Princess Arabia

@Lila9thanks for your input, girl and Teal Swan's video was very informative. She trying to look all sexy and shit in all red. She pulled that shit off. I was feeling sexy and romantic watching that shit. Wish I had a partner watching it with me. Lol. But seriously, I got all her points and she made very good ones.

What I've noticed with people is we don't realize there are 8 billion people on earth. We all experience different things at different times and stages in our lives. We tend to think what we ourselves are feeling and experiencing, everyone or most people are experiencing the same thing. This argument is pointless in debating because everyone is different and not everyone will feel the same way or see partying in the same light. Travel a bit and experience more out of your own bubble and you would be amazed at how other people see the world.

Love the way you express yourself, such broad perspectives. You make one think.

You are wearing make-up now. The camera lens. You are only appearing to look a certain way in that picture.

That's what you say now until she likes you back.

Reality is also that way. The Internet mimics Reality. Only way it's possible. Looking at you in the grave will look totally different than how you look now. Seeing you crying looks totally different from seeing you smiling. Do you deny both appearances saying it looks fake. Look at what you're looking at and enjoy or not enjoy it for how it's appearing because everything you see are only appearances and not the Real thing.

Idk, I get confused too. It's the only way to get clarity. Before clarity comes confusion, can't have one without the other. That's the beauty of Oneness, Duality. It's all fine. It's OK to be confused. How can we know what a clean house feels like if we've never seen a dirty one.

Ok, got it.

I just love your avatar. That's all. No confusion about that. You created your avatar as a symbol of you. I'm experiencing that with no confusion. Your avatar isn't you, it's symbolic. No word games there. Somebody else might not like it, so it's relative. It's all the absolute. Symbolic of the One

Hi. Thank you for your input. Pleasure and pain are two sides of the same coin and both can be addictive. Orgasms can be used as a creative tool and can bring manifestations to light if used properly. Most people only engage in sex to fulfill a need and because of that, the feeling afterwards can be unrewarding since Infinity is already complete and lacks nothing. If we seek pleasure to avoid pain we are denying a part of us that is trying to come to the light so it can be healed. We are looking for highs and avoiding lows when both are a part of the dual nature of Reality. It is not until we can drop our expectations and just enjoy ourselves as we are and realize that resistance is part of the evolution process and to not resist resistance, that we grow and start to enjoy the process rather than trying to benefit or gain from anything. I'm starting to understand that it's not so much what we do or don't do but how we process what's arising and if we have the desire to release some pent- up energy that way, to just go ahead and do that without thinking too much about it as long as were not harming anyone in the process and understand it's a bodily function which also can be used as a creative tool.

I will not even argue with people anymore about the obvious Universal laws that are always at play. Can't make the horse drink the water only lead him to it. They think shit is all random here. The laws are real and are always at play. It is the root of existence and why things are ordered and structured. Kind of a chaotic order. They call it woo woo. Nothing woo woo about God. Nothing woo woo about your heart beating. Nothing woo woo about the Sun the Moon and how we can predict the sun's rising and setting precisely. Nothing woo woo about the earth's magnetic field and your ability to repel and attract things to you. Nothing woo woo . Nothing woo woo about anything. Life should be playful, yes, and we should all lighten up, but it shouldn't be taken for granted. It is a magnificent show a Tristan Chord and when we sync up to it's melody, it can be a marvelous song there for us to listen to in silence.

Am I the volcano you're referring to. If so, I erupted and fell back into homeostasis hoping to stay dormant. ?

Funny you say this. I was raised in the church (Baptist). For years I attended as a child/late teens. Even got a reward for best attendance. Never missed a Sunday. Even got baptized at 14yrs old with my mom. Anyway, after years went by and I became an adult, I started to question the teachings. I came to US and went to chur here once or twice and didn't relate and never went back. Throughout the years I just lived my life normally, but in the back of my mind was wondering where is this God. Never really gave it any serious thought because I was too busy surviving. It was always in the back of my mind, though. My mom even tried to get me to read the Bible with her when I would visit her and I would be silently resentful because something about it's translation never resonated with me and I felt forced. Not that I wasn't interested, I wanted something more. To make a long story short. IT was when I was about to give up on God and started telling myself there is no God and even crying about it because I couldn't find it was when it revealed itself to me. It happened when I let go. When the confusion was becoming very apparent. It's like it was right in front of my face saying here I am, here I am, but I couldn't see it. When it said, I'm not letting this one go, I've gone too far with the hide and seek, I'm going to end this game now and reveal myself. "So-to-speak. I never looked back. Infact it can't get rid of me. I'm totally in love. I feel it through my bones, my heart and being. Even writing this part gives me goosebumps. So sometimes, it's not the coming to God, but the denying of God and the letting go of the search that can make it happen. For me, it was instant, no thought or reasoning. Just knowing, to the point where I felt so silly I didn't recognize it before. I was like a kid in a candy store. Telling everyone. Not too many, but those close to me, but sometimes even strangers if the convo went that way. It wasn't until I recognized that this info wasn't well received or people looking at you funny, that I really knew I was on to something, a revelation, that people would call you blasphemous and whatever other way they'll come up with to deny this Truth. I never once doubted. Infact, peoples' reaction, made me mire convinced, even though I needed no convincing. I have stopped doing that now, because I've recognized that they are all God too and makes no sense trying to tell God it is God if it's not ready to reveal itself to itself. Only on very few occasions if I sense an air of curiosity and the conversation is welcomed. I'm more now concentrating on how the mind works, the Universal laws, quantum physics and the nature of Consciousness.

About women.

At least I made you laugh. Be patient with yourself. Everything will work it's course. You have a safe place to express yourself, thank goodness, so you don't have to keep it all bottled up inside. Reach out to me anytime you feel the need or just want to talk. I'm here for you. You help me like I help you. It's a two way street. Much love.

If you were intelligent enough to understand what that 0 meant you would have realized, like Ajax was intelligent enough to catch and understand, was that I meant he was perfect. 0/10 same difference. Go back and read his response. He understood what I meant. If I was going to be phased with what anyone thought about what I did, I wouldn't have put myself out there, so it doesn't matter what you say about that. I won't even address it. I'm always hearing the term Only fans on here. I don't even know how to apply and start the first video where that is concerned maybe you could give me some pointers as yours so familiar with it. You might as well save the bashing on those weak points you're going to make on what I do, because I can't relate. Maybe if you say something original, it might catch my ear. Yawn.

This is a typical example of how women are looked at in our society and sometimes misunderstood and/or treated. We are not supposed to have opinions. We have to tip toe around men so we don't hurt their feelings or come off as baiting, teasing and have to be schooled on how to give compliments without seeming flirtatious. We have to take into consideration how they are not complimented enough and feel unattractive, so we have to babysit them and be careful how we come across. Women have to deal with men's flirting and hawking all the time. We fear walking alone at night or even going out alone for fear of guys always hitting on us. We have to make sure we smile, laugh at their corny jokes and make them feel special or else we're called bitches, stuck-up or downright rude. If we have sex with multiple partners, we're hoes and sluts, but when men do it, they are worshipped and praised. We have to make sure our skirts aren't too short because they take that as an invitation and when we don't reciprocate, we're criticized and called baiters. We have to be on our pees and q's when we communicate for fear of coming on too strong and being mis- read, while they can just say whatever the hell they want to us and leaving their funky ass pick-up lines to our discretion to take it or leave it. Then they just move on to the next skirt that walks by. I can keep this going, but I'll just stop here so it doesn't seem like I'm venting. I'm just showing the down-side that women have to put up with in society in order to be classified as well.....i don't really know.

You're welcome. A lot of men on this forum. They don't understand sometimes women's make-up and how we view certain things, saying this respectfully. We are not all the same and perspectives vary depending on age, experience and POV. You can always tell the ones who have been badly hurt and project their hurt unto other women. Everyone's been hurt at some point in time. The key is to let it go and move on. Some find that hard to do, and now it's reflecting in their comments.

Men are not that complicated. I'm one of the most open-minded people around the block. If I open it too much more, I might sink to the bottom of the ocean, whatever that means.

Listen to the OP's response to you. I'm not making this shit up. You're probably right as I should just keep my mouth shut. I guess I like to introspect and don't mind constructive criticisms as I know I'm not always right and sometimes can get a bit irritated, that's why sometimes I bring things to people's attention, but I should realize not everyone is like me and can't take criticisms and would rather stay at the level they're at and don't need me to shed light on their ignorance, so I will be a bit more considerate of that in the future. But, as in this case, I see I need say no more as the OP is handling it very well.

I've been around men sexually, have you. Maybe I know more about men in that way more than you do, Ever thought about that. You may know more about women sexually than I do. Maybe I can learn a thing or two about women from you. I don't lecture anyone on how to be anything. You cannot stand it when one point out your weaknesses. I love it when people point out mine. Maybe I can learn a thing or two. Why are you talking about men being hurt. That's not what her post is about. That means you're projecting. I don't really care what you think of me, I will continue to be me. As long as I stay true to who I am, I don't worry about what others think. I'm not acting as if men can't get hurt, her post is not even about men getting hurt, why are you bringing that up. Did you read your responses to her, as if she doesn't have the right to compliment men if she doesn't want to risk it getting further. I will just stop here, but so you know when you accuse me of something please quote, so I can revise and check myself accordingly, if not keep it to yourself.

@Buck EdwardsPlease stop projecting. You're the one turning her simple ass post into issues you're having with women. Not every guy sees a woman's compliments as bait and teasing. You're just turning things around and saying these things to her because of your experiences and beliefs. Learn to get out of your head and see things for what they are and not what you perceive them to be. She's just simply asking how to give honest compliments to the opposite sex without seeming flirtatious. It's an innocent question, nothing to do with all you're talking about.

@eos_nyxiaHi. From reading your post and comments I understand where this is coming from. At first I thought it was kind of trivial and an unnecessary burden on oneself trying to flirt with the opposite sex and not knowing how, especially being married. I sense in your tone a certain passion and willingness to try to make the world a better place and, since this issue was brought to your attention, where certain men feel they're not complimented enough, you think it might help to give them more confidence and a sense of worth in the dating compartment. What might seem trivial to some may be important to others. Let me start here: Whenever you feel like giving a genuine compliment, whether to a male or female, just do it. Don't overthink it or have any particular expectations of what the result may bring. Just do it as long as it's genuine. As far as you complimenting males without seeming flirtatious, I would say just compliment, smile then move on. Don't strike up a conversation. If he says thank you and says nothing else, that's it. If he says thank you and starts to converse about things unrelated to the compliment that seems flirty, just give one or two word answers and find a nice way to exit the conversation. This is tricky because it all depends on the situation. Where you are, time of day, are people around and venue. Elevators with people around is ok. Nice shirt, nice shoes, nice cologne, nice watch etc. Just don't use the word LOVE. Like love your hair, just, nice hair. Move on. Don't compliment guys at night if you're the only two around. Just keep it moving. No special reason, just avoidance of unnecessary shit. If you're at a party, or amongst other people just give the compliment, smile and walk away if it's not awkward to do so. If it's not convenient to walk away, and you would like to give a compliment without seeming flirty, just say the compliment, smile without staring in his eyes, maybe stare at the thing you're complimenting and just focus on that without unnecessary conversation. Everything depends. Use your judgement and try to avoid compliments if the person was staring at you first if you would rather not hold a conversation. Make it short and sweet and never compliment a guy on a particular body part. That's just too personal and sounds inviting. Unless it's a tattoo or if his lips are huge. Just kidding about the lips. That's my bit of advice on this subject. Hope it helps.

Wtf did I just watch.