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We already gave you the absolute answer . You are never going to solve drama by starting drama about drama . You are posting in the spirituality section so we are giving you a spiritual absolutist type of answer ..we are not experts in economics or archeology or something. The bottom line is you are the one and only source of drama in this world .if you look outside of yourself then sure people are a bunch assholes spewing endless nonsensical suffering stories on top of life ..always was ..always will be . The point is you don't have to engage in this bs .look inward .nothing is happening inside of you .extend the line ..nothing is happening inside anyone .anchor yourself in that inner silence. That place where all is well. Unless you enjoy drama.

No offence and not trying to mock you but I'm losing traction with what you are trying to say or get at . At best you are arguing for no self if I'm not wrong. How is no self related to solipsism? Do you mean if there is no "center " then it follows solipsism is faulty because solipsism is the worldview that only I the self is real while the world is a projection of the self?

this is why synchronicity happens all the time .

Obviously not 100%.

You,silly .

Nice excuses. Where is "peace be upon him"? 😂

Great quote. Sufis are great but no one beats indian sages . This one by Nisargadatta is an absolute gold I just now finished listening to it and I feel like I understand everything 😂

What is "opening the self "?

Here's the story of everything: once upon a time there was nothing. Nothing is one and singular so it does not know itself. So it decided to know itself .the only way it can know itself is by fooling itself that there is something else other than itself ..by imagining itself as separate subject perceiving a world populated by others . (Metaphorical obviously).

@Joseph Maynor if one realizes he is everything and everyone..isn't spreading and giving love to everyone kind of the only rational thing to do ?

Obviously it's not "dog-realization". Some words hit closer than others as to what you are . The definition of God is an entity which is infinite ..boundless ..eternal ..immortal..omnipotent..omnipresent......omniscient ...all Good and more . And that's what you are .so what should that be called in your opinion?

Because everything in the universe is contingent..everything depends on other things ..therefore there must have been something eternal and doesn't depend on anything else .

The most fundamental thing ever (and there has to be a most fundamental thing ever to give rise to anything at all that exists ) is pure presence. It's present all times and all places and in all conditions.. Right now and before an hour and after a million years . "Consciousness " in the sense of "perception " is not that . i get that spiritual teachers call ultimate reality as "consciousness " but it can be confusing .

Two sides : 1-there is something that is always present and ever-present. Whether you are awake or sleeping or dead or whatever. And it doesn't need conscious attention to give it existence or credence. 2- conscious attention obviously is not ever-present. You can create a distinction between pure presence which is always there and conscious attention which is not always there.

@theleelajoker totally relate with you. what i have found is inside of my being there is emptiness. Literally there is no one or thing inside of me .yet I observe my thoughts and my actions or reactions as something the body is programmed to do .then I say that others are also empty vessels like me and all I hear inside of me or in the crowd is silence.

Sure ..in the sense that if we don't use language or concepts and just sit in silent meditation in a thoughtless state then there is no question about the nature of direct experience or whether it's solipsistic or not . But the difference is I'm using "direct logic"..which means I'm investigating direct sensory experience as it is ..whereas you are reasoning about additional layers of abstractions (relationships ..casuality ..point of views ..absence of limits etc).

What is immediately present here and now.

Totally agree . Also ..give yourself the love .don't expect true love from others .

This argument is 100% correct ..coherent..and consistent with itself logically. However..I'm NOT contemplating solipsism logically. I'm contemplating directly by testing it against direct experience. Not logic . Logic is second order reality .direct experience can never be wrong.

https://www.bloomberg.com/news/features/2025-10-08/cristiano-ronaldo-is-first-football-billionaire-after-saudi-al-nassr-deal So..Ronaldo became the first billionaire football player ever. And at the launch of his YouTube channel he was battling MrBeast about who's gonna become the fastest YouTuber to gain maximum followers in the shortest time . Anyways..so after Messi won the World Cup in 2022...that was a game changer in the GOAT debate . This is the World Cup ..its no trivial trophy . But what I'm noticing ever since that ..is that Ronaldo is getting blowjobs from everyone on the interent . Everywhere you look you see some Propaganda about him and a kind of hyping him up as the GOAT without a doubt. I mean he is the top scorer in the history of football..but let's not forget that Messi is a fucking Alien .the ball is simply stuck with his feet like a magnet. So it's not so simple as everyone are hyping Ronaldo to be the best . Is there anyone else who notices a hyping up for Ronaldo especially after Messi won the World Cup ? I mean he is literally a fucking Billionaire right now so maybe he uses money to infect the media.

So I've been working on my health a lot for a while and I want to share simple tips that will dramatically increase the quality of your life if you can ace these aspects I'm going to mention. They are simple and already known but overlooked precisely because of that. sleep. I can't stress this enough ..I can't stress enough how much sleeping enough everyday is going to directly increase your happiness and vitality and will make your perception clearer ..in the physical sense .you are going to literally perceive reality clearer and brighter . And you will feel better . You are going to be calm and anchored. You will not be easily triggered or provoked by stressful situations. How to sleep ? Wake up and go to bed around exactly the same time everyday. Ideally of course wake up in the morning ( it depends on your schedule ofcourse but try to wake up before noon if you don't wanna feel like your day is upside down).and don't stay up to anything more than 11 PM. The healing and recovering in your body happens during 11PM-2 AM. Insomnia? No caffeine ..no cigarettes..no Caffeineated Soda like Pepsi or Cola after 5 PM. Work or excerise during the day .this one is obvious. This one is not obvious...eat the most of your food soon to bedtime .don't eat a lot during the day. The dinner should be the most calorically dense meal ..not breakfast or lunch . I'm talking specifically about crushing Insomnia here. Eating a lot will knock your body down and will help you sleep .

Body and mind and experience are not me . OK. So what are they ? To whom do they belong?

I like this inquiry. You do Have a point . Finally you make some sense 😁. But let me ask you this: if Truth was present without body and mind and experience..isn't it also present with body and mind and experiences ?

Yeah I'm aware. The raw direct experience is a collection of sounds and visuals .. the mind creates out of that egoless cocktail an illusion of "object ". Like now I'm holding my IPhone. There is no IPhone it's just a stream of visuals and sensations ..but mind fills in the blanks .

Thanks for sharing .I heard that milk and banana smoothie is good too .