Jacob Morres

Damn such a beautiful thread. This is like infinite intelligence at play

@Princess Arabia I feel like asking for consent is important bc like every girl is diff and some need it. I'd hate to misread a nonsign and it ended up being a lack of consent yk

You can try meetup.com, there will be tons of groups like that I know someone that went to a couple diff meetups and found a friend group eventually

Tate is a psychopath Honestly be careful bc if you think tate is not a very dangerous/bad guy then you could get manipulated by a tate-like person in person as well Be conscious of what are red flags in people, and assess people by them

Productivity insights p3; we fall to the level of our systems - james clear I only think about making 3 good decisions a day - Jeff bozos = - come up optimal morning routine - come up with optimal morning journalling structure = No fucking way I deleted my fucking p1 productivity notes. I'm Kms ... By memory... big goals is just the small in aggregate - sam altman A project is just a ton of subtasks - tiago forte

cold approach is great but #1? Donno

Very interesting thanks for sharing

Honestly i think this is the main thing about preferences in general. Even when if a girl prefers 6ft etc. When you hit a girl in the emotions, those logical checklists fly out the window

Pending questions: 1. What are the fundamentals of a good life?

@Carl-Richard I see yeah, i could def see a distinction where you are meditating and you are not actually playing bc your main focus is on something like spirituality/meditation. But there's definietely a way to improve your endeavor with mindfulness, it's actually like really well (scientifically) studied. More focus, flow, clarity, presence. It's great stuff honestly -> https://chat.openai.com/share/a4e8ca61-7243-4cd9-94d2-9af4678744aa

Definietely There are men who are into connection, emotions, love and all that. Men who like older women, personality more, don't care about looks. If you look you'll see it's common af. A lot of them. It's more about discernment for the guys you are looking for Also make sure to differentiate between words a man says versus their personality. There's a difference between a guy who says he's X (maybe like emotionally available), and a guy that IS X (in this case emotionally available). So learning to discern here can help.. So in the case of emotionally available, you can see if he holds space, is empathetic, can listen to your emotions etc.

@Snader Nah I don't compete I'd had to start way younger. My main choices are basketball and tetris rn. Just been into mastery past few years

@Carl-Richard Before helps a lot but I noticed there was a drop off in my mindfulness if I didnt continue it while doing it. it would continue for a bit but would taper off I find during the most significant but before is also critical

@Carl-Richard flow state is caused when the challenge is just slightly above your current level It's not about high/low skill

@Carl-Richard not for me, practice alone wont help at least in my experience, bc the better i got, the better the opponent so the challenge is always there Tho it is true because my anxiety would be gone for the weaker opponents

@Snader opposite happens for me. My main intention is focus so when i do mindfulness practices my focus actually increases I'm using focus as my intent and using mindfulness as a background boost. Idk if that makes sense I'm using mindfulness with labeling which has concentration baked into it so maybe this why Tho I've had a friend I brought this upto and he does vipassana. He said he doesn't do meditation when playing bc he loses focus. Idk if he's doing it wrong tho

u might be able to apply the practice to the compulsive "practice" I think This has happened to me before, using a practice as a reactive compulsion. But the compulsive one not even a practice , i later realized, i was doing it in like an ocd compulsive way

https://thehorizonsun.com/features/2020/12/18/the-swedish-prison-system/ America could use Sweden prison system. Sweden apparently treats prisoners as people with psychological needs and prisons as rehabilitation centers They also apparently have the lowest prisoner re-enter rate In America, prison employees usually say the phrase "you'll be back" to the prisoners. It's a known trope which speaks to how poorly they are run

I feel like when I talk to a guy I tend to get significantly better responses than when I talk to women, even when they're both platonic With men, I feel like there's usually a comrodarie I feel. Conversations are nice, fluid, sometimes they'll even carry the conversation But with women - they dont try simalarily. If i dont put decent effort, I don't get that same response. Is it because I'm a man and they're intimidated? I don't get it. I feel like I have to almost prove myself first. It's weird Does anyone else experience this?

@Leo Gura leo why don't u get a hair system? Ik looks arent everyting but looksmaxing helps a lot for game

Feel my success study is coming to a close

Damn. maybe call her up and respectfully call her out for it She is lacking in ethics First commentator is victim blaming btw by saying it's ur fault But yeah lesson learned

Good point. Yeah I think there are many effective strategies, outside of height

When I microdosed lsd I found some days to be amazing for socializing and some days to be more anxiety ridden Tho I saw anxiety ridden days more like it coming up for me to process

Theoretically I've heard when you have a phenomenal profile, text system, membership, few apps - old can be quite effective It just takes a lot of work I think if u use it like the average person. Just use what profile u got which are super mid, don't buy membership, don't make a funnel. I think ye it will be 0 for a lot of dudes