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That moment when you realise logic is flawed . But, anyhow, from what I understand, volker halbach, the 'logic manual' is the way most philosophy undergrads learn logic

@Flowerfaeiry Only a bit

@Flowerfaeiry I thought you'd left the forum as you hadn't posted for a while

I don't see anything wrong with it

lmao

Richard Schwartz

That sounds pretty sick actually

Not you... 12 girlfriends sounds stressful af lmao

I don't agree. When did she ask him outright and he didn't give a clear answer? What's wrong with joking in that situation? It doesn't automatically mean OP isn't serious. If she had an issue with his joking about it she could have brought it up. I don't see why you've asked that last question either

Lol i dont think that's that true. I think its just you see more overt signs of it quicker with hotter girls cos society puts up with it more.

I don't see that as being clingy. I think its cool to desire whatever you want to desire. Its just clingy if you need her to fulfil your sense of self esteem by doing something, imo

@illusory Ye dude i get psychologically unintegrated vibes from her. some of her behaviour just seems off. Move on i reckon. Shame tho she sounded sexy af

@OBEler I fucking love watching IFS lol. I watch videos on it all the time so process of elimination. Good luck to your gf btw. Shits rough,

Love it!

@narkuser You're welcome. Hope it works out for you.

I was reading a book called, 'Music and Politics: A Critical Introduction', Book by James Garratt. Thought you might like it. Its academically written. However, I found it more accessible, i.e. better written, than other academic books. Anyhow, here are some songs.

@flowboy Damn. That sounds like a smart af to deal with that situation.

You could give it a go, and see how you find it. I'd personally recommend trying out a few different places. I know from my experiences with boxing, which I got pretty good at, that its not uncommon for gyms to have a toxic masculine atmosphere. For example, not respecting personal boundaries, coaches manipulating folks into competing. Imo, there will be plenty of places where you get that masculine energy, but in a respectful way. So, I'd recommend searching around for one of those. Good luck.

I'd recommend the book, 'Atomic habits'. However, trauma, or neurodivergence, to my understanding, might get in the way of being able to effectively create systems.

@Leo Gura Thanks

Schwartz recounts how in the earlier parts of his career, as a psychotherapist, he saw family systems therapy as the real answer to therapy, and disavowed numerous alternative methods. A therapy based on working with the external family, rather than working inside one person's mind. However, he later developed the IFS model which is all about working inside one's mind. However, there are similarities, to my mind, between family systems therapy and IFS in some other aspects.

Yep, and ye I meant to tag you

@ThePoint You're welcome

Oh yeah, I'd check this out too https://integralguide.com/

Glad you enjoyed it. I meant the part where Dr Schwartz talked about how he was so certain about family systems therapy. Then came to dramatically change his views over the years.