Vincent S

I really feel you on this one. I have been in the same situation. From what I gathered and intensely observed with studying my own mind and situations that occur with my family, especially my dad and his side of the family. Is that, I created them in my own mind, because I had to have a reference point in life, showing me exactly what I am not. Showing me my direction to take when I’m ready and mature for it. To simply take action in my own life and don’t rely on others to tell me what I am or am not. When I get invited to family gatherings, I am always the black sheep, and always the center of attention (with just being myself, which is radically different from everything they do, and how they are in life) without me even saying anything, they always latch on to me, questioning my every move, I feel that I am being controlled or manipulated by them. And funny thing is, I’m doing nothing other than just sit and observe, but I always suspected something, (which I later found out) Its my mind, I am creating them, unconsciously to wake myself up when I fall asleep. And they suck the living essence out of me. Pushing me to act in my own life and start to live the life where I truly Love myself enough not to be manipulated, gaslighted, defined and misunderstood. Two years ago I completely took distance from everyone except my mom, and I grew a lot from that, but a part of my felt bad, because I was guilting myself and having bad thoughts about just ghosting my “family”. So with a better self confidence, I reached out and apologized for ghosting them. What ended up happening is that they started inviting me to their gatherings, and I was back in the muck with them again, none of them had changed and few of them got worse, and maybe even jealous of what I changed in to without their presence. And now I can with a good conscience just leave them, because they just are what they are, until they start to accept and develop themselves. I have still not fully grasped it from a solipsistic point of view, but slowly I am starting to understand more and more. Sorry to make this about “me”, wanted to share and to tell you that you are not alone with your situation. Also taking Psychedelics ls very eye opening to our own lies and our own BS, but also for people we are associated with. And the life we adopted/created for ourselves unconsciously, but still for a good purpose ??✨?? God knows exactly what we need, we just have to be open and willing to let go, even family members that are unconsciously toxic for our journey. Start slowly and gently see areas within your life that you can manage on your own, without the need of another, especially people that don’t understand your journey and your life situation. Work on being able to live by your own, and start investing more and more in to yourself, emotionally, energetically and physically. And things will come your way, and support you towards that which your soul longs for the most ?? Love yourself ✨

Unconditional ✨?

Because they have to accept that way of seeing, for themselves, to fully experience it, like you do. ?✨? Difficulty in sharing it, is Love. But a Love for No One. It just is there like a flower. (Lovely person told me this the other day) ?☺️

I see you ? I love you Fearless Bum ???

Thats a very good point. Only thing that comes to me is: There's a longing for Union, Unity and One-Ness. And delving in illusions isn’t taking “us” there. “Others” being different is an invitation for us to give up what we are and trying something different, and to realize that other is actually You. So for you/us to not get stuck as one thing and with one ground, we create other to get the feeling of freedom from ourselves where we “think” we are now. And either we accept the invitation or we delude ourselves that being were we are, will be different if I just wait and stay the way I am. Acceptance to give up the ground and let go of the only thing we think we have.

If you want real change, don’t continue on the path of least resistance. Where there is resistance there is Truth. The treasure is guarded by guardians, and when you just orbit the area, you are just going to get affected by the guardian’s illusion. And you will forget the true you, and become the guardians you were fighting. Resulting in a nightmare of suffering. Until you realize that you are the only one that can change or break the illusion. Take your time, patch up the wounds, and finish it.

Thats a good question. Its prior to a “What”. Also Wont be an “I” to know, when The Truth is revealed.

Have you perhaps noticed a reacurring theme? A reacurring situation with him? He is repeating something, he asks you of something repeatedly, as if he wants to teach you something or make you remember? But in that situation, apart of you recognizes the scenario, but for the life of you, you dont know how to act or react to it? (but in the back of your mind, you know for sure that what he is pointing to is right) Thats your part, and he finishes "you" by making you remember something about yourself. And vice versa. Also its not always in a start or finish manner. It just is, its a happening. Its not a single event continued by and ending. Its a continuation/ a merging between two polarities, and it results in one happening, that is for both parts. An action of connection. Twin flames are apart, but still two parts of One Flame.

I know, right? ?

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Its a bit new-agent, but I like the message.

As twin flames, aren’t you one and the same? Isn’t it one experience between the “two”of you that is happening/being? I would say that the projection is imaginary, your and his actions are one happening. Separation between the two of you was the illusion itself, to begin with… You were apart, you experienced a duality between you, but now you “experience” every aspect between the two of you, fusing back together, I.e. feminine and masculine becoming one again, in turn resulting in: Experiences.

Think its called (Deep Tissue Massage). Ask around for Trauma Working Massage/PTSD Massage. Expert Therapists will know.

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Wow that is such a profound and eye opening way of seeing it. Thank you ???

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Beautiful ?? It will be an adventure that the body will take itself on, observing itself with Love.

<3 Welcome. Well honestly, everything and everyone is fulfilling their purpose. Most people wont jump from deep sleep to God-Realization in one day, there is a transition period, and Ralph is doing precisely that, he is helping the gap for people. There is nothing deeply wrong with the guy, he is just playing a role.

I used to watch his content along time ago, but I always felt that something was off. He has adopted a spiritual positivity ego, and that is a common trap on the spritiual journey. I mean there is nothing wrong with choosing that, everyone is free to be what they want. But I dont feel that he is genuine to others or himself. Looks like a big act. But nonetheless, he is surving a purpose for his followers and likeminded individuals. Also Teal Swan is close to that category, but I see her as more mature and her role is very intuned with relationships and she is doing great work. But I have never seen Teal or Ralph talking about true nature of things. They just represent a bit more of the semi-conscious archetypes.

Thank you for the reminder <3

@sidaz10 Psychedelics can and do help with working on trauma. But from my experience, a lot of trauma can get trapped inside the physical body. In Muscle Knots and Trigger Points. Depending on what kind of trauma you have undergone, I would highly recommend going to a masseuse that specializes in Muscle Knots and Trigger Points. When I was undergoing the treatment, I was seriously tripping, I was seeing dark fractal shaped images spewing out of my eyes and the physical body. It hurts like hell, but if you consciously look the pain and trauma in the eye (while undergoing the treatment), they will disappear and your being and your existence will be so much lighter. It can be costly but definitely worth it. And after you recovered, your trips will be so much deeper and more meaningful.

You only see what your eyes want to see How can life be what you want it to be? You're frozen When your heart's not open You're so consumed with how much you get You waste your time with hate and regret You're broken When your heart's not open Mmm mmm mmm If I could melt your heart Mmm mmm mmm We'd never be apart Mmm mmm mmm Give yourself to me Mmm mmm mmm You hold the key Now there's no point in placing the blame And you should know I suffer the same If I lose you My heart will be broken Love is a bird, she needs to fly Let all the hurt inside of you die You're frozen When your heart's not open Mmm mmm mmm If I could melt your heart Mmm mmm mmm We'd never be apart Mmm mmm mmm Give yourself to me Mmm mmm mmm You hold the key You only see what your eyes want to see How can life be what you want it to be? You're frozen When your heart's not open Mmm mmm mmm If I could melt your heart Mmm mmm mmm We'd never be apart Mmm mmm mmm Give yourself to me Mmm mmm mmm You hold the key If I could melt your heart Mmm mmm mmm We'd never be apart Mmm mmm mmm Give yourself to me Mmm mmm mmm You hold the key If I could melt your heart

This video was really interesting to listen to. Thought I would share. ✨??

Thank you for sharing ????

Isnt that what we are doing to our food? No matter plant or animal? I have gone to the deep-end with this, and the only true insight I got is, its all consciousness, consciousness is eating consciousness. It had to be like this in the early stages of evolution. Higher states will be different, but in the end, it is the same, consciousness eating consciousness. Its all Love.