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Matt Gaetz as AG is wild

to live in the unknown, beyond all concepts, is a beautiful thing

Thanks for the supportive words. That is true, I would prefer not to jump back into a relationship. I think it's good to take a little time just to make new friends and socialize and whatnot. I am not against dating again and I think it's good to allow for a natural flow so I may be ready sooner than I realize but I think it's important to learn these life lessons from the last relationship. I think the way forward to meet new women would be to be friendly when I go to the beach and just have no expectations, just focus on socializing and it will come to me like my last relationship did.

The right thing to do now is reflect and rebuild, not revolt. Dems waste for too much energy on shit like this.

I know this is a very controversial take but what men are talking about when they talk about cheating is just having some sexual fun with another woman. Most men will never cheat of the heart, only of the body. I don’t know if women in general are open minded enough to understand it but instinctually they are when sexually with a leading man because it’s not uncommon for them to share a girlfriend with their man but it’s not common for a man to share the woman he’s in a relationship with another man. We don’t mean leaving a woman type cheating. We mean enjoying our freedom and having just sex with other women. Men are extremely loyal when it comes to their heart and will even do crazy stuff even for their ex girlfriend or wife who they may be in love with years later. It’s pretty taboo for a man to flat out leave his wife for a younger woman. I think that’s terrible. But psychologically I understand why men want to have fun on the side with another woman, but still be in a relationship and be with their main woman who they want to build a family and future with. Basically love only one woman but have fun with many.

Could be, I’m just drawing comparisons here for conversation sake, maybe there’s something to learn here. Just seems form my POV men struggle in specific situations when it comes to moving on and rebuilding their lives and I wonder why that is. I don’t doubt there’s things I’m not seeing on the side of women. I completely agree that it boils down to belief system. I wonder why so many men have self sabotaging beliefs when it comes to dating. I’m only speaking from experience here. When my ex and I broke up I could see there were a lot of men in our larger social circle who were interested in having sex with her and flirting because she is a beautiful young social woman. Now does that mean these men will lead to commitment or being what she wants in a partner? Perhaps not. So maybe I’m seeing something she doesn’t value or care about. Like you said you make a good point. Just because women are getting all this attention , like they have a pick from the buffet doesn’t mean they will find what they want or will enjoy. I do think having all these options though does help a lot of women see more opportunities in life. I think men will be very social isolated and not see as many opportunities due to their limiting beliefs so they will choose to become very socially isolated and that’s very damaging. Women seem much better at social support circles and relating to other people. I can speak from experience I have to push myself a bit to really stay social and keep that area of my life healthy while I know a lot of women that is effortless for them. Not saying I’m a victim or anything just it’s interesting these differences.

I disagree. It is impossible to compare your spirituality to anyone else. Do not fall into this guru trap. Sahdguru is just a guy teaching spirituality and if it helps you, I'm happy for you. But don't fall into this trap. It's impossible to be "more enlightened" than anyone else.

@Ampresus Hey dude I missed your post. Thank you so much. Reading it was helpful. I actually really liked the Bible verse you shared. I am not Christian but it got me thinking this verse. I’ve realized at the core of my problem is basically these 2 beliefs 1) Without this person in my life I am unlovable, lacking value and unable able to cope in life 2) I do not want to accept and embrace uncertainty and change in life These two beliefs I hold keep this issue from being entirely resolved and closing the door 100% They also tie back to the Bible verse you quoted since the two beliefs I stated in essence are basically the core issues for most people in life, believing they are lacking value for a reason outside themselves and not accepting uncertainty and change I think it’s eye opening to write this

There’s this one girl. Well, she’s not just a random girl to me but my ex gf and we were together from summer 2021 to spring 2024. I’ve done a ton of growth in terms of accepting things have ended between us but damn this still is the one thing in my life I need to really keep myself accountable with and support myself through. We were in a sort of situation-ship after breaking up and up until this week. This relationship has meant so much to me and she’s been family. We lived together over two years. Letting her go and moving on has single handedly been the hardest thing I’ve ever had to do in my life. Can anyone relate? I hope one day this will be just another chapter in my life and my mind will be at peace about it.

This is childish and my post was as well. I'm bringing out a pretty immature side of myself since this election and I don't like it. These women are free to do as they wish. I literally do not care what they do and I think it's ridiculous what some of them are saying, just as I think the men going their own way movement is a "blame the other side" copout.

Just a photo of shoes that look alright is difficult. we need to see fit pics, your body type, height, skin color, your personality a bit too. style is personal and just like clothing, one piece of advice doesn't fit all.

Enlightenment is a word and a belief. No words can be put on your spirituality in reality. It’s unique to you. I would say look to live your life with truth, honesty and integrity and you will know god this way daily.

I think you need to have a caring discussion with yourself about comparisons and why you choose to compare yourself to other people. Do you believe you have innate and true spiritual value that cannot be given or taken away?

Why? The stock market performed well under Trump

it's gonna get worse these next four years

Looooool this is gonna sound mean but like probably 90% of the women commenting on this thread most men would not rank as attractive or are the women the incels feel they are missing out on. Physically attractive women generally speaking don’t give a shit about feminism or politics. I saw videos on my feed made by the women making these posts and they can keep those doors closed men in the USA ain’t missing out on nothing with them.

I’ve been saying this here the entire election cycle. The party has a huge issue with being entirely unappealing to young men. This is the same political force that downplays masculinity, tries to make men more effeminate but claims it’s called being compassionate, actively works against traditional values which many men value. I actively feel alienated and unwelcome by my own party. Not everything has to be about diversity. Green has gone too far on the messaging and culture side of things. I really think a lot of it comes down to lgbtq, feminism and the gender stuff. The party decided to run with radical inclusivity takes on this stuff instead of finding a message that suits everyone. This is why 15 million people including me sat out.

most of the left hate him because he doesn't support trans women who went through male puberty competing in women sports. look into it. they call him a transphobic bigot for this. the far left has alienated their own party. I think he switched sides due to this.

I thought lex was basically neutral, like Switzerland type neutral where he does what’s best for business but takes no side and his ideology of not taking a stance allows for the best to unfold.

Dude why not just post this in the election thread, no need to try and be the main character bro we are discussing it in the election thread.

Wtf is Indian express

Some voters just hear this anti establishment anti mainstream narrative and instantly nod their head up and down.

I was building upon the conversation and adding another point of view on the wording and the potential problems when adopting language like “reality is all mental.” It wasn’t specifically targeted at just you. How would you even measure spiritual development? I’m not sure I subscribe to this notion of being more spiritually developed than another person. Your spirituality is unique to you. I agree comparisons can be made but this notion is so radically open for interpretation that I’ve personally not found it as a helpful way to look at this subject.

My current goal is to create one YouTube video a week exploring the city I am in. I have to go out and film things cause it’s a travel channel where I show off different aspects of the culture. Sometimes I don’t have any ideas of what to film. How do you guys maximize creativity and formulate ideas you can then go out and act on?

is choosing a fear based, lie based world view ever the better choice?