Jacob Morres
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@ 4:10 he compares a person who takes pure action and just practices the piano just hitting keys til something sounds good with a person who just reads a book and never does anything with it. then he goes the former will get way more results which is true lol but what if the person did both? he would save a shit ton of time lmao. he studies optimal finger placement for efficient piano playing. he learns about popular songs that give good foundations for other songs. learn popular bars that have a foundation in most songs. he learns mindsets from top piano players who teach him how to play with joy instead of anxiety. he learns about common pitfalls along the journey of playing music etc.
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I think creep is a shadow aspect all these negative labels we put on people are just a lack of understanding the "creep" can be a judgement/negative label - could be a person with severe childhood trauma could be a person who never got exposed to the opposite sex due to a strict traditional upbringing could be a person who might have had a traumatic event happen to them so they are behaving differently could be a person who has been socially isolated because of corona/mental illness etc. they're just people lol now the partial truth is that they may often not approach in conscious ways that the other person is comfortable and there's also some more nuance because the person on the receiving end has their own trauma that gets triggered when people appraoch them
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If you have health insurance you can go see a somatic therapist You can also go see a meditation teacher specialized in this kind of stuff Those 2 I find beneficial and can help you develop grounding techniques: deep breathing and grounding yourself into the present moment with feel, sight, hearing - helping you come to the prsent moment and quieting the thoughts feeling techniques: allowing the pain to arise and feeling them fully with intention of letting them go and acceptance - allows the pain to be a non issue and let go inner child work: speaking to yourself kindly and lovingly. Helps you develop self love and compassion and forgiveness. Love will make you feel good Observing techniques: noticing the thoughts that arise and letting them be without judgement. Will pass with time surrender: surrendering to the issue will cause acceptance and peace with the issue. The fear will pass
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"There is so much abundance around, you just need to notice it." When regarding job opportunities, solutions to life's problems, to a significant other, to presence, to happiness, love, good positive feelings . what isn't there?
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*When I ask girls how to talk to girls* Be yourself! Be nice! Ask questions! Wtf????? Mm msjsjajnabauaalalakmsjshdbxnxnx Most girls don't have an in depth understanding. But girls with less bias, you can have deep honest conversations with Which I guess might be necessary? They can give you some direct experience and nuanced advice. But I haven't experienced that. I've only gotten flimsy advice so far. But im in the camp of talking to girls who have holisitic, deep understanding for now...?
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ive done this with lsd it's another world test it yourself set the intentions and watch wonders edit: on second thought, it's been a while i dont remember exactly. but i know that my gameplay is a lot smoother and i can make a lot of interconnections (insights) about game play. i can also play without ego and mindfully I'm NOT too sure about performance but I recommend doing some research and seeing what people's experiences are this article seems a bit promising: https://furthermore.equinox.com/articles/2018/10/athletes-guide-to-microdosing
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desires/needs? maybe. only your dick? nope lol
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of 100 or 200 mg?
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@kosmo hey i'm super interested about your experience with Tiago's content. Is there anything that resonated with you that you don't mind sharing?
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the women is also testing the man in many cases and on many other things. if she isn't the wtf she's about to roll the die and pray to god her needs will be met. i mean if the sex bad asf 2-3x in a row and sex is important to you, imo that's a good thing to not take that relationship as seriously. especially if other needs arent being met either testing if a women meets your sexual needs doesn't mean he's treating her like an object treating her like an object is a very specific thing, it's a distinction where the guy doesn't care about the girl's feelings or interests (which is a universal, excess stage orange (or red) phenomena that occurs in both men and woman and in also many other areas of life (business, relationships, parenting, friendships, government etc.)
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@Jacko can it release trauma? I have trauma needing to be released and was thinking this might be a good option
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I have purchased a book by Shakti gowain for 2.99 here. Well worth
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i know this feeling bro. bro your mind is going hyper drive, you'll be okay in a few days and it will reset. try to be present through this fear and do a grounding exercise if you can this too shall pass brother
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I will do it 7x and report back (so i have some ample experimentation and feel as though i can properly let people know my experience) !! been meaning to try it out
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Are those 99% of guys (honestly) dating and attracting their dream girl? If so, then I will take their advice
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@Consciousone35 may i ask the type /style of therapy?
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tbh when i first heard this a long time ago i was so shocked. cuz i would watch his videos and get soooo annoyed by it. i'd be like russell? no fucking way that guy is so rude and weird but then i watched some clips of him on youtube attracting very beautiful woman and them blushing and i was like what the fuck?? that dude has some game man i still dont really understand what's happening tbh but it works (but ive never bothered to understand it cuz ive been away from game for a while)
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@Leo Gura is it really that hard? it doesn't seem that hard to me
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where do you live? i can't see this happening even in india. maybe in a village. people may think you're weird tho
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@Heart of Space thank you. I do have insurance In the past I've not resonated with my therapist.. it makes me wary looking for one that can understand me But I know I will find one Thanks again
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Hey I'm curious about this therapist , may I have more details or be able to see his profile? I am looking for a therapist
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dude i am in the SAME EXACT position i cannot feel and i literally cannot allow this to get any worse can anyone recommend me a psychotherapist? Please i'll take nearly anything
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this is what I wanted to tell you IME i've been caught in the trap of not doing things "cuz low consciousness" ... but that has to arise out of wisdom, not moralization. because then you're denying yourself of something you found valuable. it can actually be counterproductive sometimes to cut out low consciousness activities. we engage in them cuz of the value it provides and if we cut if off, that thing creates a hole in our heart that we may not be ready for edit: my answer does not seem to encompass but i hope it helps
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"You can't connect the dots looking forward; you can only connect them looking backwards. So you have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future"- Steve Jobs What an insane quote. What has happened in the past, your traumas , decisions and good interpretations have contributed to your being and personality to this date. @Zigzag Idiot Thank you brother. I will consume this book. It feels extremely right for me in this time and I will try it out
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ive seen guys like him get girls
