Princess Arabia

You cannot need something you already have or else you wouldn't need it. Since you ARE everything, you don't need anything. That's why things come to you when you don't need it, it only comes into your field if you're vibrating on that frequency. Everything already exists and you're just here to experience that part of yourself that you chose to experience in any given moment. You can chose to experience something different, but you have to be a vibrational match to that thing since everything is energy. This is why the rich stays rich and the poor stays poor. A rich man who loses his riches can always get it back if he's still vibrating on the abundant frequency...and so on.

I have realized that anything I dislike is not about the thing I dislike but the way I perceive the thing I dislike. If the thing I disliked was Absolutely dislikeable, it would be disliked by everyone. If I desire to want to see the thing I dislike as likeable, I recognize I have to adjust my way of thinking about what I dislike in order for it to become likeable to me. If I don't like what I see in the mirror, I don't try to change the mirror, I try to change what's looking through the mirror. If the mirror is wiped clean, you will see a clear version of yourself. If it is foggy, you will see a foggy version of yourself. If you move to another mirror foggy or clean, you will still see that version of yourself respectively. God becomes insane when it's in the state of consciousness when it's complaining about its own creation. When it creates something it doesn't like and doesn't wipe it clean and start over, but instead whine about it and call it all sorts of names and expect it to change on its own, that's called insanity. The world is a mirror reflecting back to us our own states of consciousness. Change your state of consciousness, change your world. All the posts I've seen on here from men complaining about getting dates and attracting women have dogged women out. They complain and whine about the women they can't seem to attract. How would you know that's how they were if you didn't attract it. It had had to be within your awareness for you to be aware of it. So you attracted it and we don't attract what we want, we attract who we are. If I'm whining about meeting men who are dogs and pigs, then I attracted men who are dogs and pigs not because I'm a dog or a pig but because I assume men are dogs and pigs. Youtube's algorithm suggests videos based on your previous watches and assumes what it thinks you like to watch. It is designed that way. There are never any shortages on videos to watch on YT based on our likes. It keeps sending them our way. Well, the Universe is like that, it will keep sending women your way based on what it thinks you like and based on your reactions towards women and the traits you have energetically and emotionally reacted to. If you show no emotion towards your dislikes, it will recognize you are not interested in that. If you keep praising and show gratitude for what you like it will send more women your way that matches that. Stop complaining and whining about what you don't like because you are sending a message to the Universe that that is what you want. The Universe is here to serve you, and if you concentrate and only focus on the traits in a woman you like by showing gratitude when it comes your way and ignoring the ones you don't like without disdain and hatred, you will start to attract more of that. Your attention is your most viable asset and you should pay more attention to what you are paying attention to. Long post, but these are things I have learnt and have seen a tremendous difference with. It might not be about dating but other aspects in my life. All I can do is share with you what I've learnt and understood and then try to relate that to you the best I can. No sense in bashing and trying to convince, that is just going to perpetrate more bashing and convincing.

Is that you beating that poor robot. Ameca coming to get you. Lol

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My ex.

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I understand your confusion. I was confused too until I recognized that I'm not who I thought I was. I still don't know how I'm imagining you and vice versa because that's how tricky this shit is. I can try my best. Reality is a shared dream. There is only the present moment and creation is finished. What you are experiencing is yourself as God. What I'm experiencing is myself as God. God is a fractal that broke itself off to experience itself as itself. It became you and me simultaneously also everyone and everything. Because you can only experience one thing at a time, you as God is experiencing itself from different perspectives. What you're experiencing right now is what God is experiencing, and that goes for me too. But because creation is already finished, all these experiences have already happened and you are just catching up to it linearly because that's how the mind interprets reality. I'm imagining you and vice versa because it already happened and now you're just having the experience of what already happened, which really never happened only imagined....lol...im laughing cause I'm probably just talking out my ass and im sure someone here will correct me who has done psychedelics or have awakened. There are certain truths that I'm aware of and that is i'm aware that I'm aware, and nothing exists outside my awareness or consciousness. I'm creating my reality based on my state of consciousness and the frequency I'm vibrating at. The Universe is mental and all is mental and nothing exists outside of you and you, as God, are the operant power. You are a sovereign being and source energy, which is God, is flowing through you and that's how you came into being because God is imagining itself to be human and is doing that by being you. I can go on but i'll stop here because my hand is just typing this shit and my ego just came into play and I don't want to delude you or myself by starting to think too hard about this shit....just be and you'll be ok.

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I'm imagining you imagining me.

Yes, im imagining him...and why what? Because I already know the answer. It was meant to be rhetorical.

Because I already know the answer. It was meant to be rhetorical.

So, to be clear, are you imagining me too. Don't answer that. ?

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Grief porn...lol...youre too funny.

Exactly. When they realize their creating their own reality because of their belief systems, they'll probably wake up. That's why it's good to stop lashing back and, atleast, listen to another's perspective. Maybe you might learn something. They just keep perpetuating their existing beliefs. No room for growth there.

No, I get it. I get what you're saying. I've expanded my awareness of knowing who I truly am (the observer) but embodying that knowing is a challenge because of the conditioning of the mind and societal programming. Knowing this is 50% of the battle and, as my signature says, you will always lose the battle if you fight against life. I guess my response to life should be to ignore what doesn't serve me and to align with what does. Thanks for your input. I don't feel like a victim, tho.

That's the world you've created. There's only abundance including the abundance of feeling lack. You are God. Amen.

I am realizing this and working on it. I try to save others before saving myself; and like the airplane motto, put your mask on before helping others, I see the importance of this because you help by being the example. Thank you for sharing and you can share how you do you, if you so wish.

I think I've realized after making this post that it's the feeling I'm running from, and when I see others suffering, apart from being an empath and can feel other people's emotions, I don't like to see or feel their suffering because I don't like to feel mine. It's about detaching from outcome and less about controlling outcome. Surrendering, which I'm learning how to do. Thank you.

Yeah, she's right. I did feel unsafe as a child, even though consciously it doesn't affect me now; but I know the subconscious is a different story that's why it's below your conscious mind, hidden deep within, controlling our emotions and feelings. I'm like the one who, if someone says it's raining out, ugg that sucks, ill be like, well at least it's not snowing; or it's hot out, well it could be freezing, and then they'll look at me like, can I please enjoy my "miserableness". I love Teal Swan...haven't watched her in a while, tho.

It's hard while its happening but I'll try. I just don't want to suppress my feelings to a point where I become cold. I guess I have to learn how to decipher between being "cold" and not letting something bother me and choosing thoughts that correlates to that dynamic. It's not so much trying to fix, but more of feeling the pain as if it's mine. But, as you said, try to see how I'm choosing to do that and learning how to not make that choice....it's the how that's challenging. Thanks, Leo.

Thank you

Thank you. I try to be uplifting to people by being positive around them, while not suppressing my own negative feelings as a price, and turning things around to make them see another perspective on what they're viewing as negative. I've had people tell me I've made them react differently to certain situations that they would previously react to negatively. E.g road rage or someone pissing them off. They would say because of how I told them to handle it they thought about it and didn't let it bother them. I'm better at giving good advice to people than taking my own, I guess it's because I'm in my own trap and it's easier to free other people from the trap when you're not in it. It's my own trap that I need to free myself from; and as, I've learnt, I have to go meta for that. I know that from changing one person you can impact many. Thank you for your input.

I'm talking about how not to feel it to begin with. I have no problems moving on and switching back, it's the initial moment/s when I feel like I'm the one going through it while reading/hearing it that gets daunting; but it doesn't linger once I remove myself from that experience. If it's really bad It might linger for a little bit, but there's so much suffering that goes on in our society that it starts all over again and doesn't take long for it to come back. That's why I stop watching the news and don't hang out too much with negative people because their energy drains me. But I'm trying. Thanks for your input.

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