gettoefl

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  1. yes you are what you experience ... here is a channel worth subbing to
  2. yet we rather type than realize it ego loves to type, let's postpone realizing until the next life time, let's keep the thread and the party going at all costs
  3. if she cheats on me it is all to the good i discovered and discarded an out of control liar the sooner the better hopefully
  4. yes which is why development is best done hand in hand with spirituality
  5. good insights ... in terms of people i came up with love1 and love2 ... love1 is when i want from you, love2 is when i want for you ... love1 is mundane love2 is divine
  6. @ardacigin this is so spot on, needed the reminder thanks much, enlightenment is just complete relaxation so you vanish
  7. you can't complement a stranger sincerely, that is an empty gesture, you know nothing about them, how could you? you are merely probing their insecurity to see how quick you can get in their pants nothing more she needs no random telling her she looks good
  8. i stay firmly unconvinced ... all your pickup is sheer manipulation your confidence is a pure con job and you're selling her some ideal you have no intention or ability to deliver on pretty much no woman panties or no panties is leaving the house holding hopes to sleep with you unless she happens upon some smooth charlatan of the highest order who likely will need to get her drunk to close the deal in particular the one night stand has zero benefit for women in general and when treated like this again and again can them considerably damaged going forward
  9. just give me one who even once in her life wakes up in the morning and says i really want to get out there and be flirty today not even wanting her to be this way all the time and i am only asking for a friend
  10. you call me i call you i call you you call me in a word friendship is reciprocity nothing else
  11. is there even one woman out there who wants to be picked up just asking for a friend
  12. who have WE picked up the phone to call text email in the past week ... that's why there is no love
  13. god is quick it can make it as fast as you desire thereby as close to zero as you desire, you just need to say how close to zero is zero
  14. war is your bias it is actually all war all the time but you say no that is acceptable to me
  15. if i can watch leo at 2x speed on yt can god watch me at 2x speed in existence if so could not god crank the viewing of me up to infinite speed in which case time would be zero
  16. violence is you changing what is did you really need to pick the flower
  17. hour a day come what may, gotta schedule it seven days a week, usually have two on the go so i read the harder on days i have more energy
  18. contemplate who reacts and who responds
  19. here is the question what does the sun rising tomorrow mean to me do i need the sun to rise to be able to produce fire to cook my breakfast? truth is the sun rising tomorrow is utterly irrelevant to my life, it is abstract and academic namely you have never assumed the sun will rise as having any meaningful impact on your survival it is an irrelevance contemplate assumptions that change the arc of life instead of wasting brain cells and people's time for example will the supermarket have toilet rolls tomorrow? i assume they will if my assumption is false what is my plan b i have backups so that my assumption them having them can be wrong 6 times in a row before there is any impact so my assumption is provisional and when it doesn't hold all is still well get real with the work and stop living in nitpickery
  20. thank you for this treasure trove of info ... how is your daily meditation practice ... i haven't done psychedelics but wish to as soon as i can ... daily meditation has brought great equanimity to me and my identification with thoughts is ever diminishing ... i use the Gurdjieff technique that divides attention between the outside and the inside Self-observation brings man to the realization of the necessity of self-change. And in observing himself a man notices that self-observation itself brings about certain changes in his inner processes.Self-observation is an instrument of self-change,a means of awakening. ~Gurdjieff
  21. every interaction wakes you or dulls you hopefully this website is doing the former if it wasn't it would be corrupting you namely diverting you from truth
  22. mind is foe mind is two mind is you falsely speaking of course note how the world worships mind ... indeed world and mind is symbiotic relationship drop the false drop the mind see the one see the love
  23. to reduce another's consciousness whether deliberate or inadvertent the opposite is to edify which is actualized.org in a nutshell
  24. how can love proliferate from this
  25. the highest consciousness resource perspective community - bar none up to you what you get from it personal responsibility, collective wisdom