it.

@Ero Thanks man, I'm doing much better these days. Your approach is much underrated, keep moving and going through routines to create momentum is what helped me, it took time. Also exercising and partying has done a lot.

How would supporting them look like to you? Without further enabling their nasty behaviour?

Is this really about him also being unvaxxed or more about finding a guy with a lot more backbone than the guys you've met so far?

Not just women, anyone. There's no need for that.

The illusion of action. Your only chance of getting her back is to not do anything at all. But why do you want someone who doesn't want you? Besides, you already made the move and she declined, nothing in your control you can do about it.

If you go out to meet real people your problem will solve itself.

Being needy isn't the same as letting your guard down. The difference is whether you expect something in return or not.

More about leadership. Never have I attracted a woman without taking the lead.

Went to the optometrist to get contacts today and practised putting them in for 45 mins no success, getting them out myself after he got them in was fine. Tried another several times at home but still unsuccessful. Is there a trick when you have a strong reflex?

Finally getting the hang of it. It actually is cake when my mind stops fighting it