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Probably after my dude. It would be a little weird to bring up, "Hey baby just so you know I beat my dog to your pictures and sometimes pornstars that look like you." Seems like a sure fire way she'll never have sex with you lol. After you have sex for the first time in a relationship there is a huge weight and pressure lifted off the mans shoulders, where you can open up a lot more and chill out. You don't need to put on as much of a show for her anymore and try so hard. I've noticed this shift in every. single. girl. I've ever been with. They test and test and test and test you, and then when you finally get to write and finish the exam, you notice you don't have to study so hard anymore.

How dramatic was it when you got kicked out? Did the clerk just tell you your membership was cancelled and not to come back when you finished your workout? Or did 2 shredded guys pick you up and throw you down some steps ? My gym is at my fire department and restricted from the public, so I don't have that as an option for picking up chicks. I mean there is one woman on the team that is pretty attractive but she is a bit out of my age range and I don't shit where I eat soo..

Fair enough.

Did you find out she had a boyfriend before or after you did all that? That seems like unethical behavior to be advertising to people on here.

Stop with feeding the fear mongering. There are checks and balances in place, even with a person with as much power as Putin there isn't just a magical button on his desk he can casually press at his whim. There are steps that need to be taken and other high ranking people that would need to consent. If Putin has actually gone mentally ill there are other extremely competent people in the Russian government to prevent such madness. They aren't going to utterly doom themselves, their families, and their country out of loyalty to Putin. They are ruthless opportunists and the second he stops becoming beneficial as a leader to them they will turn on him and rip him apart like a pack of rapid dogs.

I'm getting back into dating soon, but I'm not sure if I'll use apps anymore, if at all. They are just too stressful and too many people are on there to just play fucking games, or are low in emotional maturity. I've met people in their 30's that have the social intelligence of teenagers lol. Getting a quality relationship from apps is like trying to find a needle in a haystack. I've met some awesome people, but it's been a bunch of work as well. At least if you're a man from what I've learned, but that's a conversation not for this thread. I would say pick up some more consistent hobbies and test activities and events out. You will meet different kinds of people doing different things. For example I'm gonna get a subscription for a local climbing gym and just pick some day of the week to commit to.

I don't mean trying to see them once a week each, that would be too much. It's whenever it's convenient, keep things casual. If I'm in dating mode it will be between 1-3 dates in a week. Which is like 2-8 hours a week total depending on what we do? Anymore time than that and I simply won't ask people out, or I'll cancel a meet ahead of time so I don't exhaust myself socially. I only have so much in the tank. Those 1-5 people is changing constantly by the way, since most dates won't go to a second meet. It's tough out there I would keep your initial dates with people low investment by the way. As in don't spend a lot of money or make grand plans booking places. It won't feel like a waste and will sting less if things don't work out, which they usually don't if you are looking for a quality match and not just trying to force things with anyone. My go to suggestions are either a walk/hike, or mini-golf. You're a woman though so you have to be a lot more keen about where you go hiking or walking, keep that in mind.

Great video. I've been trying to cross from helpless to intelligent, it's tough.

There is a stupid corrupt war going on right now at this very moment and innocent people are dying, doesn't really serve anybody to bring up inflammatory whataboutisms in the middle of it. I would suggest everybody take a break from the constant news cycle, the whole situation is already stressful enough.

When I'm in dating mode I'm actively talking to anywhere between 1-5 women at a time. Once I make a connection with the one I think is the best match with me either emotionally or physically, I quickly but gracefully cut off contact with everyone else. I never have sex with a girl and still date other people at the same time, once that line is crossed I cut everyone else out out of integrity. Since I would be pissed if I slept with a girl and she was still dating other guys. We have to both be 100% on the same page if it's just a hookup or not. I find dating multiple people doesn't keep you that busy. I keep it low investment with each person for the beginning stages, usually only going on a date once a week, and talking every handful of days. If I hit it off with someone though it usually becomes a daily thing for communicating.

Yep we are pretty adaptable. An amazing fact I found out recently is more than 2 billion people on Earth actually live in deserts! That goes against a lot of intuition but it's true nonetheless. Our adaptability is our greatest strength and something we'll have to come to grips with more often too, since climate change is essentially unstoppable.

Occupying nations hasn't been possible nor desirable for anyone since WW2, it's not really worth the investment. It can only happen in a total war scenario. The US has had the most powerful military by orders of magnitude for 75 years, and even with a fraction of their power haven't been able to successfully occupy 3rd world goat herders with AK-47s lol. Total war is no longer a possibility for humans, the only outcome is the apocalypse. There would never be a gentleman's agreement not to use nukes either, because there are no rules in war. The only "rules" that exist are from those with enough violence and power to make them up and enforce them.

Don't expect people to be logically consistent, you'll be disappointed. The majority of people are fundamentally irrational and hypocritical. They are just behaving and thinking in whatever way is convenient to the ego. Their priority is their own biases first and foremost. Around orange and the materialist level you'll find those most guilty of this "Gotchya!" mentality, and while it may be a useful tool to expose outright blatant stupidity, it's returns start to diminish when you use it for every little minor offense you find. Feminists may be inconsistent and do or say some stupid things, but it's mostly just collateral. They are actively trying to improve the world and fight injustice/corruption, way more than you can say for most people.

The more comfortable and confident you are in your own body, the more other people will be as well (with themselves and towards you), even if you have to fake it till you make it with that confidence for a while. It's tricky but that's seems to be how it works, in my experience at least. Surgery I'm against. I don't think people modifying their bodies is that wise. It can be expensive and is in my opinion an avoidance for doing deeper interpersonal work. If you want to modify your body do it naturally through exercise. Of course you are entitled to act confident. You don't need to ask anyone permission for how you choose to feel about yourself, why would you ? However when you come across a guy you really like, and you aren't feeling at your very best confidence wise. I think it's ok to tell him how you feel about it, and that it's a soft spot you struggle with. Showing vulnerability can be a beautiful thing, and expressing it with someone can help build a lot of trust.

I assure you I came to my own perspective without redpill lol. Besides I'm not even 100% against it, I'm just more leaning towards not for my own personal life. I don't care what other people want to do.

There will always be exceptions to the general rule. I pulled a girl in college just by looking at each other from across the room. She walked by and I asked her to come to my room. I didn't even know her name until the next day lmao. Outlier experiences are possible if you look hard enough.

Remember what I said about the questions lol, but no you don't need it all the time. Women are animals too, sometimes they just want to fuck.

I'm gonna pick a bit at this, just to challenge that your schedule may not be as rigid as you think. 8-10 = The assignments (if you can) I would move into your 2nd half of the day with your other studying time. It should only take about 30 mins to go through a couple emails and eat a small breakfast. 11-1 = You are walking leaving home and then coming back for a shower? Why not shower in the morning or before you leave? Also you could get a bicycle, it x4 faster than walking. Exercise + time saver. 5:30-7:30 is a long time for meditation and dinner. I would maybe cut your afternoon and studying in time in two, have half of it when you get home from work after a small 30 min break to meditate, 1 hr for dinner, then the rest of night for studying/assignments. 12-1 = I would meditate in this time to help you sleep better, instead of phone stuff. Just some ideas to optimize, not trying to be too critical

Great to have that goal. Is any of that time you're putting towards it excess though? Do you think you could you accomplish more if you had solid rest, so you could accomplish more when you are doing that work?

It sounds like you are putting a lot of extra pressure on yourself, why is that?

The typical narrative would advocate you need to get out and experience things because you are in your prime age for having the energy to do so, but I am going to challenge that narrative and say you are actually SO young that you have the time to exercise some patience and be strategic about things. Take 6,8,10,12 months to work your ass off and save money at home while you contemplate what you desire and plan your next move. You said you just came back, so unless your living situation is toxic and detrimental, what's the hurry to get up and leave already? Ultimately you are going to have to make your own decision, and will have to navigate through that. Just be sure to balance your pragmatism and intuition together. Good luck !

What's this doc called? I'm interested. For all his flaws, you can't take away that he is a very unique person. Personally I don't focus on his political takes or personal life at all, I just find him to be a great artist. I find myself binging his music at least once a year. 808's & Heartbreak is *chefs kiss*

As far as I've read you mentioned they were donations. Saying that it's a scam implies you were a victim and therefore not responsible for your actions. Care to elaborate?

I agree. Most places/forums on the internet are quite judgmental and not remotely as open minded. This place might be unpolished and not perfectly cut, but it's still a jewel in an ocean of coal.

I physically recoiled like I just ate a grapefruit when I read this