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OK. Is it ethical to bring a human being into this confusing confused existence without their permission? You can answer or ignore no problem. But that's just to explain my antinatalist stance . I would ejaculate outside the vagina or have her take anti-pregnancy pills.

Because "they " are sluts. I'm not saying all women are sluts..I'm saying a girl who sleeps with a guy and that's it they don't ever see each other anymore are sluts. I don't want to bang sluts or snif Coc ..I want love and romance. A permanent relationship. True love if this doesn't sound cringe.

Thank you for this comment. great questions but unfortunately I have no answer to most of them now . But you opened my eyes to the true dimensions of marriage. Its no mere immature boy having fun with immature girl .it's a huge risk and responsibility. I will contemplate your questions and answer later .

No sir . I explicitly said I want a deep relationship beyond just getting pussy . I fucked a few girls and had phone sex with prostitutes. It doesn't do it for me anymore. Plus I feel like it's immoral . I don't want kids . I'm a an antinatalist

Agree. So this means in my situation is I must graduate first and find a decent job .earn good money .and work on my confidence and life experience plus being a responsible man not an immature boy then I can start worrying about looking for the perfect match .

No I don't give a shit about society or my self image or passing my genes or having offspring or none of that . The only thing you've got right is intimacy. If I don't get married how am I gonna meet this basic need ? Notice I said intimacy not sex .I've had sex few times .but the girls just fuck you and leave you . I want romance not just some intercourse . Are you familiar with Maslow's pyramid of needs ? It says sex and intimacy are at the very base of human needs . P.s please edit your signature

1. Yeah they are basic needs .and I lack them unfortunately. Therefore I desire them . Got the logic ? 2.no I'm talking like this deliberately to make sure my point is clear.

Thanks for the advice but that's not how it typically work . As the guy I have to be proactive about it . It can't flourish into a marriage or a serious relationship "organically ". I must lead the relationship into a marriage opportunity. Not expecting the girl to do this step .it's the guy's role .

If you read any holy book like the bible or upanishad or quran etc you will surely find ridiculous myths which reflect the primitive scientific understanding at the time of these books being written (thousands of years ago). Like that the earth is flat or that human beings came from Adam and Eve or that the earth is the center of the universe and the sun and other planets orbit around the earth instead of the other way around etc. Now we know by now scientifically that this is not the case. And any religious person can read about the contradictions between modern science and their religion. Yet still the majority of people all around the globe do subscribe to various religions like Christianity..Islam..Buddhism..Sikhism etc Now don’t get me wrong..I still think that science should be challenged.. that’s what science is all about..challenging theories with other concrete ideas to form another theory or possibly a fact. But if religion has no place what so ever in challenging scientific theories and ideas..then why does religion exist today ? And why do we need religion? Why we can't rely on science to answer the big existential questions? I recently been into islam a lot and i find semblance of peace whenever i practice Islamic practices. If religion was created because humans are inherently afraid of the unknown..like We didn’t know where the sun came from and what the stars were so we came up with the most convenient answer: God. God created the sun and stars...along with humans. This answered all of our questions..but now we have science and technology that can answer these questions and when it comes to answering questions.. religion should be our very very last resort..because we now know definitively that religious cosmology and biology is wrong. I still believe that religion can be used as a moral backbone for people or as a meaning to life . I read that religious people are more happy than secular atheistic people. 2 questions: 1-can we live without religion? Can we find existential comfort without ideas like afterlife ..heaven ..God is keeping a close eyes on us and will help us ? 2-can science and religion coexist for centuries to come or will science completely kill religion and its only a matter of time before all religions die out ? Thanks !.

What's primitive in what I Want ? What's primitive about needing some nurturing feminine energy in my life because I Live a Cold brutal lonely life ? What's wrong about going back to sweet home after a long stressful day and find my WIFE have prepared some vegetable soup to me or can massage my fucking balls and cock ?

I live in Kashmir. Its a top class city .no different than Paris .. London ..Madrid etc. Come visit and see if you like .

OK thanks man . I will consider your advice and Schizophonia's advice . You two are the only who went straight to the meat of the topic . But I ask you to do me a favour and control this thread and put an end to these debates about who should do what etc.

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@Princess Arabia I just want advice regarding my situation. Not endless debates between keyboard warriors about freaking "feminine &masculine dynamic " and other such mere abstractions and word games. But You are right. Drop your integrity and stay. No worries.

@Princess Arabia can you pretty please get out of this thread ?

Why do you think so ? Are you married? Have a gf ? Single ?etc what's your experience to say this ?

I just want to marry an adorable girl and live my life with her and share my journey with and YES I want her to make me sick and tired of blowjobs .as if there is any shame or "low consciousness "(oh my god whatever the hell that means coming from you Michael). ..I say as if there is anything wrong in wanting your wife to give you head . And BTW I did mention cooking but I don't remember saying anything about "cleaning ". So that's what I'm asking about ..and so far you guys are waging debates and online wars about women should do this and men should not do that etc . Where is actual advice ? Zero.

im sad that most people who commented here have "misread" me and got so off guard by that reference I mentioned regarding what I'd like my wife to do to me . I'm here posting on this forum since 2020 .you should know me by now and my posting style. I like to get cute or whatever . And you guys are so goddam focused on that paragraph about cooking and massage and blowjob but apparently everyone are blind to the paragraph in which I literally said "marriage is NOT just sex.its a relationship that ought to last for a lifetime ". Why not focus on this statement instead of the cringy statement? Anyways ...if anyone can wise up and stop this fuss and give me positive constructive practical advice regarding my main issue then please go ahead .

Mods please give warning and some restrictions from posting to Princess. She literally ruined the thread and it's a circus right now . But I only want serious discussion.

OK I agree thanks . Then I must get my finances handled well first . That's what I think too . And the more attractive the girl is the more value I must provide to her . Because I have pretty high standards. I ain't marrying any average girl. I'm hunting for a big fish . I was never actually attracted to a man irl .It's just porn .gay one .

Thank you . So working on being a good provider and responsible.

I clearly said in the first paragraph that the girl has to be into me just like I'm into her . Of course just as I demand from her her feminine energy I must also protect her with my masculine energy. If she doesn't feel like sexy times tonight ..then no worries at all . Its not like anyone in the whole world wants to have sex every single day . Any experience if prolonged long enough it becomes boring. But ladies must understand that men have second brains "down there ". And when he thinks of marriage and honeymoon then it's no brainer a sex overload must happen .

You're becoming a drama queen. Watch out .

The whole point is how is this readiness determined ? If I go to the family of one of those European girls and I ask them that I want your daughter basically as a fiancé they would demand from me lots of things like a high income and such . I don't even have a job in the meantime . So would you say I will be ready when I earn decent money monthly or start a business? About the gay stuff ..no I'm sure It was because of porn . Bro I almost watched the entire porn content in the whole Internet 😂..to the point my hard drive was about to explode . So I needed to think of some novelty .that's my theory at least of why I got into gay porn months ago . @Princess Arabia why you mad ?

@r0ckyreed give me an example of a Truth you know.