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  1. Posted

    It's lack of excercise.  Yup .that's it . Diet is important of course...But if you just sit on your ass all day at home expect your ding dong not working as effectively. 

    Start even with 10 minutes walk.  Best option of course if you join a gym . But you should do some cardio as well . You know why?   Because What makes an erection?  It's the blood circulation. If you exercise you improve your blood circulation.  

    So no excuses..especially if you are in an intimate relationship with a girl ..this can be embarrassing..just move your ass to the nearest gym in your city . 

    Any questions welcomed .thanks! 

  4. Posted

    17 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

    You should tell within a few minutes if she's into you.

    Girls are confused.  In one of my cold approaches I walked up to a girl and asked her about her name ..her first reaction was smiling at me ..and I immediately took that as a good signal. But then she kept denying me from knowing her name..saying that "why should I tell my name to a stranger? ". And I told her because I find you attractive and I want to get to know you . Then she told me her name and we even exchanged phone numbers . Then she disappeared. Didn't answer to me texting her .etc  and that's what always happen when I talk to an attractive girl.  These kind of girls are so innocent and inexperienced that they feel shy and disturbed if a guy hits on her .

  5. Posted

    @itsadistraction yes . Practice makes perfect.  As Leo mentioned in his getting laid series that you should do triple digits number of  cold approaches in the last year to increase your chances .

    If you approach 100 girls every month ..chances are you will get lucky at least once or twice .

    But I have a question..you didn't address what I call "the introverted syndrome ". Most guys these days are emasculated. They are immature slob boys ..they play video games 24/7 and never leave the house and get their hands dirty or interact with the outer world ..so they are too shy to talk to anyone or begin the practice. 

  7. Posted

    2 minutes ago, Osaid said:

    There is knowing/understanding in experience as well, but it is completely different from conceptual knowing, which is knowledge. Not the same at all. As different as red and blue.

    So if I'm having an orgasm..I experience it .then you ask me :do you know what an orgasm is ?..I would say yes..because I have experienced it . So to me knowing is equal to experience or direct consciousness. 

    Conceptual knowing is if you asked me to explain the biology behind an orgasm and how the dopamine and other neurotransmitters are flooding the brain ? yad yada....

    Is that the difference? 

    6 minutes ago, Osaid said:

    I know" is always conceptual. "I am a human" is conceptual. "Lamps are objects that create light" is conceptual. All of these are knowledge and are not experienced as anything that isn't concept.

    Well I have to disagree.  Because you are basically trying to say anything that is being put into words is conceptual. And thats a tautology. 

  8. Posted

    3 minutes ago, Osaid said:

    You can't know a lamp that is in front of you. Knowing becomes a useless input on your part. Knowing is only useful when the thing you're knowing doesn't exist in experience

    Isn't that backwards?  Can you elaborate on this ?

    To me perception (or consciousness)=knowledge.

    If I'm seeing a tree over there...I'm aware of the tree visually ? ..therefore I know it in a sense.  Even though I don't know what is it doing here (I'm referring to the mere fact that ANYTHING exists AT ALL!).

     

  9. Posted

    5 minutes ago, Salvijus said:

    Good point. But theoreticly it's possible. And i believe there are some who tranceded it. Perhaps some are alive even now on earth. Tho i don't have what it takes to know who. Just some guesses perhaps. 

    If you truly have transcended death then I expect that you commit suicide ASAP. Why ? Just to explore different kinds of lives other from this . Why not if you don't fear death ?

    Just by being alive entails that you fear death . So by definition no one alive is not afraid of death. 

  10. Posted

    2 minutes ago, Salvijus said:

    A liberated mind doesn't even concern itself if it lives or dies. 

    Then there are no "liberated minds ". I don't think there is any human on earth today who doesn't fear death .can you mention someone?  Even Leo said he still fears death even though he claims to be the most awakened person ever (the GOAT like Messi and Ronaldo lol).

    Even Jesus on the cross was crying like a bitch ."father ..have you forsaken me ?".

  11. Posted

    9 minutes ago, Osaid said:

    Can you point to "confusion"? Can you point to "lack of truth"? Where is it experienced?

    What is the solution to music? What is the solution to the color red? What is the solution to your experience?

    Is the sensation of touch confused? Is sound confused? Is your experience confused?

    Namaste.

    Haha stop playing these silly games. I don’t think you have to look up the dictionary definition of confusion. We all know what that word points to. 

    There are hundreds if not thousands of different worldviews ..which one is right ? Is it Islam?  Christianity? Buddhism? Mormons? Solipsism? Materialism?  How can you trust any source of information?  How can you trust the media ? How do you know you are not a butterfly having a dream of being a human ??  How do you know you are not in a simulation reality..such that you are being fed input from outside the simulation reality? 

    You see ? You don't actually know Jack shit . Neither me.

    what I'm suggesting here is that there is no solution to this. You just have to drop the desire for truth .you never needed it anyways .

  12. Posted · Edited by Someone here

    14 minutes ago, Javfly33 said:

    Good insight.

    I would go even further and ask myself "What If the answer can never come from a thought?"

    Thanks !

    Yup.  I agree .the "answer "..or the "thing" we all are seeking is not an intellectual piece of information that will magically make everything "click ".  But this is only known to those who went deep into meditation.  All existential questions are just mental noise . Truth is THIS UNSPEAKABLE OCCURRENCE. 

  13. Posted

    11 minutes ago, Vladimir said:

    I am the bravest. I have asked for Ayahuasca to show me my greatest fear and drank a double dose. I have faced my greatest fear with the scream of absolute surrender. I have dedicated all of my time to spirituality with powerful psychedelics for the last 7 years. The journey led to my death which happened by the end of 2020. I died, became the devil and suffered the torments of hell for about 18 months. About 15 months, I was saved, I started coming back to life, at that point I knew I have conquered death. I am now back to using sacred medicine. Every experience is deeply healing now, the great power of divine always awakens in me when I use psychedelics and I am alchemizing all the darkness I have endured by suffering the depths of hell into the light. Through my journey, I got to know what life is, what death is, what hell is, what the devil is, who Jesus Christ is, what salvation is, what separation is, what unity is, what the source of fear and suffering is, what love is, what unity is, what Truth is and all the other most important existential Truths. I will gladly elaborate on anything, I want you to ask me specific questions, my journey has been and continues to be absolutely Epic.

    Interesting! 

    So I wanna know more details ..like how did that experience happen?  Was it sober or drug-induced?  How exactly did you go to hell ? Are you speaking literally or figuratively?  Like maybe you faced some deep suffering and call that hell ? Or do you mean literally the religious hell?

    And btw ..what do you mean only you knows the truth ? And  how are you certain about that? Are you a solipsist? 

  15. Posted

    I really put up so much effort in crafting this insight ...thought it might be useful for those stuck in confusion ?. 

    Because I myself have dealt with what I would call "existential confusion " since the beginning of this year . Really cracking my head over questions like what the hell is the ultimate truth and what the fuck is reality ? But what I noticed is I don't have to focus my attention on this. I could instead enjoy the  sunset ? 

  19. Posted

    3 minutes ago, OBEler said:

    I can see it on psychedelics

    I envy you .

    3 minutes ago, OBEler said:

    but not 24 h a Day. I dont know if that is even possible.

    There is ALWAYS something beautiful about every experience. Even suffering has its own beauty if you know how to suffer consciously .

    A good question to work with is: what's preventing me from enjoying this moment?  And to notice that nothing is .

    5 minutes ago, OBEler said:

    But great reminder! Everything is pure beauty 

    Thanks ? 

  20. Posted

    Especially now in the Internet era where there is a connection to endless varying and different and conflicting worldviews ..it's easy to be confused.  I have experienced a huge confusion in the last year ...didn't know anything. And really was trying to get my Epistemology right and figure out what the hell is the ACTUAL fucking truth of existence lol

    But recently I'm not interested to know anything .I have transcended the need to know. And thereby the confusion has ended .not because I finally found the answer. But after I dropped the need for the answer...are you getting this?

    The reason you get yourself confused is that you are too attached to the end result. The fear of being wrong and making a mistake is stopping you from having a clear vision. You must change your mindset and your perspective. There is no wrong or right ..it is just a life being life .

  21. Posted

    Guys ! Just look at the fucking nature..the sun..the trees..the sea etc its jaw-dropping..incomprehensible beauty is what existence is . I tried to articulate this to my brother and sister but they just laughed at me lol ...am I the only one in the entire fucking world who thinks existence is magic? 

    Let us take your hand for example: Everyone has it.. and it seems quite mundane ..but if you begin to realize the beauty of it..it will never be the same. The day we realize the extraordinary in what we perceive as ordinary..and knowing that all ordinary is extraordinary there would be unconditional joy and happiness.  Like literally you can be the happiest person in the world if you just sit and meditate In nature ..listening to your favourite music . We are blessed.  We are FUCKING BLESSED! Wake up guys ffs?

  22. Posted

    8 hours ago, VeganAwake said:

    Right, hehe! ❤️ 

    Ironically it was around 2018 when this first started becoming obvious.

    Never the less, reality is always timelessly "THIS" or "Whatever seems to be happening"

    Nothing matters at all and so-called salvation;freedom;liberation is already the case which is why it seems hidden!

    That's the "open secret" bro

    ❤️ 

    I see ?

    Just curious..are you open to the possibility that there is "more " to awakening than merely recognition of no self?

    It is not uncommon to experience or realize one facet of infinity that might make you think you know it all  and then to later realize deeper..more profound aspects  .

    So be patient about the experience you had in 2018.  don’t be quick to come to conclusions or form solid understandings. Stay open minded   lighthearted..and interested. You’ve been moving quick..burning through the mental layers that take a lot of people years.

     

    Lastly..if you think this is a ride.. wait till you fully realize the infinite unconditional love that you are. Reality gets entirely flipped inside out.. outside in. The whole show  is literally happening within you.. within your love ❤ 

  24. Posted

    12 hours ago, effortlesslumen said:

    Achieving this is a life long journey. But what is the first direct step in the present perception of the now to true philosopy in your perspective?

    Mine would be pure self observation. 

    Two things :

    1-study the work of famous philosophers 

    2-think independently and try to do a critique of their work. 

    For example watch a philosophical video of Leo and then try to prove him wrong. Become skeptical etc

    If you want to become a professional philosopher..there is  no way other than academia .