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Yeah, but what kind of women? Think about it.

Ok mommy, noted. 😏 I gotta admit, that trait....jumping to quick conclusions and discarding what doesn’t fit is exactly what makes me think twice about keeping a girl around. But real sharp self-awareness though. Respect. You do sound jokey. Most people live as jokes and don't even know it!

@Puer Aeternus Never said I was untouchable. People punish how the truth is delivered, not what's being said. Which to us men, stops being raw truth. If we have to soften it, it's already changed. Women often value comfort and safety more than truth. They say it between the lines but rarely admit it. If she says “can we try something else?”, that’s adult land. They're a rare species though. Also…it was a joke. Your autism is excused (this is a joke too, relax. Also a joke).

@Natasha Tori Maru You're right about the irony. It just falls on deaf ears, heard it a thousand times. Still, thank you for the message, I appreciate it. If you did, I'd just assume you're projecting.

Women say they want soft words, soul talk, kindness and safety. But time and time again, they follow the ones who speak sharp, lead without hesitation and don't even give a fuck how they come off. So I’m asking gently, with maximum empathy and a freshly lit jasmine candle burning, in the most tender and loving way: Is there a woman here who’s brave enough to notice this contradiction? If your mouth says "gentle" and your body follows "rough", which one is telling the truth? 🌹 Not a single woman gives a fuck about that lol.

How exactly should I have wrapped it – in an appetising manner – when telling my sister, my ex, and another girl that they were brainwashed and in a cult? They eventually followed me out, but they were pissed at me for ages. Not a single thanks in a decade. Sometimes a hard slap still saves you. Just gotta let them make their high pitched noises and cry about the delivery. Care anyways. Just don't expect a fucking thank you.

@Emerald If abundance mindset changed who you attract, what shifted first? Your mindset or the people you met? Because I'm past the illusion of grinding to meet mature women. I do sense there's something to that mindset shift, but I have zero evidence except for girls circling more around me, waving, smiling and all that weak signal stuff.

This is good, leave the smart women for me! 😈

No problem. This doesn't apply to just girls though. You keep moving, and if someone wants your attention they better buckle up and join you. You wouldn't ask half these questions if a girl reached out and wanted a date with you. It's more about sharpening your radar and give attention to those who are open to meet you where you're at.

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What makes you think women need to be decoded? Consuming manual after manual to understand half of the population. Start decoding that impulse instead. This guy intellectualizes his resentment around women, wraps it up in historical and evolutionary context and socialogical analysis, so it sounds profound and grounded. That's how you end up knowing everything about "market value" but still can't connect on a human level. Nothing new and definitely not helpful for you as an individual who wants more than temporary comfort.

When you finally see that isolating yourself in truth seeking is the same trap as losing yourself in relationships, that’s when the real insights start.

@r0ckyreed Your mind is sneaky. If all your relationships feel shallow maybe you're not meeting people where they are. You can't deconstruct the matrix before you've succesfully built deep intimacy.

@Princess Arabia Chill, I didn't say you trash talked. You got lots of great insights, I was just poking at the pattern of "women this, men that". Women ☕

Yeah, and yet most of these stories are just about bad choices and settling for less. That's the pattern. Same with guys trash talking women.

@Puer Aeternus Let them wake slow. No need to scare the sleepers.

I see a lot of guys who aren't bored with women.

Basically, go about your business. You asked her out and if it was a yes you would have gone out with her instead of analyzing her actions. If a girl is into you she will find a way, especially since you've made it easy for her to walk through the door, which she hasn't. That's all you gotta know. Don't bend over backwards for breadcrumbs.

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Calling someone a metahole is the most metahole move ever

Something like this. A girl who knows how to gear up, ride hard and share the peace.

They do. You just don't hear about it cause they're not loud, they just live. And don't forget about all the quiet readers either.

@Santiago Ram You were seen because the system was built for that, not cause you brought more worth. Society doesn’t hand you prestige, it mirrors what you bring, and right now you're not bringing much. That’s what you notice. Thinking you're no one when you don't get attention isn't very deep, it's dependency.

Are you prepping for some risky stunt? One finds them attractive, another doesn't care, simple as that.

Duh, not in these exact words of course. But I did go over to give the dog some closure, so she must have intuited that I'm a beautiful soul. Sets you apart for sure.