Princess Arabia

Aww...thank you, so are you. I've been watching him lately and find his views interesting and enlightening.

Thanks for your feedback.

Yeah, baby...its the "wife beater" baby. Wear the "wife beater" shirt and you get 'em all day everyday. Plus the bald head. Bald-headed guys rock.

$$$ and more $$$. Don't attack me now. Its what I do. But on the square tip...sense of humor, charisma and confidence.

@RubenThaller2001 we never stumble across anything in life by accident. There's a reason you're here. It's up to you to recognize this and take the inspired action so the Universe can experience itself through you. You may feel some resistance to this because the lower self doesn't understand that it's not in charge and the mind may come up with all sorts of rationality as to why you were led to this path. Listen to your gut, go with your intuition. Does it feel good. Does it intuitively resonate or are you being influenced by outside forces. I recommend you take it in slowly, try not to analyze or judge anything in the beginning, have an open mind and go with whatever feels more natural. The heart always knows.

You don't say that about the "coffee table" analogy. Lol just kidding.

Your inner guru, experience and women.

Lol. Looks like my cat Shy Shy that I misnamed that turned out to be the monstrous neighborhood pest.

You're pretty much saying the same thing I did; just in a different way. We're all searching for love in everything we do, even buying a car. God is love. You are love. The fabric of the Universe is made out of love. We are searching for ourselves. Everything we do is an expression of ourselves. Even if you hate, it's still a form of love. We only feel that gap because we don't recognize this and we go in search for whatever is already within us. Sounds woo, woo but when you really contemplate this, it becomes obvious.

I didn't come to any conclusion, that's why I asked. Even if that's you on your profile pic, it doesn't mean you're not trans. I guess when you said lust my mind correlates that with masculinity. Maybe because of my make up. That's all.

Sex is an expression of love. Guys just want more sex because they crave more love.

Please don't take this personally and I'm just curious. Are you a male or a trans? You probably wouldn't say if you were, anyway, and there's nothing you said that made me ask this, it's just a feeling. You don't even have to answer.

I don't get it, what is your point, that Source is bottled water, or bottled water is the source?

Girl, what did you done start here. This post made it on the "Hot" list.

I love it too. We all instinctively know the right path to take to get back to Source, because that's all we're doing here in life, even tho WE ARE SOURCE, but the egoic self takes the wheel and steers us towards the potholes.

Get an erection....that'll do it. The notion of "bigger penis, better sex", is also a trick. I'm sure there are ways for penis enlargement, don't know what, tho, never had this problem.

Bigger breasts...breast implants. Bigger penises, go on pornhub and check out the ads.

"Having to win them over with my personality makes me feel unattractive" has nothing to do with them. You already feel unattractive. You are waiting for validation on the outside. You want women to be vain and should want you first for your looks. The reason why "bad boys" like A.T gets women so easily isn't because he won anybody over or his looks. It's because INSIDE he already feels worthy, he feels he's the shit and he is God's gift to women, he is confident. That's the "bad boy" dynamic. The type of women he attracts is another story and if his confidence and whether he's really God's gift to women is irrelevant. All he needs is the FEELING. "The Feeling Is The Secret" as the quote says. I see lots of unattractive women getting all guys of guys. Why is that? They are confident in that area. They feel they're the shit. Ever see a fat woman showing off her stomach and her ass and walking in confidence? She doesn't care she knows she looks good and that will shine through and you won't see the "fatness" first , you'll see confidence written all over. Look around you in the real world, do you see physically attractive people (by societal norms) walking all over the place getting hitched. Are we plagued by so many attractive people that unattractive people stand out. No, attractive people stand out because most people look "normal". Yet, most people are having sex, having kids, getting married, going on dates..etc..you get my point. I could go on and on with this to show you how it's your mind that's creating this. Your beliefs. Build on your confidence, your worth and your view about women. Start to see yourself as God's gift to them and how you're so handsome you can get any girl you want. Keep saying it and the mind will start to believe it to a point where it will reflect that in your reality because your actions will also change and the Universe doesn't hear what you say it responds to how you feel. You are creating your world with your thoughts and belief systems, so you are creating those rejections. You might deny this, of course, but it's true. I had to come to this realization myself, and with some introspection, I recognized how I was doing it. Different aspects of my life, that is. Try to understand this because it is crucial if you want to start attracting the opposite sex. Looks without inner confidence is nothing but inner confidence without looks can take you a long way. And looks is also relative.

Quite interesting. A bit extreme, most women probably wouldn't go about it the way she does but kiegel exercises can help. Just goes to show we have to watch what we think is impossible because our minds and experiences are limited. Bigger breasts... that's easy, even nature provides solutions to that. Bigger penises too and all sorts of body parts can be changed. Even the non-physical like mindsets are changeable. This Universe is infinite and forever changing. We're the ones that always want to remain the same. There's a solution for everything except stopping change itself. When we open our minds the answers will come.

I suggest you watch this. You might become more aware of why you're feeling the way you do.

Well, I guess I'll be taking that course because I love the God talk.

This is why you need to stop watching fantasy shows like this. This is TV. And even if it's real, you're comparing yourself which just plummets your self-esteem and thinking you have to suffer to get a girl to like you.

You see the "nice guy syndrome". It's a manipulative tactic some guys use to try to make you feel guilty for not making that a priority on your "guys I would date list". They know exactly what they're doing because they are experts at this and then they get upset when you don't fall for it, then start telling you about the ground you're walking on like what @StarStruckIs doing. He was flirting with you yesterday, now he's saying all this stuff he's saying now because he realizes you would never date a guy who follows the master of manipulator.

I'm aware of that but you didn't answer the question. If that's what you are suggesting, are you aware over 700,000 people worldwide commit suicide each year. I wonder what the causes were. Probably not from being on a forum. Other factors are involved. Do you blame gun manufactures for every person that gets shot. I bet you don't blame the Supermarkets for hosting poisons on their shelves that's slowly causing millions of deaths each year. The blame game never gets to the root cause.

This is why "gold diggers" exists. No bitterness involved if their time spent was worth the aggravation. Only women who give their love and time freely and easily have room for bitterness. Not saying anyone should go gold digging, but at least let the guy invest a bit and earn the prize he's chasing. There's a reason why men chase women. There's a reason why they compete for women. What do you people usually compete for a PRIZE. Most low standard guys will disagree with this but it's because they refuse to up their game to get the prize they want so they settle for the runner up and tell you to lower your standards to match theirs. You don't see much successful men involved in Involuntary Celibacy because most understand what it takes to attract a woman worth investing in, protect and provide for. Its not about the sex/financial dynamic but more about the attractor factor. They understand women value security in a relationship and that entails being able to trust his provision for her and a family if they were to get married and have kids. It's just innate whether they marry or have kids, doesn't matter. Its instinctual. This only refers to women /men looking for long-term lasting relationships. By all means have sexual relationships just for its own sake without attachments, that's fine too, but the guys who want a woman to lower her standards just to get laid, isn't doing either any good because he will only resent her in the end and start to feel inadequate, because instinctively he knows she deserves better. Both of them do.