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I would say that's a distinction. I would say discernment is having the qualifications to understand or comprehend something previously unknown.

Nice. Very Inspiring.

We also have ignorant people..Infinity

Maybe it exists to balance things out. Who knows. Who cares. Why not be concerned with why mass shootings occur. Why poverty exists. Why domestic violence happens. Why are so many people drug addicted. Did you choose to be straight. Did you choose to be born male. Did you choose to be whatever race you are. You didn't even choose your preferences. They were all predetermined just like people who are gay. Why do you like burgers instead of broccoli. Do you know. (insert whatever foods you like and dislike). Because one tastes better? Why does it tastes better to you. Can you answer that. Are you operating your tastes buds. No. Just because something happens more often doesn't mean what occurs less is not natural. I experience more sunny days than blizzards. Aren't blizzards a natural occurrence. What is a fact is that humans have limited minds, therefore limited perspectives, therefore limited arguments, therefore limited world views, therefore limited ways of thinking, therefore limited ideas, therefore limited understanding, therefore we should leave what God created alone and live our lives the best we know how and let the limited homosexuals be to do the same.

Brian Scott's channel is good, will watch those later. Thanks.

Didn't know you could smoke it. Is it like an Yerba mate cig. Or you roll it yourself or can you buy it. I currently smoke American Spirits, which is an all natural cig, but it's still pure tobacco, which is still toxic in minute portions to humans. The "normal" cigs are mostly filled with other toxic substances like ammonia and rat poison along with like 500 other chemicals.

Exactly

This is why I add the word "subtle". The difference is so subtle. @Carl-Richardis making some good points, which I'm trying to make discernments on to see the differences, but the point you just made about description is also notable. Geesh, this subject is more complicated than I thought. Lol

Maybe that's the difference i'm indirectly referring to - condescending. I try so hard in my mind to analyze what I'm trying to say because I still stand by my stance on it. I use examples to try to clarify the minute, subtle differences between judging and, like you say, description. I see the differences now I think "condescending" is where my mind draws the difference. Even though I still think we can make observations without judging it because it's what is and i'm trying to train my mind to accept what is without interpretation and with full acceptance as my Signature suggests. But thank you for this and I will contemplate on it a bit more as I recognize some judgement is needed for us to maneuver our way around life - just not condescendingly.

I kind of resonated with most of what he said so I can agree that he does see it in the same light as I do, somewhat. Close.

I'm not really concerned with what humans do all the time because humanity is in trouble as far as what i've observed and all of us experience emotional pain and a lot have traumas and emotional baggage and so on. We think it's all normal and we try to fix it externally thinking it's something out there that caused it. I'm more in the business of going against the grain and normality of human behavior (including my own) to try to alleviate the amount of suffering we put ourselves through. What causes it and how to reduce it. I look at normal human behavior and try to put the pieces together to see if those behaviors can be traced back to why we suffer and try to see what we can do differently in the way we think which leads to the actions we take which determines our way of being.

To me, just saying someone is fat, isn't judging. Example 1. She's fat - not judging. Example 2. She's fat and that's disgusting - judging. 1. He said some inappropriate things to me - not judging. 2. He's an asshole for saying some inappropriate things to me - judging. You're adding stories behind your observations. That's observing with judgement. Observing without judgement is observing something for what it is without making condescending remarks about what you're observing. It's hard to explain because of the subtle difference. We all put stories and meaning to things we observe, that's what we do as humans but we can observe, analyze compare and explain without being condescending and labelling things without judging them. That's the best way I can describe what I'm trying to say. Making a judgement call about a decision you have to make is not judging, calling someone's decision after them making a judgement call silly or stupid is judging. Saying you think that judgement call you made is not a wise decision isn't judging, that's an opinion. Saying someone is silly and foolish for making a particular decision is also an opinion but it's still judging because you're not calling the decision silly you're calling the person silly. I'm trying to explain the subtle difference very delicately the best I know how, but I can see it in my mind's eye the difference, but it's nit easy to explain on paper.

You don't build a website of this caliber without putting passion into it. This was very well thought out and took a lot of time and energy to build. You can also see the passion in his eyes in most of his videos. Everyone has to make a living, but you can tell this means a lot to him. To what degree, idk, but it's more than just business. Anyone else who knows what passion feels would be able to sense that. Even if he's out "living his life", as you phrased it, it is well deserved. All of us are reaping the benefits of his hard work, including you just from having the opportunity to voice your opinion here, so that in itself is worth it for you to be able to "have a voice", even if it is to criticize.

I like this advice and that's what I try to do. I can't even separate the two even if I tried.

I opened up a Mega Thread for Spiritual movie trailers/documentaries. Can you post that movie trailer and the link over there please. It's in the Off-Topic/Entertainment section. Thanks. Would love to add that to the collection.

When I'm reading a post that's well written and oozing with tasty vomit, I don't mind if it's a bit lengthy. I myself can write some lengthy remarks but sometimes that's what's needed to get a point across. People tend to have short attention spans for note-worthy readings and tend to give their attention to twerking booties and 3hr bloody movies that raises their blood pressure. A bit of humor there, but you get what I'm saying.

At least you didn't try to fight me this time. Fear of being broke can make you strive for financial success, and you may get it yes, but it will come at a cost. Love for feeling abundant carries a different energy and that's more sustainable. Love trumps fear. Focus on what you love over what you fear because love is all there is. Fear is an illusion that exists in the mind and will destroy you if you let it.

I can see through God's bullshit, don't think I can't see through your human shit. I know what you're saying, you Merkabah Starry fishtail you.😜😜

You might just want to follow me to my house if I really get real down and nasty on this forum that's why I try to behave myself and stick to the Spiritual aspects of things because my sleeping with women ain't nothing compared to what other toys I've slept with. You'll be begging to unfollow me by the time I'm done showing you. Don't mind me, they say it's the ones with all the talk that ain't doing shit. That's me. I ain't doing shit but all talk. Come here Amy, let's show them some talking.......blub, blub.....cumming Princess!!!

This happens as a result of judgement, judgement of yourself and others. When I say certain things, it's because i can sometimes see the bigger picture. What the results will be. A lot of times it's unknowable in the moment, but I know the result will not be satisfactory because of the structure. So, the results will be difficulty in certain aspects of your life, disappointments and disdain, just as you stated. And to address your last statement, the result of all that will be blame. Now you're blaming what you call uncultivated people for your suffering - which is a judgement to call them uncultivated. I'm not trying to come down on you, I'm trying to let you see you can't win when it's not love. If it's not love, it's fear. Judging people isn't loving people, accepting people or exercising empathy towards them. Those qualities are God's qualities. We are far from becoming the Godhead, but moving away from it will not sustain itself. Those negative qualities will need other negative qualities for anchors which will eventually lead to a crashing down of the whole structure. Having high standards is great, but are they coming from a place of superficiality and materialism or high standards for quality interactions with people and the outside world, quality way of being, qualities for expressions of love and creativity. If those high standards are for pretty women, fancy cars, nice clothes, expensive this and expensive that, those standards will not create in you a sense of worth, peace and contentment for long because it is not who you are at your core. You will start to notice that no matter what you do and what you try to achieve materially, you will feel as if you've not really achieved what you really want and that is to feel loved, at peace and filled with joy and contentment. This is why I said when we judge others, we are only judging ourselves because now we have set a bar that becomes higher than what we are judging, that we have to live up to and beyond, so we can feel worthy enough to continue judging others and now the internal competition begins with ourselves and when we are unable to live up to those bars we feel disappointment and disdain for others when in truth we are only disappointed in ourselves. It's a cycle. A good rule of thumb is to forgive yourself for your own self-judgements and to understand that people are where they're at in their own unique journey and that environment plays a role in how one is developed and that's sometimes out of one's control. Everything we give out comes back to us 10 folds. Learn the art of understanding yourself and others and why they are the way they are instead of judging them for being a certain way because circumstances and environments produced what you are seeing and observing. You are judging your ideas of them and not who they truly are.

Never know on this forum. I try not to jump to conclusions on that anymore. Learnt my lesson on that.

You're male, right.

That's why I said what I said in my first few sentences that weren't quoted. That was the important part that went with what you're saying here, please go back and re-read it, starting from "there are other call to action....." Furthermore no judgement is needed for survival. Observations, choices, proper discernment, refusals and many more facets are required but not judgement. Edit: I think I get it now. You guys description of judgement and mine are different. Using better judgement is not the same as judging someone. I think that's where the miscommunication is arising from.

Thought you were referring to my sleeping with women. Was gonna say you're not missing anything. The men is where it's at, for the gays that is.