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Grief porn...lol...youre too funny.

Exactly. When they realize their creating their own reality because of their belief systems, they'll probably wake up. That's why it's good to stop lashing back and, atleast, listen to another's perspective. Maybe you might learn something. They just keep perpetuating their existing beliefs. No room for growth there.

No, I get it. I get what you're saying. I've expanded my awareness of knowing who I truly am (the observer) but embodying that knowing is a challenge because of the conditioning of the mind and societal programming. Knowing this is 50% of the battle and, as my signature says, you will always lose the battle if you fight against life. I guess my response to life should be to ignore what doesn't serve me and to align with what does. Thanks for your input. I don't feel like a victim, tho.

That's the world you've created. There's only abundance including the abundance of feeling lack. You are God. Amen.

I am realizing this and working on it. I try to save others before saving myself; and like the airplane motto, put your mask on before helping others, I see the importance of this because you help by being the example. Thank you for sharing and you can share how you do you, if you so wish.

I think I've realized after making this post that it's the feeling I'm running from, and when I see others suffering, apart from being an empath and can feel other people's emotions, I don't like to see or feel their suffering because I don't like to feel mine. It's about detaching from outcome and less about controlling outcome. Surrendering, which I'm learning how to do. Thank you.

Yeah, she's right. I did feel unsafe as a child, even though consciously it doesn't affect me now; but I know the subconscious is a different story that's why it's below your conscious mind, hidden deep within, controlling our emotions and feelings. I'm like the one who, if someone says it's raining out, ugg that sucks, ill be like, well at least it's not snowing; or it's hot out, well it could be freezing, and then they'll look at me like, can I please enjoy my "miserableness". I love Teal Swan...haven't watched her in a while, tho.

It's hard while its happening but I'll try. I just don't want to suppress my feelings to a point where I become cold. I guess I have to learn how to decipher between being "cold" and not letting something bother me and choosing thoughts that correlates to that dynamic. It's not so much trying to fix, but more of feeling the pain as if it's mine. But, as you said, try to see how I'm choosing to do that and learning how to not make that choice....it's the how that's challenging. Thanks, Leo.

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Thank you. I try to be uplifting to people by being positive around them, while not suppressing my own negative feelings as a price, and turning things around to make them see another perspective on what they're viewing as negative. I've had people tell me I've made them react differently to certain situations that they would previously react to negatively. E.g road rage or someone pissing them off. They would say because of how I told them to handle it they thought about it and didn't let it bother them. I'm better at giving good advice to people than taking my own, I guess it's because I'm in my own trap and it's easier to free other people from the trap when you're not in it. It's my own trap that I need to free myself from; and as, I've learnt, I have to go meta for that. I know that from changing one person you can impact many. Thank you for your input.

I'm talking about how not to feel it to begin with. I have no problems moving on and switching back, it's the initial moment/s when I feel like I'm the one going through it while reading/hearing it that gets daunting; but it doesn't linger once I remove myself from that experience. If it's really bad It might linger for a little bit, but there's so much suffering that goes on in our society that it starts all over again and doesn't take long for it to come back. That's why I stop watching the news and don't hang out too much with negative people because their energy drains me. But I'm trying. Thanks for your input.

Wild rice is nutritious. Black rice too.

@0so, the real you as the observer is just going to observe the body/mind character doing nothing. The real you is doing nothing but observing anyway.

This was outstandingly written. I know the message is more important; but, grammatically, it was superb. Did you use some kind of machine to write this. I mean, a comment this long with no grammatical errors and so well punctuated - even when to insert the paragraphs. Be honest, did you use some type of AI or something of the sort to write this. I'm not referring to the message itself but the format. Thank you for this reminder. It was well received and hopefully others can see how understanding this message can tremendously reduce anxiety and mental suffering that people go through on a daily basis.

Good digging and pick- up are just two sides of the same coin.

At first I was like...wtf....is this a riddle. Then I read it again twice, then understood the profoundness of what it was saying.

Ok. After I said it, I thought differently after studying your profile pic. It was just a guess cause you said kings and I know a lot of black women refer to their men as kings.

I'm going to go out on a limb and say you're African American or black or something of that nature. Am I correct?

Short men need love too. The shorter the bigger. Short men get a lot of girls because of their wit. They think they have to compensate for their shortness. Take notice and you'll find a lot of shorter men being funny...or trying anyway.

Enlightened beings can still experience emotions like everyone else. Before enlightenment, chop wood carry water; after enlightenment, chop wood carry water. Anxiety, fear, anger, sadness, etc. can still arise, the difference is they will be less intense and lasts a lot shorter period of time. They also arise less and less the more conscious you become. You recognize it's a bodily response to what's apparently happening and become the observer. It depends on the individual character. Enlightened beings can still fear death as a natural response; but they will be more at peace knowing it is just the body that dies and that they were never that to begin with.

The size of the penis is the last thing I'm concerned with. I can adapt to a man's physical attributes. It's the mental I'm more concerned with. If I had to be concerned with the right fit for me where that's concerned, I'd be searching till kingdom come. See, I'm not picky. Thats what vibrators, dildos and all sorts of sex toys are for, if needed. You can buy those, but you can't buy the abstract traits. And I can even tolerate certain behaviors because I know I'd be bringing some of my own shit to the table as long as they're not overbearing. Boundaries are different, I will not skimp on those for any reason, and I only have two concrete ones.

I'm done..

Ok.. I will follow your "Signature" advice. Thanks

Really? Think again