Loving Radiance

Spot on.

limiting belief

I meant the dissociation part. How does it play into the loneliness thingy?

So, acting on intuition instead of disregarding it is being more in tune with your feminine? How would that look like?

limiting belief

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Let yourself go. Rest now. @Vision

Freedom & letting go = death & melting snow To hate someone is to hold on to them. It is binding and imprisoning oneself. If one hates themselves... By letting go of oneself, one doesn't hate themselves anymore. It is effortful to hold on to be this person. It is effortless to let go. You recognize yourself through suffering. It is a pointer. The compass to source is in the heart. A trojan horse. A divine gift. When do you let go to be this person? In Ad Astra (2019), watching the comfort room scene on Mars (esp. from 56:06): Looking at the relationship with his father, the hate binds him to his father. In general, the monologues about his emotional being are very insightful.

Why do children play? ?

What do you mean by that?

In addition to Forestluv's comment above, sympathy also can take the form of feeling other people's emotions because you already felt something similar of this emotional depth. From what I picked up is that empathy is feeling emotions in you that you never experienced before because you "absorb" emotions from others and feel how deep the feeling state of that emotion is. Btw, why should you feel hate when you feel sorry? Feel how that comes up.

I started to enjoy it when I laid my focus on the resting part. It feels like resting awareness on the most comfy blanket held up by the most gentle hand. Just letting go and resting, doing nothing. Mind doesn't have to work anymore. It's just giving yourself to this moment, surrendering all that is. How could I apply this to food addiction? I'm addicted to bananas and I have like 6 a day. The only other thing I eat throughout the day is a few pieces of chicken and/or steak. "it's painful that you're not eating bananas right now" --> sign of progress --> feeling good because progress is linked to a higher emotional thought Imagine any habit forming. How long does it take for you to form? That's how long it will take you to make it automatic to shift from craving thoughts to thoughts of winning life or feeling good in general.

Nam is the Man

It can be a challenge to live or work with someone arrogant.

The thing is that you build your self-image on being better, even when it's in your imagination and not on a metric. It's like claiming to be intelligent or to have great intuitive insights when in fact it is not you but the divine. You claim as the iphone to be the wifi when in fact the wifi "is" the router.

@Zion Arrogance is covering up low self-esteem. It's overcompensation. Imagine someone getting bullied in school. Years later they excel in university and develop arrogance to be better than other students. This can also be an arrogance in terms of spirituality, that you are more spiritual yadda yadda. You can have morals without being arrogant, vice versa. The key is true humility. Comparing oneself to other people can be done without arrogance. It's simply saying that blue is apparently different from red. No color is inherently better.

If you have a vivid imagination, you can do this: Get into a meditation pose and meditate for 5 minutes. Become aware of the anger in the body. Focus on that person. Imagine that person getting hurt. Materialize whatever comes to mind no matter how batshit crazy & brutal it is. It could be you or someone else doing the violence. Imagine it as long as you like. After some time it gets tiring. When you feel it is enough you can detach and meditate for 30 minutes. The anger in your body should have subsided.

"So, I gave up." https://fb.watch/42qMWP3QOH/

Intentionally go in a conversation with anybody to a place where you don't know what to say or do or you have a blanc. Be present. Be there. Enjoy the moment, the silence and feel, if it truly needs words. Why shouldn't it be good?

@Pendulum Advice & guidance hmm.... What I discovered just today is that there's the belief that I am not worthy. That doesn't feel good of course. So I made an affirmation containing "I am loved & I am worthy" and speaking happened on its own without control: the character spoke what he always knew as he spoke the prayer, his truth. I literally cried my soul out. So much anger at keeping myself small. So much drive to get what is mine. Feeling strong to steamroll to the life that I want to live. Feeling good now. In reality you want to be great and shine your true self and show yourself to the world unabashedly. You want to rip your heart open and share your gift with the world. Any area in life with continued & reoccuring bad results is an area where limiting beliefs are working. Limiting believes are tricky. There can be meta-limiting beliefs that affect many areas of your life at the same time. Uncover what you believe about yourself that doesn't feel good and keeps you small. Peel back the layers. Drop the masks of what you think to be. When you recognized your limiting beliefs you can turn them around and make an affirmation. Perhaps visualization works for you too: visualize how you feel when you are [worthy & loved] because you are already it right now. Everything gets dropped that arises and doubts or contradicts the affirmation & visualization because you recognize that they aren't true, they don't ring true or resonate in you. You are already that what you want. You know yourself better than any limiting belief could ever convince you of.

@nistake I love this so much

@twoosees Once my older brother overheard a snippet of one of the videos in 2018, perhaps it was the radical implications of oneness. Needless to say that he said it was dangerous It is one thing to hear an idea and it is another thing to attach to it. What I found is to have compassion for where they come from. What is also good is to be aware what somebody can & can't understand (there are different ways of understanding & I found contemplation via journaling to be the approach to develop these other ways) and then after consideration to introduce Leo's material with guidance because his work is very easy to misunderstand. I suggested to some who are already viewing the world from a detached-involved systemic perspective to check out spiral dynamics. Leo is not for everyone. I even consider that people are more ready for SD than Leo because SD is not so threatening for the identity structure. At first when I exposed myself to his material I was denying anything too far out there. Then it shifted to "I don't have experienced this, so everything said by him is a map for now". You have no obligation to introduce your loved ones or anyone to Leo's work. However, if you feel someone - regardless how close you are - is ready to look behind the curtain, you can for sure introduce some topics to them. The tricky thing is to know when someone is ready.

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I can be projected that other people's bodies and faces are completely different from their inner mental movement. You intimately know yourself & the mental space of character, and the face in the mirror doesn't show that self-image. People get judged by their appearance, but in truth it can be projected that they are completely different beings on the inside. Same relation: my mental image isn't reflected on my outer image & people's mental image isn't reflected on their outer image.

@Avidya The book described here.