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You're welcome. A lot of men on this forum. They don't understand sometimes women's make-up and how we view certain things, saying this respectfully. We are not all the same and perspectives vary depending on age, experience and POV. You can always tell the ones who have been badly hurt and project their hurt unto other women. Everyone's been hurt at some point in time. The key is to let it go and move on. Some find that hard to do, and now it's reflecting in their comments.

Men are not that complicated. I'm one of the most open-minded people around the block. If I open it too much more, I might sink to the bottom of the ocean, whatever that means.

Listen to the OP's response to you. I'm not making this shit up. You're probably right as I should just keep my mouth shut. I guess I like to introspect and don't mind constructive criticisms as I know I'm not always right and sometimes can get a bit irritated, that's why sometimes I bring things to people's attention, but I should realize not everyone is like me and can't take criticisms and would rather stay at the level they're at and don't need me to shed light on their ignorance, so I will be a bit more considerate of that in the future. But, as in this case, I see I need say no more as the OP is handling it very well.

I've been around men sexually, have you. Maybe I know more about men in that way more than you do, Ever thought about that. You may know more about women sexually than I do. Maybe I can learn a thing or two about women from you. I don't lecture anyone on how to be anything. You cannot stand it when one point out your weaknesses. I love it when people point out mine. Maybe I can learn a thing or two. Why are you talking about men being hurt. That's not what her post is about. That means you're projecting. I don't really care what you think of me, I will continue to be me. As long as I stay true to who I am, I don't worry about what others think. I'm not acting as if men can't get hurt, her post is not even about men getting hurt, why are you bringing that up. Did you read your responses to her, as if she doesn't have the right to compliment men if she doesn't want to risk it getting further. I will just stop here, but so you know when you accuse me of something please quote, so I can revise and check myself accordingly, if not keep it to yourself.

@Buck EdwardsPlease stop projecting. You're the one turning her simple ass post into issues you're having with women. Not every guy sees a woman's compliments as bait and teasing. You're just turning things around and saying these things to her because of your experiences and beliefs. Learn to get out of your head and see things for what they are and not what you perceive them to be. She's just simply asking how to give honest compliments to the opposite sex without seeming flirtatious. It's an innocent question, nothing to do with all you're talking about.

@eos_nyxiaHi. From reading your post and comments I understand where this is coming from. At first I thought it was kind of trivial and an unnecessary burden on oneself trying to flirt with the opposite sex and not knowing how, especially being married. I sense in your tone a certain passion and willingness to try to make the world a better place and, since this issue was brought to your attention, where certain men feel they're not complimented enough, you think it might help to give them more confidence and a sense of worth in the dating compartment. What might seem trivial to some may be important to others. Let me start here: Whenever you feel like giving a genuine compliment, whether to a male or female, just do it. Don't overthink it or have any particular expectations of what the result may bring. Just do it as long as it's genuine. As far as you complimenting males without seeming flirtatious, I would say just compliment, smile then move on. Don't strike up a conversation. If he says thank you and says nothing else, that's it. If he says thank you and starts to converse about things unrelated to the compliment that seems flirty, just give one or two word answers and find a nice way to exit the conversation. This is tricky because it all depends on the situation. Where you are, time of day, are people around and venue. Elevators with people around is ok. Nice shirt, nice shoes, nice cologne, nice watch etc. Just don't use the word LOVE. Like love your hair, just, nice hair. Move on. Don't compliment guys at night if you're the only two around. Just keep it moving. No special reason, just avoidance of unnecessary shit. If you're at a party, or amongst other people just give the compliment, smile and walk away if it's not awkward to do so. If it's not convenient to walk away, and you would like to give a compliment without seeming flirty, just say the compliment, smile without staring in his eyes, maybe stare at the thing you're complimenting and just focus on that without unnecessary conversation. Everything depends. Use your judgement and try to avoid compliments if the person was staring at you first if you would rather not hold a conversation. Make it short and sweet and never compliment a guy on a particular body part. That's just too personal and sounds inviting. Unless it's a tattoo or if his lips are huge. Just kidding about the lips. That's my bit of advice on this subject. Hope it helps.

Wtf did I just watch.

Lol

@Salvijusthere are countless of people on various channels across the internet including this forum where people are giving testimonies of life changing content, where people are changing other people's lives for the better, Including the Channel posted here, Leo's work and numerous others. Where is yours. Don't assume people aren't benefitting from various teachings and levels of teachings. There's something for everyone and sometimes the simpler the better. I will continue to posts videos that I think can be of service to others, since I'm not making content myself and I will continue to help others any way I can, because that is how I maintained my sanity and level of awareness because of others helping me and I'm giving back the best I know how.

@at_anchoryour imagination is so wild and adventurous. Your movie is more exciting than mine. Geesh, why didn't I make mine more exciting. Shit, who wants to live a boring life of peace and harmony. Who wants heaven when hell is more fiery. Heaven is boring. Hell is exciting. My imagination doesn't come close to yours, shit i have to step up my game. The only problem is, I do prefer peace over turmoil, heaven over hell and love over hate. That's my problem. I'm screwed.

@fgh96I meant to comment on your other post, but technical difficulties arose and then it slipped me. I am so amazed and delighted that someone else here is talking about this channel. I have posted a few videos from this channel in the past and it's taken a new subscriber to duplicate that. This is how powerful the Law of Attraction is. I knew eventually It would start to rub off and I would become aware of it's impact here. You never know who watches videos you post and sometimes you're unaware if they have served anyone, but, if you keep spreading the word and doing your part, it will start to reveal itself to you. I've seen this too many times in my personal life. Countless times I was made aware, in different ways, how what I said, posted somewhere, a video I posted, treated someone etc etc, of the impact in made in someone's life and vice versa. So I know the importance of what it means to "keep going" someone's listening, someone's watching. And it's the small stuff, the little things. Don't hide behind a screen, don't constantly judge and find fault, go out and do your part however you can. Life is not about you, it's the lives you can make a difference in, the impact you have on people. I never know in the moment when it's happening, but it always reveals itself to me eventually. I will check out the other channel you mentioned also, I've never heard of it, but that's the power of life's algorithm. It keeps showing you more and more of what you're focused on, that's why I try to focus more on the positive side of life and use the negatives as lessons and chances to grow because the negatives will knock you down and if you don't have the courage, to get back up you will stay down and keep on thinking life is against you when that's only because you keep believing that it is. Edit: P.S. I just hit the link and noticed I'm subscribed to her channel. I know who she is. That's why I was curious, because I do know alot of these channels. I only focus on a few, though because it helps me focus and not get too all over the place. But I do know her. Tom's channel is different though. More deep. But I do like her too. I'm speaking of Missy Renee, here. A lot of these other channels are Manifesting Channels. 'Be Something Wonderful" is more than that.

You said it right there. That's a clue. That's a breadcrumb trail you left for yourself. You just don't have the eyes to see it. I see it, though. I see the clues everywhere. It's a story. You won't see them until you've awaken. Awaken out of the dream. Start being aware of your stories. The stories you tell yourself. I'm still telling stories, I'm still unaware at times how I'm creating my Reality, but one thing I can say, is there is a certain KNOWING. A knowing of what and who I am. A knowing that I am safe no matter what, I'm OK no matter what, no matter what outside circumstances may bring. I AM THAT I AM. Be still and know that I AM GOD. I cannot be touched. I cannot be harmed. I cannot be hurt. All I'm doing in life is having an experience. Realizing what I'm not. Yes, I get afraid, yes, I get worried at times, yes I get angry, sad, frustrated, yes I get happy, joyful, whatever. I feel those emotions. But I don't identify with them. They are fleeting. They are sensations. They come and they go. I'm not attached to them. I am back to my CENTER at any given moment. Back to the Awareness center. So all those fleeting things don't get a hold of me anymore. I test myself. I put myself in situations purposely. Why. To develop. To water the seed. To develop Trust and I kept trusting and trusting in my own capabilities. I am my own Guru, my own teacher. I have guides, and I have helpers, but I put them there, I put them there to help guide me, just like you put me here. It's not a coincidence I'm here on this fucking thread. Do you think my egoic mind wants to be here typing this, no. But I'ts not in control. It think it is, but it's not. I get sick of it sometimes. I get sick of being placed in these situations that drain my fucking energy, but I continue, I know why it's being done and I keep on keeping on because my life is not about me, it's the people that I come in contact with and how I can serve. I'm tired now. I can't even read it over for mistakes. I'm energetically through with this. I have to go recharge. Bye.

@flowboythank you

My girl, Lila, I knew you would bring it.?. My clit is my erogenous zone. It's where I derive the most sexual pleasure. To have an orgasm, for me, my clit has to be stimulated. The best position for me when having intercourse with a man and for me to have an orgasm is if I'm laying on my stomach, him behind me and either him or me stimulating my clit at the same time he's inside. It's the best. My nipples are very perky and distinct and very sensitive too, so that's another area. Ok, enough of that incase I'm turning on any of you guys, it's not my intention, just expressing to Lila and responding to her comment☺️☺️?. I think God invented sex because he knew how selfish we are as humans and we needed some major influence in order to reproduce. It had to be the number one pleasurable experience for us or else it wouldn't be able to successfully replicate itself over and over if it didn't provide something as enjoyable as sex for us to engage in. You're also right about the vibrating sex-toys being harmful as years ago when I used to use vibrators in my clit, I started to notice how it was becoming desensitized by just using my fingers. Didn't feel as stimulating and could barely feel anything. Luckily, I realized it early on and stopped using them. Only once in a blue moon if requested and provided because I don't own any. I don't even own a dildo. Lol. I don't own any sex toys. Only my fingers. I eat a lot of plantains and, according to google, they are an aphrodisiac. I notice my drive gets stronger after eating them, green or ripe. I'd be like, why do I feel so horny today, oh, I had plantains for breakfast or dinner and all week. Oysters and sushi ain't got nothing on plantains, so eater beware. Thanks, Lila for your input.

At least you watched the video, The Universe works in mysterious ways, so even though you're still carrying on with your please God help me which God cannot hear because it's just you talking to you, this is a forum seen by many and maybe someone else might get something from it too. Sometimes I really wonder if you guys really want the help you seek or if you're just playing games. It's not that I'm in a place of peachy gory and everything is just wonderful and that I don't suffer at times or my life is so magnificent, no. But what I've recognized is a lot of my concerns are in my mind, they are ego driven and most are not real. I can sit here and complain all I want, nothing will change unless I change me, how I view myself, the world, others and the assumptions i make. I could feast on the things that aren't going the way I want them to, focus on the sucky parts and blame this and that for why this and why that. This is not about toxic positivity and ignoring the turbulence. It's not about pretending to be happy when you're not, it's not about acting as if, nor is it not having real concerns for one's so-called problems, it's about Trust, it's about letting go, it's about recognizing falsehood, it's about trying to align with what's true, it's about surrendering, it's about dropping all the veils and seeing yourself as Source sees you. It's about not identifying with false beliefs, it's about limiting the amount of biases one holds, it's about recognizing the power within and how it's being directed, it's about knowing one's self and getting to know how the mind works. I could keep going on and on. I've also recognized that I can learn through other's and I've sent myself messages to myself through others. I just have to become more aware to see and recognize them. We are all entangled and there is no separation. Sometimes I become bold, I choose to reveal certain things about myself to show myself there is no threat, no need to hide, no need to fear judgements and criticisms, no need to constrict and worry about what people think, because, at the end of the day, after it's all done you still remain, if anything you build upon courage, the courage needed to expose the devil within, to show it you're not afraid of it and the power it thinks it has on you. This is how I grow. I deliberately expose myself to things just to show myself how a lot of my fears are just in my head. I got tired of me. I got tired of being tired. I got tired of all the projections and illusory fears that took a hold of me, I got tired of all the suffering, I got tired of feeling sorry for myself, I got tired of viewing myself and the world through my own distorted lens. I just got fucking tired. Now, I'm not tired anymore, I'm not confused anymore, I'm not worrisome anymore, yes shit happens but I get over them quickly, I don't dwell on them, the synchronicities are amazing, the opportunities keep coming and the obstacles are far and few. Not because I'm doing anything, all I did was surrendered, let go, it's amazing how when you let go of yourself and trust the process how life works in your favor, not in the sense how you think it should be but in the sense of how it is, how it's flowing through you, stop getting in the way. I still get in the way, and when I do, I notice the flow stops. This is a life long fucking journey, and all you have to do is get on the right path and the Universe will lead you the right way, but only if you let it.

She seems fine to me. Nothing inauthentic to me. She seems happy and joyful and smiles a lot, but to me it's her natural state. Yes, she's in front of a camera and that may play a role, but overall she seems genuine.

She probably ran into the arms of another one of his kind.

Where we have progressed so much and more and more technologies and more women working and all the movements going on etc, times gave changed, especially in the western world.

Relationships and what makes the different dynamics work. There are cultural differences that may make or break a relationship.

Depending on the Country/Culture. Because more women are joining the work field.

This isn't the point I'm making. He implied the woman is SUPPOSED to cook and clean and that is her DUTY as a partner. I'm saying only if it turns out that way and it's not a duty. Lots of women in healthy relationships cook/clean, but I bet its their choice and it doesn't feel like a chore and also the male is providing for the family. The way he made it sound was that was a woman's duty. He called it female work. I love to cook, but will not get into a partnership where I feel it's my duty. I will do it because I love to do it. Nothing wrong with being a housewife, in fact, that's how it works best in most occasions where children are involved. But let's be real. Not in today's society, but we don't have to stray too far. When I say the traditional stuff, I meant the myths. This topic requires more than a one or two sentence quote to explain. I'm all for tradition, just not the misunderstood ones. Matter of fact, forget that, I'm all for whatever works.

Here's your answer.