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Insecurity

I imagine you to look like Homer Simpson.

INFP

@ZenAlex What about starting off with online sessions? There's heaps of spots left. I got into it with a practitioner, sometimes do sessions alone too, but I don't think I would have made this much progress without any guidance first.

Ok ban the words. Much respect if you can pull this off while black people are still fighting racism and the N-word is more present than ever. This is your problem, you'd rather be in your comfort zone banning words, which is impossible. You need to grow thicker skin you know?

I was asking how this helps him not hating himself.

Nobody is going to ban the N-word from my vocabulary, I use it as I see fit, I don't care. If someone can't stand the sound or meaning of a word it's their own issue. How about you stand up for the men you think are unrightfully called toxic and creepy? Here you got something to fight for instead of making your life easier by banning words (which is wokeist illusion).

I agree it would make it easier if you got an explanation as to why so you can decide whether it was an insult or actually some truth behind it. Unfortunately most people have no interest in making your life easier. Unlike people on the forum that are hard to come by in real life.

Girls getting taken advantage of by creeps and toxic men won't have a better life. You just can't accept the fact that you're a creep. So what? I'm a creep too. So is every human being. Have you ever seen a real person? They're creepy as fuck when you think about it. Just accept your creepiness so you can move on.

@Reciprocality I used to kinda feel the same, now I feel more and more comfortable around large groups of people e.g. in cities, train stations, airports etc. It's hard to explain certain triggers to other people without making them think your speech is off. But you're right, just because the environment has always been safe doesn't mean it's always gonna stay this way. Maybe these people have already lived through a lot of danger and are now less intimidated by their surroundings than others. Or they live in an illusion where danger doesn't even cross their minds. Or they simply don't care and trust the universe. Could be hundreds of reasons why. I'd look into why those people repulse you and you might get the key to unlock a deeper layer of your inner world.

Thanks man 🙏

They will get what they deserve eventually.

How does this help him not hating himself? Telling men that they're wrong all the time does no good.

Nobody here can tell you what's gonna work for you, you gotta make your own decisions. It would be best if you found a person you can trust, e.g. a therapist or life coach.

Alright. Let's appreciate that women are more caring and empathetic than men. The most empathetic man is still just on an average female spectrum probably. We also don't appreciate enough how hard it is to stay sane when you're on a roller coaster ride of emotions all the time.

@Husseinisdoingfine Yup.

dead or in jail

I agree.

It filters bad vibes.

Racism is still a problem all over the world btw.

Good to see megachurches adjusting to society.

What changed? You just watched a video that confirms your beliefs.

lol

Wait another year and see if it happens again.

Low self esteem, jealousy, to make you feel bad, there could be many reasons.