Jacob Morres

you ever check out leo's video on infinite intelligence?

hmm definietely some self-esteem and trauma work. maybe some therapy too. you're an awesome dude man!! just need to realize it. im sure you have so many great qualities i can relate though. i felt like this from like 16 - 23 through like a dozen small experiences a lot of self-image has healed in this area. still much to go, but not as bad as it once was. these realities are all true for you - - girls are easy to get - you are an attractive person - you are worthy as you are - you can find a great, amazing relationship

I agree with the advice here but I wouldn't want a women that looks at men like cockaroaches

I can't find the area. Thanks

What's the strength of your relationship like? Is this communcatable with her? Conscious communication is key here You could even bring this up to her... bb I know I trust you and ur faithful but I can't get this feeling out of my stomach about Miami... And she goes (kind and compassionately).. awwe bb I hear u dw. There's nothing bad going to happen etc. Etc. I'll even do X For you to keep you comfortable If she ain't do the latter trash that bitch!! (Jk but maybe not lol)

Queen/worker ant sounds too black and white. That analogy is weak Maybe you ain't gotta be the queen, but maybe you can be like the 2nd chain in command. Or the 3rd. Which is still great/significant progress. But that's not to set limiting beliefs. Queen can be possible too Also don't like the analogy where we are serving the queen bee. I think we are living our own individual lives serving our own values to the best of our ability. I ain't serving no queen lol I feel like your question is also framed like... fixed vs growth mindset. Everyone has the potential to grow and get better, inherently. When you believe you don't, your mindset is in a fixed state and needs changing/healing

What is it's purpose, according to you?

sounds like ocd. fear and need for reassurance. look into OCD if confirmed it's ocd check out: act for ocd workbook ocd and anxiety youtube channel ocd therapist if need be brain school course by mark freeman maybe a support group and look into meditation/mindfulness etc.

notice the criticism for his criticism !! we must integrate our shadow and then we will feel compassion

I appreciate this perspective Game could even just be a process of self development, the process of mastery, finding cool people to connect and vibe with, living out your values etc.

regarding your 3k/month desire - honestly i feel like without a doubt. ive seen entrepreneurs do much more than that in that period of time. really depends on the path and resources though. and daily output as well

@Leo Gura that'd be ?

If u had to give some ball park number. Yall think it's like 30/40% overall?

I've been the guy in this scenario like 7 years ago Uhh I mean it went fine but it was also kinda ass because reflecting on the situation, she didn't like me that much (and likewise for me). And that internal feeling I noticed show up in many scenarios throughout the relationship. Though never explicit And then after we broke up she found a dude that resonated wayy better with her Donno, I think it may be possible to find a guy that meets more of your needs/desires

OP, consult ur desires and what kind of girl you would like

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So I like to eat everything on a restaurant menu sometimes, try things out and see what I like the most. Then I just order the fuck out of those 2-3 things everytime Do you sort of do that with people as well?

the critique sounds valid but also sounds like it throws the baby out with the bathwater

I'd have to disagree a little here leo. I think if your intention is strong, and the personality is right, you can do it even when you're young. I've had this when I was 18 and again at 24 It depends on your focus, desires and heart

Nice to see you around. God speed

Yeah this Part of dating confuses the fuck out of me. Selflessness turns girls off? I'd rather have 0 girls then I'm not giving up my soul for any woman make it make sense Edit: @aurum good point ?

always funny when people say, "im just being honest" lol pepega ur ugly as fuckkkk. what?? im just being honest

This is why I developed a thing for integrity, compassion and empathy. If girls do that to me, I just get turned off. It's also a very bad foundation for a relationship. Before the relationship started she's treating you like that? She'd have to apologize for being so flaky idk that's just my thoughts But does sound like inner child work could be helpful. Also to practice detachment and help you clarify which girls are right for you, and what you deserve (attention, time, respect)

@Thought Art just saying sorry for off topic - but in my understanding the spark can be slightly misleading. i think it is important but it's not enough to determine compatability

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