Proserpina

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  1. Posted

    12 hours ago, Proserpina said:

    I think it was the peak state through attraction that influenced the interaction.  Mixed with his natural traits; his low neuroticism (I could trust him with my life) and leadership/assertiveness capacity. 

    I can phrase this better.  

    Love caused rationality in all forms to be further realized in the masculine. Love caused the feminine to surrender to the masculine's realization, merging and absorbing.  Ime. 

    On top of lower neuroticism and assertiveness.  

  2. Posted

    19 minutes ago, integral said:

    Femininity makes decisions based on how it feels in the moment. This is the nature of it. it has its pros and cons depending on circumstance.

    The woman in the video has excellent development and worked on herself, yet she is VERY FRAGILE. her state of mind is sitting in the palm of his hand where he has the responsibility to carefully guide and hold her, walking on egg shells. 

    These are some of the most developed people on the planet and hes walking on egg shells. She would storm out of the stage if he had said the wrong thing. Not that he would of said something irrational, but that she was not receptive to it. 

    Men have this responsibility in every relationship, woman do not. Woman vent and unload how they feel and the man better be able to take it and care for it. 

    I cry at the beauty of the feminine nature, its impossibly beautiful to me, its impossible how it even exists because of how foreign it is to how my mind works. But in a different circumstance very frustrating because of its inflexibility to be practical. Woman that get things done learn masculine thinking patterns and flip flop between the 2, not balance the 2, and in the process loss that raw feminine intuition. 

    Love this ❤️

     

  3. Posted · Edited by Proserpina

    Song dedicated to my Mother who died last month from Brain cancer. Pink Floyd was her favourite band. 

    I love you Mum. 

    You survived two gruelling years.

    Shine on mum.  You are with the Lord now. 

    Her favourite bible verse she held onto until the end

    Psalm 91

    91 He that dwelleth in the secret place of the most High shall abide under the shadow of the Almighty.

    2 I will say of the Lord, He is my refuge and my fortress: my God; in him will I trust.

    3 Surely he shall deliver thee from the snare of the fowler, and from the noisome pestilence.

    4 He shall cover thee with his feathers, and under his wings shalt thou trust: his truth shall be thy shield and buckler.

    5 Thou shalt not be afraid for the terror by night; nor for the arrow that flieth by day;

    6 Nor for the pestilence that walketh in darkness; nor for the destruction that wasteth at noonday.

    7 A thousand shall fall at thy side, and ten thousand at thy right hand; but it shall not come nigh thee.

    8 Only with thine eyes shalt thou behold and see the reward of the wicked.

    9 Because thou hast made the Lord, which is my refuge, even the most High, thy habitation;

    10 There shall no evil befall thee, neither shall any plague come nigh thy dwelling.

    11 For he shall give his angels charge over thee, to keep thee in all thy ways.

    12 They shall bear thee up in their hands, lest thou dash thy foot against a stone.

    13 Thou shalt tread upon the lion and adder: the young lion and the dragon shalt thou trample under feet.

    14 Because he hath set his love upon me, therefore will I deliver him: I will set him on high, because he hath known my name.

    15 He shall call upon me, and I will answer him: I will be with him in trouble; I will deliver him, and honour him.

    16 With long life will I satisfy him, and shew him my salvation.

  6. Posted · Edited by Proserpina

    A high consciousness masculine can effectively shift a surrendered feminine, shifting her toward high consciousness.  She can be shifted through leadership alone if attraction is present - which will be if the guy is high consciousness- and if the masculine uses a methodology of presence and absence.  Nothing passive aggressive or manipulative, just teaching the feminine when presence is appropriate and when absence is appropriate - effectively molding her.  

  7. Posted · Edited by Proserpina

    That's a part of being rational! The ability to be authentic and true while stepping back with low neuroticism when I would act inappropriately,  that's being rational. That resulted in a permanent shift in me. 

    I truly understood then what it meant for the masculine to lead and the feminine to follow.  Most of the masculine already has low neuroticism developed. The masculine is like the sun and the feminine is the moon, she reflects the sun,  as Elliot Hulse states. She is molded. 

    Extreme attraction (chemicals opening doors, awakening) mixed with that solution orientation, combined with a conscious masculine and a feminine who trusts him with her life and willing to follow is powerful.  The moon reflecting the sun.

    Difficult to find that attraction though since a conscious ultra masculine is rare. 

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    Attraction is a doorway to higher interaction that coincides with high consciousness.  

    Of course if the masculine has high negative masculine traits then that will also be attractive but less so to the feminine that is high consciousness.  

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    According to this video spirituality is: 

    Being really nice to somebody even though you felt lousy yourself

    If you ever chose to feel good when you could feel bad

    If you ever find yourself recognising, yes I have something precious, even though there are other things I don't have. 

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    Sweet, cheerful, calm

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    Developed feminine is sweet, cheerful and calm. Masculine further balances out the calmness of the feminine.  That's the ideal, developed relationship.   She has to work on her calmness, just as the masculine has to work on his heart. 

    I can pull this off like half the time and if I'm medicated. 

     

  9. Posted · Edited by Proserpina

    Attraction in high consciousness relationships is a training ground.  Especially when the honeymoon is over, otherwise called the twin flame journey.  You will try and try and try to get it back, to be enough and in that trying, you are being trained.  Eventually when you come across an ordinary person, your trying will appear superhuman because you've aimed so high.

  10. Posted

    The hero in the hero's journey gets the girl/guy in the end because true high consciousness is correlated with high attraction.  

    "In a way ultra masculine (positive traits) = high consciousness masculine. Attraction is a by-product of higher consciousness. "

  11. Posted · Edited by Proserpina

    1 hour ago, soos_mite_ah said:

    Wouldn't someone being low in neuroticism make them more likely to be comfortable with expressing and regulating emotions rather than supressing them? 

    I think so.

    Emotional regulation can be thought of as stable and grounded. The feminine adds the 'spark' (at least ime). Both are rational in different ways. 

    Attraction through high consciousness and opposites integrate both sides naturally and influence interaction.  

  12. Posted · Edited by Proserpina

    4 hours ago, Proserpina said:

    I agree. 

    Ultra masculine is not stage blue. It is high positive (not low compassion and low politeness) masculine traits in the big 5, creating strong attraction.  

    In a way ultra masculine (positive traits) = high consciousness masculine. Attraction is a by-product of higher consciousness.   

    Of course if the masculine has high negative masculine traits then that will also be attractive but less so to the feminine that is high consciousness.  

  14. Posted

    10 minutes ago, soos_mite_ah said:

    I mean, you can be stable and be interesting. You can also be highly neurotic/toxic and boring as well. I don't see why it would be one or the other unless you find unhealthy behaviors as simulating and worth your time. And that isn't an woman thing, that's an unhealthy person thing. Like tends to attract like. 

    I think there was an appreciation for his 'boring' (I put in quotes) qualities like low neuroticism and intellect trait through peak state and attraction. Along side his consciousness, and I was melding to him, developing the same traits and similar values.  My predisposition to follow activated and I was able to shift and purify. 

  15. Posted

    14 minutes ago, Raze said:

    Him being emotional and feminine wouldn’t be things that come naturally to him if he is naturally low neuroticism, masculine, and rational, I’m guessing he made conscious effort to cultivate and learn it. 

    I think it was the peak state through attraction that influenced the interaction.  Mixed with his natural traits; his low neuroticism (I could trust him with my life) and leadership/assertiveness capacity. 

  17. Posted

    48 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

    The way guys treat guys and the way girls would not accept guys treating them.

    In essence, not giving a damn about your precious feelings.

    Of course guys are emotional and often irrational. But you girls have cornered the market on that ;)

    It's not black and white. These are general trends.

    Yes, being overly emotional does make a man less masculine. This doesn't mean the man cannot be emotional at times, in extreme situations. But overall a man should be icy and not give a fuck. Bus ran over your dog? Tough, let's move on to more important things. This is how a strong man must operate to get shit done in the world. You may not like it, but you also crave the results it delivers and the containment it confers.

    You're simply not going to be attracted to a man who's more emotional and whiny than you are because such a man is a liability to your survival and the survival of your tribe.

    Extreme attraction (chemicals opening doors, awakening) mixed with that solution orientation, combined with a conscious masculine and a feminine who trusts him with her life and willing to follow is powerful.  The moon reflecting the sun.

    Difficult to find that attraction though since a conscious ultra masculine is rare.  

  18. Posted · Edited by Proserpina

    12 minutes ago, Razard86 said:

    And here is the kicker, are you able to tolerate someone giving you their raw emotion and accepting it and not reacting to it emotionally? You see many women want a man to be their container, to be their rock. But if a woman cannot develop that aspect within her, her man will never be able to honestly tell you how he feels. This is why most men lie to women/hide their feelings.

    The 'man' I spoke to,  that changed me through his rationality was not afraid to be emotional and feminine.  That's a part of being rational! The ability to be authentic and true while stepping back with low neuroticism when I would act inappropriately,  that's being rational. That resulted in a permanent shift in me. 

    I truly understood then what it meant for the masculine to lead and the feminine to follow.  Most of the masculine already has low neuroticism developed. The masculine is like the sun and the feminine is the moon, she reflects the sun,  as Elliot Hulse states. She is molded. 

  19. Posted

    1 minute ago, Leo Gura said:

    Oh, there is no doubt he will make you melt. But that will not create a conscious communication or relationship. And you do not want him to treat you rationally, you want him to be rational. Which is of course what the feminine wants from the masculine because the feminine lacks it. But the feminine will not allow itself become rationalized.

    When I met a 'man' like this, its like the totality of my being woke up and understood what it meant to be a mature woman. A rational man can evoke that from a woman. I wanted to be of service and all my values began to shift. That's what it means to melt. But again it's so rare and has to be persistent. The Taming of the Shrew. 

  21. Posted · Edited by Proserpina

    About game:

    it's about allowing in what is already flowing toward you. 

    I know instantly when a person is compatible by how beautiful their overall energy is, and that overlap with *God's voice. It's about letting that energy penetrate you and flow over you. Maybe a little different for a guy. 

    *God's voice means I'm super conscious that consciousness is talking to consciousness. No distortions. 

  22. Posted

    27 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

    Actually, yes, that is the core of the best game.

    You are gaming them too hard.

    Eventually you will realize that gaming women is really not necessary. You just approach and screen them for which ones are into you. You don't try to manipulate them into liking you.

    The best game is totally natural and effortless. Not try-hard.

    Yes, it's about allowing in what is already flowing toward you. 

    I know instantly when a person is compatible by how beautiful their overall energy is, and that overlap with God's voice. It's about letting that energy penetrate you and flow over you. Maybe a little different for a guy. 

  23. Posted · Edited by Proserpina

    Love you Jojo <3 Even though I can be difficult sometimes, I'll stay with you forever. I miss your journals. They were otherworldly and unlocked my spiritual abilities. Wish you were here.

    Your higher self looks down on me still. I can feel him there. 

  24. Posted

    I might have gotten a little triggered.  

    Anyhoo, hey, I love this song. 

    This whole album really exemplifies STO for me and the compatible energies.  His gaze toward my body-mind/vessel causes my body-mind/ vessel to glow with love through his love.

    Maynard has obviously done massive work on himself.