gettoefl

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  1. did you wonder why realised people don't need anaesthetic to have surgery ... they dont made episodes about it on youtube either
  2. neo advaita = don't lift a finger, all is perfection, just admire and behold advaita vedanta = strain every sinew to inhabit your true nature then make this yet more perfect, this is your absolute birthright
  3. do everything with a burning totality until you see the utter stupidity ... at which point you will get wholly serious about singing dancing painting poetry etc. hope you catch my drift seems you are doing fantastic as it is so keep on keeping on
  4. am i a body or am i beyond a body can i realize this and embody it? this is the work
  5. life has 3 realms, samsara nirvana nondual spirituality is the journey from 1 to 3 nirvana is the end of suffering, it it the transmuting of every bad to its good and while we're here nondual is from good to god, your absolute reality
  6. the only ethical sales is you need this but you don't realize it and i shall hereby tell you why if you are dealing with a person's wants not needs this is manipulation and unethical why unethical? you dont know if i have money for your wares so you are potentially taking money from a child's mouth if it's a need you are perfectly justified needs are far more wide ranging that one realises; there are many things i can sell you that you had no clue you needed
  7. you cant do meditation out of external motivation has to be intrinsic a fire within group meditation is utterly counterproductive except if you are already a dedicated meditator - like for example folks at vipassana retreats
  8. leave the you at the door before sitting on the floor
  9. if anyone is curious https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-11849119/The-seedy-retreat-shaman-charges-800-high-hallucinogenic-drug-ayahuasca.html?ns_mchannel=rss&ns_campaign=1490&ito=social-twitter_dailymailus
  10. https://www.reddit.com/r/RationalPsychonaut/comments/11n9pnu/replacing_psychedelics_with_meditation/ that sub is recommended too ... comment either here or there if you want to share your own insights
  11. death is simply the ramping up of pain, today it's 9 tomorrow likely 9.5, until you get to 10 and the you gives up go sit with someone who is terminal in hospice with pain meds hourly to keep them alive highly recommended
  12. no it's not the dreaded c word, it's worse it's the grim reaper keep saying it's time ... it's that dreaded downward plunge ... this is death at least for me thank you for your compassion ... i am perfectly indifferent as to when i go i bless you today
  13. death isn't oh shit something bad is ahead and i am going to die one day namely coming to grips with your own moratality death is my life right now if fucking miserable and painful and gruesome and this is the beginning of the downward spiral to the end i almost certainly have cancer or something worse and there is no hope or recourse or salvation possible there is no point going on
  14. ask chat-gpt to give you as many as you feel like chat with it to tell it your personality your traumas your past relationship problems your relationship goals you can have different lists of boundaries for each different environment you inhabit
  15. fear is please god keep me here one more day, i am a good boy i promise not like that loser in the hospital bed next to me
  16. to be fearful is dumb, it's following the crowd, it's staying inside the box, never making any waves or impact to be fearless is intelligence, it's not about doing stupid things and saying look at me it's about taking the road less travelled, doing something that others won't dare do, being a trailblazer ask yourself, how could i be fearless today? what is one thing i will do that i have never done before to go through the same motions every 24 hours is the wasted life only the new thing you do today makes you a meaningful person else just shut up
  17. god's job description is, to watch the spectacle unfolding and not get involved unless someone is desperately praying for a hand
  18. f-eel e-verything a r-isk = fear feel everything a reward = desire feel everything perfect = love nothing's a risk, there's no reward, love what is And if you can't be with the one you love, honey Love the one you're with ?
  19. i trust no one until proven they have my back i know the price of doing otherwise nothing to do with lies but varying levels of self disclosure, unless we are tight, you get a big fat nothing my life my business
  20. read my lived experience in the post above
  21. some people are hell bent on destroying you, and i don't exclude one's flesh and blood from this for example dont tell parents you're gay if they will go off the deep end themselves or at you they cant handle live and let live let alone intimacy
  22. telling many the truth will backfire they will weaponize it and destroy you you own nobody the truth no matter what you declare in addition the truth will destroy many people who out there can handle the truth? every word you speak must be tailored to another's level of consciousness as sociopathic as that sounds
  23. take enormous pains to change not one speck without, take enormous pains to get deeper than anyone ever has within the out will be magnificent to the extent the inner depths are plumbed this is a life well loved