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Once you can communicate properly yourself she will appear. You still wanna find out why people swear at you. After all, it bothered you enough to post here.

Chances are very high you have parts to heal first before your authentic self shines through. Personally, I had a skewed image of what my authentic self is for the biggest part of my life. @Rafael Thundercat Beautiful.

I'd recommend IFS therapy. I had lots of shame inside me especially around my sexuality and thanks to therapy I'm a different person today.

@NightHawkBuzz Same here with soccer. It's a simple game with lots of drama, guess why most of society is into it...

@lostingenosmaze Damn, you really must have been dying for some Pop Tarts.

Reminds me of how I once took a toast out the toaster with a knife. The look on my friend's faces was disturbing.

Sounds like someone has been on some liberating shit...

I see, it's about the little things 😆

Yes sir, figure out how to get there without being needy. Or that you're an alien.

My signal is when she spreads her legs.

I think you're confusing something here. This sounds more like a simp, which is creepy.

In that case you can still focus on what makes people feel comfortable. I personally don't think it's easy navigating the thin line between being your authentic self vs. not scaring people. I don't believe your intentions are bad and it sounds like you want to get this handled since it causes you suffering. But you need to open your mind a bit more and leave women out of this debate, it has absolutely nothing to do with them. You have a sneaky mind. Why do you want all this? So you can get laid, I don't really believe it's for the men Let the simps simp, you wanna play at their level?

Most of society is unaware of why they feel the way they feel, they can't steer their emotions, empathy is the key. You're only shooting yourself in the foot here. If you let them know your intentions and they don't match your nonverbal communication then people are going to be wise enough not to risk anything. It's not a crime as as far as I know, but it definitely puts you in the spotlight.

Being creepy is being attached to an outcome. Your neediness is evident in that you want women and authorities to have a different image than the one you give off. People can sense you're hiding your real intentions, whether their guesses are true or not doesn't matter. What matters is how people (not just women) feel around you. Someone is creeped out by you if you inspire in them feelings of awkwardness, fear, guilt...basically if you give them an overall unpleasant interaction without being authentic. Going on a crusade against what society deems safe won't help your case, you'll just go further down the spiral.

- she shows signs of attraction - you notice but don't approach because you want to teach her a lesson

Taking the red pill simply means having your eyes opened to reality, based on the movie Matrix. You take the blue pill, you believe whatever you want to believe. And many want to believe this is about women... So what you get is the blind leading the blind, not remembering they didn't have the balls to take the other pill

It sounds as if he's got absolutely nothing to offer besides money...what's there to love? If he stops sending it to her then of course she's trying harder lol.

Men are practically jumping to help a woman out at work. Of course this depends on the profession.

Where's the gun?

Good share. I wish women appreciated this more, though I'm sure we're blind to many of their struggles too.

Acting stupid = getting out of your head, having fun, not being serious.

Then all hope is not lost

@ivankiss Totally off topic but I'm curious: is your MBTI type INFP (if you've ever done a test)?

@NoSelfSelf I see, I found the word a bit misleading, but thanks for clarifying.

@NoSelfSelf I might be the only one who never got that, but why do you call the relationship with yourself game?