Princess Arabia

This is an example why forums can be helpful and advices like this helps to find solutions. I wish more of us would help to figure out solutions instead of putting our energy on blame and finding faults. We are all learning how to become civil humans criticizing, condemning and pointing fingers doesn't help. I'm also learning, and it's always refreshing to see people react to situations that stem from a negative and trying to help in a positive way. Thank you for putting your time and energy into showing this individual a positive way out and maybe help someone else who might see this who is going through a similar situation.

Being underage is not immaturity. Immaturity is having the capacity to act maturely but choosing not to maybe because of ignorance or whatever reason. We're talking about something that happened to someone when they were 12/13 years old, show some understanding because I'm sure you did things when you were in that age range because you didn't know any better.

My thing is this tho, wasn't she like 12-13 when this happened? Maybe I'm missing something here.

I can't wait for male robots with pussies. This way I'll become bi-straight.. No problems then. Best of both worlds.

Well, I'll be your therapist. Stop posting them Simpson clips and your OCD will magically disappear. Try it. I'm sure you know I'm joking...not.

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No seriously. Have you been diagnosed..Not that that makes it so, but have you? If so then I'll leave you alone with my critical remarks on these goddam Simpson clips. Helppppppp!!!! Lol

Do you have OCD?

Nice...i like...no wonder you have lovely hair. Lol

You even gracefully accept compliments. You're right about them being relative because I'm sure someone else wouldn't agree with what I said, but that's part of the beauty of life it creates its own balance even if we're unable to see it.

You are such a positive influence on this forum. You help to provide the balance that's necessary to not let the pendulum swing too far to one side. The wisdom and knowledge you display is always coming from a place of love. Thank you for displaying such grace. I don't care what they say about you. (just kidding).

It's statements like your very last sentence why some women find it very hard to report sexual abuse, rape, assault or the likes. Nowhere in his post did he say she was troublesome, and having low self-esteem isn't necessarily a requisite for one to find trouble. He already said going to the police is out the question. I think the best advice you gave was to avoid them as much as possible. There are other civil ways to deal with situations other than using fighting as a last resort. If he's being attacked, then yes, defense is necessary. Telling him to watch out.....watch out for what, like it was her fault. It's no one's fault what happened.

And that's why Muslim women wear Hijabs.

I know, I was just being silly.

I guess the others are in non-existence. ??

I did one time and never saw them again. Now I know what to say to get rid of pesky people.

Imagine imagination imagining itself and imagining itself being with itself and having an imaginary climax. Now that's having metaphysical sex. Hehe

You can't tell him how to pleasure himself only he knows how to do that. He might buy a sex toy and go against the directions and use it in a way it wasn't intended and end up in the hospital. ??

The government is a structure which is driven by forces. But I get what you're saying. But that is not sovereignty what you are describing. God cannot be harmed by fire because God is the fire. Anyway, we can let this be because what it truly means to be sovereign comes from within and cannot be taken away. What you're mostly talking about is control and how to exercise your right to make and keep your own standards as a person in society.

You have mentioned what before? Using a pillow?

When we come to the realization that sexuality cannot be labelled, we will stop labelling our sexuality. When you feel horny, did you tell yourself a minute before that, that you were going to make your body feel horny, no, it just happened. We didn't tell ourselves what we were going to be attracted to, we naturally got attracted to things. Things are just happening in life. We are only frustrating ourselves by thinking we are in control. There's a bigger force at play here, and when we realize we do not choose what we are attracted to and that attraction stems from other factors than our own direct doing, we can relax and let life do it's thing. You don't like burgers because you chose to like burgers, you like burgers because of how your brain is wired. It's a subconscious decision. If you say you like it because it tastes good, then why does it tastes good to you. Tasting is a sensation. You can like women today and hate them tomorrow, did you tell yourself you were going to choose to love women today and choose to hate them tomorrow, no, it just happened. Decisions are being made for us based on our programming. Saying you're gay today can change at any moment and now you believe you're straight. If you were truly gay nothing can change that no matter what. If anything is transient, it is not real. Impermanence is a part of life. Things are forever changing. Nothing is at a standstill and that includes your state of being. We can choose to become what we want to become by choosing what part of the already finished creation we want to explore. We are not straight, we are not gay, bi, queer, trans or any of that we just are. Whatever floats your boat at the moment then become that and whatever floats your boat in the next moment we then be that too. You'd be surprised what is available to explore by letting go of the labels. We are going against our nature and that's partially why we suffer. Even though we are limited beings we can expand our limitations to explore more of the unlimited nature of what we truly are.

I was just using a particular scenario based on your sovereignty answer. I don't think it's as simple as not doing what you don't want to do and not feeling bad about not doing what you don't want to do. It's a bit more complex than that. I was only using not paying taxes as a reference point. We didn't need to get personal with it, I could have used any example. I was just trying to show you how your answer could be misconstrued, and when you're living in a society, we cannot just do what we feel like doing without consequences. We are sovereign beings by nature but when we live in a society there are still limitations on how to express that sovereignty. Knowing you are a sovereign being is one thing but understanding how to express that sovereignty outwardly is another. It takes awareness for that not just a simple two sentence answer and not just "sovereignty means free". Understanding what that "free" means is key.

How do you lubricate with a pillow. Oh I get it, the pillow is what causes natural lubrication to occur. Duh, why didn't I think of that?

Its a scenario.. What do you do then

What if you don't feel like paying taxes, and never pay taxes and never feel bad about not paying taxes and the IRS summons you.....what do you do then....asking for a friend.