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you are taking charge of the process as i mentioned in the pro's list i gave corporations like tinder do not have your dating interests at heart, they are basically scam operators to extract the maximum cost for the minimum dates you are proactively giving out the information you want and choosing the person you want in real time trust that your elegance will be rewarded, leave the dumb algorithms to the herd

the world is your oyster you choose the perfect person based on your own eye your own effort your own elegance tinder is for simpletons who haven't initiative to do things for themselves

potential dating bio name location/neighbourhood occupation (if student say which major) do you live alone / with family / with friends are you single are you relationship minded / marriage minded / casual minded are you introvert or extrovert name one hobby you do every week do you prefer reading / movies / vid games do you prefer autumn or spring are you politically minded and if so for which party or not interested in it are you religious or are you spiritual or not interested your favourite musical decade: 80s 90s 00s 10s email address or phone number other questions that would be best omitted or best included please suggest below

potential script for handing out one's dating bio:

art is ten a penny, artists are one in a million art is valued because of the one who made it we like artists because of their story their humanity their relatability their ingenuity their brand art is about putting your personal slant on something so that it reflects represents brings to mind ... the unique you that you are

all kinks reveal the trauma pain wounds you are carrying and refusing to acknowledge and heal, not that there is anything wrong with that who would you be and what fun would you have without them

here's a dozen pros of this method: taking control of your dating destiny, i choose based on energy vibe and their similarity to me not letting love and life pass you by living for the now resisting high pressure techniques to close but letting the prospect decide in their own time cultivating sincerity humility integrity living from complete desperation: if i die tonight i gave this my best shot (this is a positive attribute) my presentation is in my hands alone, both my bio, how i approach and my appearance pure intentions, full honesty will likely beget the same from others it's free one of a kind creative wholesome innocent, all qualities one would like in a prospective partner you don't get a second chance to make a good first impression doing what i fear is the best way to conquer fear trusting the universe to send simply the best

@Tyler Robinson a most luminous landscape, bless you

if mind is on the go, it is happy if you sit quietly however, there is a chance you may awaken don't ever do that, mind tells you mind will make it an insufferable experience but if you actually sit there, good things are not far off

it is the new opium of the masses, it is what keeps you fast asleep, never having to think, worst possible thing for body and soul on your death bed entertainment will be the last thing on your mind yet it is what kept you most enslaved while your breathed sweet air unconscious entertainment is outsourcing your relaxation energy to the most nefarious sources take back control

don't forget to answer the poll question don't be shy then in your reply give your reasons / say why or why not

i see what you mean ... for me fellow humans are the most astonishing if most inscrutable creation, the only reason worth walking the earth

guilt is feeling bad for not following rules forcibly imposed on you first wake up and you will understand this then write the rules that work for you

@Loba you may enjoy this thoughtful if long article showing that even the seemingly irredeemable may be capable of reformation https://www.sandiegoreader.com/news/2022/aug/31/cover-life-calipatria/

your superiority complex is your inability to communicate with those different to you notice i don't say those dumber than you everyone has a ton to say and much to contribute to those with sensitivity curiosity intelligence learn from everyone you encounter is the flex, those deemed unintelligent are often most eager to share and for me the ones from whom i learn most the smarter you are the more you can extract nuggets from the commonplace and the everyman this is the superior human

we all murderers, face facts ... yet we prefer to walk away scott free

murder is excluding people with you being judge jury excecutioner worth a contemplation

you're either still in the world of materialism playing tits for tats or you are in sync with god i say do the one and be done for good and then do two and owe no one

you mete out the death penalty every time you block ghost defame this is the only death penalty most are inadvertently guilty of keep destroying the lives of those you are too dumb to understand while claiming to be whiter than white while arguing meaningless abstract issues that you will never in your life have a personal experience of well done

there is three cases, they know they want it they don't know they want it they don't want it the 3 words respectively are acquiesce, reprogram, manipulate you are reprogramming them if you know better than they do for example a parent and a child don't manipulate people even if it's pickup, it's low conscious behaviour

here is what paul brunton says of the void https://paulbrunton.org/notebooks/23/8

ask yourself, do you live in scarcity mindset or abundance mindset why do you do this

best retreat is solitary i would say, if you want a group setting you can do a goenka vipassana retreat, i just did a 10-day one and it is hard core and punishing but worthwhile and at the end you meet a ton of cool cats, it is almost worth the retreat just to meet the fellow travellers

you either follow their agenda or you want to impose your agenda enlightenment mirrors the former, they are perfect and you need to marvel at them not have them learn your ultimate truth if you are running into negativity then realize that all triggers are teachers, the lower their consciousness the more your awakening gets a work out

i am motivated by the fact that i am humbled to have another day of life, another 24 hours to savor marvel luxuriate ... in the unfolding mystery my heart could stop beating any day but today it hasn't so i have a responsibility to live in totality it is all in my hands whether i do that, no one else's