Jacob Morres

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Progressives don't even feel woke dude they're just gleaning opinions from society without independent analysis. Dude they're more sheep than they are woke Am I the same? Honestly we probably are all sheep lol Sort of. We can learn thru experience what's good and bad

@Princess Arabia both I think cuz girls get shamed for increasing body count

I agree OP Society puts expectations on men to be strong, stoic, confident, successful, provide, and lead to be loved etc. Like Society used to put stuff on women rite like stay at home, don't have sex etc. Culture defines it rn as toxic masculinity for guys and for girls ppl say it's mysogny But yeah at the same time, you can def find lots of people who will love who you are outside of these norms. They apply to societal thinking, not to individuals

I feel its incredibly high if you make the right moves

@Majed how? Genuinely curious I watch a lot of Hasan and am curious what he gets wrong I'm def noticing that a lot of opinions (on both sides) are more ideological than conscious opinions. It's like people just go as far as their cultures groupthink and that's about it

Chatgpt4: Confidence can stem from various sources, and people may draw from one or more of these to feel socially confident: 1. **Self-Efficacy**: Belief in one's ability to accomplish tasks successfully, often built through past experiences. 2. **Social Skills**: Mastery of basic social interactions and cues, which can make socializing less stressful. 3. **Physical Appearance**: For some, feeling good about how they look can boost confidence. 4. **Preparation**: Knowing the subject matter or social context well can instill confidence in interactions. 5. **Social Support**: A strong network of supportive friends and family can bolster one's confidence. 6. **Achievements**: Success in various domains (academic, professional, athletic) can boost self-esteem and social confidence. 7. **Mindset**: Adopting a growth mindset, where challenges are opportunities for growth, can boost confidence. 8. **Positive Affirmations**: Internal or external affirmations that reinforce one's worth can contribute to social confidence. 9. **Emotional Regulation**: Being able to manage emotions like anxiety or fear can help in feeling more socially confident. 10. **Role Models**: Observing and emulating socially confident people can offer a template for how to behave. 11. **Exposure Therapy**: Gradual exposure to social situations can desensitize people to social anxieties, increasing confidence over time. 12. **External Validation**: Although not a long-term solution, some people initially build social confidence through validation from others, before internalizing it. Understanding where your social confidence comes from can help you nurture and strengthen it further.

Yeah TV personna is pretty fake. The first time i met a bunch of influencers and I was really shocked how different their personality was to the their youtube personna. This goes with more stuff. 'Professional' demeanor where people work. Customer service. Professional demeanor in corporate And also 'polite' society where people on the street and strangers have a nice personna to others

@Leo Gura One more just cuz I'm a stickler lmao Id say its daily, consistent, conscious* practice ?

No clue tbh from a women pov. Maybe if u double down on being platonic you could do it Ik girls flirt subtly so I could see why it gets misconstrued as a sign.. maybe ud need to find a girl that knows how to do this Men generally really are starved in this way tho

Life mastery seems to be the highest pursuit

Dime con quién andas, y te diré quién eres Tell me who your friends are and I'll tell you who you are - Spanish proverb

It's probably your shadow. There's a shadow work book on leos booklist , and it talks about one technique to find your shadow aspect is to look at things that - 'annoy' you - things that you judge Then you can integrate it

If you go to a big school in usa ull find tons of small spiritual communities

one pov is that when you approach a girl you rejected the ones next to her or before her ? So you've done your rejecting already by picking a certain girl And the way girls reject is they pick from those that approach Just interesting when phrased like this

A think a value is just something that is very important to you? For example when I'm misaligned to my value of equality , it makes me feel really bad, like this is not who I want to be nor the impact I want to have on the world So I guess a value is just a manifestation of what you feel is most important Value = important

Great post New pillar of game. Insults: - bitch - hoe - fatty - hippo - weird nose lookin ahh Any other suggestions, please post thank you.

Damn such a beautiful thread. This is like infinite intelligence at play

@Princess Arabia I feel like asking for consent is important bc like every girl is diff and some need it. I'd hate to misread a nonsign and it ended up being a lack of consent yk

You can try meetup.com, there will be tons of groups like that I know someone that went to a couple diff meetups and found a friend group eventually

Tate is a psychopath Honestly be careful bc if you think tate is not a very dangerous/bad guy then you could get manipulated by a tate-like person in person as well Be conscious of what are red flags in people, and assess people by them

Productivity insights p3; we fall to the level of our systems - james clear I only think about making 3 good decisions a day - Jeff bozos = - come up optimal morning routine - come up with optimal morning journalling structure = No fucking way I deleted my fucking p1 productivity notes. I'm Kms ... By memory... big goals is just the small in aggregate - sam altman A project is just a ton of subtasks - tiago forte

cold approach is great but #1? Donno

Very interesting thanks for sharing

Honestly i think this is the main thing about preferences in general. Even when if a girl prefers 6ft etc. When you hit a girl in the emotions, those logical checklists fly out the window