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Run for the hills and never look back. Get yourself someone worth a damn that would allow you to go to a barber shop.

Some extremely weirdo energy going on ITT defending what seems to be a confirmed sexual predator but it’s okay because he did an apology video online. Fucking lol, never change Actualized.org.

OP you sound like my friend lol. He got mad at me one time for just being a social butterfly at a party and hitting it off with everyone, especially all the girls (I didn't know anyone at that party and he invited me there). I called his ass out on it and he admitted he felt like he was a loser, too "quiet" or doing all the wrong things to not end up getting laughs and praise or whatever. I told him I could see he was in his head the entire time at the party.. analyzing, thinking, trying to come up with the right things to say, weird body language, etc. You can physically see what a person is thinking inside--even if they think they're doing a good job hiding it. In a funny way, he was acting differently around those people than another group of people we mutually know--so it was interesting watching him change his whole personality just by a shift of being around different people.

LMAO, suckers born every minute. That phone is just going to be a low-end, reskinned Android phone with a marked up price for people who are sluts for "MERICA'S FREEDOM!!!". China themselves threatened the USA that they were working on their own OS for their own phones (like Huawei) but they ultimately completely failed. Turns out they were just reskinning Android. If China themselves were unsuccessful in building their OS without ripping off Android (and actually using Android but reskinning it and calling it 'HarmonyOS') then how is some fuckwad with bad highlights like that guy going to do it? Bwahaha. Building a stable, new OS from the ground up in 2021 is an unprecedented task that boggles the mind. It's like flying a kite and then saying you're going to land on the moon soon.

A LOT of people fear God or the wrath of God much more than the devil. Some cultures even say things like “God willing” or something similar in a serious manner just to avoid jinxing their hope of outcome

Lol when I was a kid, I’ve always wondered that if the devil is so powerful and smart, couldn’t he pretend to be God and become worshipped by everybody, and make God the devil to be feared and avoided? Of course, when I would present this “theory” as a kid I would get weird looks and responses from adults like “that’s impossible” lmao

That’s the crazy part… we’re just playing the spirituality game. Until that cosmic slap in the face happens to you and you snap out of it and realize “who/what” is really watching your life story unfold behind your eyes, then it’s always a game

She's good at Mario Kart

While I do like making fun of incels, no posts here have proved the OP wrong other than anecdotal evidence or underhanded insults to the OP lol

Posting outliers as examples doesn’t help the OPs dilemma btw that just confirms it even more

I had a long period where I willfully abstained from any drugs (ie: alcohol & weed, I wanted to see what it was like to be 100% straight edge for a few years) and it was great but you have to find the right people. I’ve had luck with finding people who don’t do that stuff in hobby/clubs like painting, rock climbing, dance lessons, video games etc. You make friends with them and if they think you’re cool they’ll hang out with you and most of the time it won’t involve alcohol since you can tell them from the beginning that you don’t drink—so your new friendship won’t be based on drinking from the beginning. Other times, I would chill with people who do drink (like old friends, their friends, etc) but I’d get like a Coke or like some tasty drink that wasn’t alcohol (nobody is going to check your drink anyways) and then leave before they would get too wasted and annoying to be around lol. It’s easy to balance all of this if you’re an extrovert for sure.

oh I am dumb as hell no doubt about that

Personally, I think it’s fucking hilarious NPC/dogmatic people are diaping out about a graduate school theory lmfao. It makes me feel good idiots are against it—it really makes them easy to spot intellectually. It’s like a big bright red MAGA hat worn on their smooth brains. This is all akin to the pandemic situation: “It’s fake!” *jobs and society shuts down* “ohh uhh… this is all for control!!” *relatives and close friends get sick and die* “this mask is taking my freedom!! ?” *introduces vaccines to hastily provide freedom on the horizon* “uhhhmm…. I don’t know what’s in the vaccine myself! It’s too rushed!! I don’t trust it” *millions and millions of people get it* “the risks are too high!!” *points to total deaths of COVID-19 being higher than any vaccine side effect* But honestly, what’s so scary? That a young mind might realize their racist dumbass parents are actually wrong and that the cool black kid next to him actually has to work much harder and jump through many hoops to get where he could potentially be at?

This right here.

Oh of course, it goes without saying. That’s the thing though, that’s what you’re supposed to do! Everyone is equal and valid in their opinions as long as they let others share theirs without deflecting/projecting. The other side doesn’t do that though, reading in between the lines. They poke and poke and poke and what do you know, the bear woke up. Just wait until the damage control comes out and you’ll have to wade through walls of texts. Lmao The addiction to being right is a huge bitch in this subsection. A lot of shit is said with nothing of value other than “actually… I’m right”

I’m actually surprised the backlash took this long tbh This section of the forum has always been a dumpster fire. I wonder if they really did think their hyper psycho-analyzations and long paragraphs on why the problem is YOU and not them in almost every single thread would go unnoticed. Not everyone is stupid and most can see right through it When the damn creator of this forum (Leo) has to lightly walk on eggshells and elaborate that his posts aren’t to perpetuate the angel & princess myth fairytale, you know shit has lost the plot. You think this is bad? You should’ve seen the fail threads before the forum crashed and data got wiped out a week or two ago. It was all just taking a big steamy shit on men and everyone agreeing in unison lmao

Leo is dropping nothing but facts here because I’ve been that scumbag. Maybe it’s a good idea to stay in fantasy world if you must fight against truth tbh. Once you actually spend some time experiencing it for yourself, it may ruin some things for you that you always had up on a pedestal. Well, not ruin per say but you’ll no longer get mad about it and judge. It’s a form of mini enlightenment.

Nah dude I got what you were trying to say lol but you might be more of a tough love type of person and that also works too even if it comes off as crude to some people. And @Applegarden8 that's awesome that you made progress like that and you're right on the money. It gets even better because it's kind of contagious because others start opening up to you and becoming comfortable with who they really are around you, since they see that you're being authentic and saying fuck it. It's weird how that works, like Leo says life is counter intuitive lol

Let's not jerk ourselves off here, but some people come in different shades of naive or depending on their upbringing--they've got good intentions but have been royally burned by manipulative people throughout their life and that becomes "normal" from their perspective. Sometimes life pummels good people into a pulp. I came from a loving family, I've always received love, had an amazing childhood, great public school life--I got out unscathed and easy. But I noticed with some friends that they didn't have this, so I pointed it out to them in a friendly way without gas lighting them to not 'let so and so walk all over you' and to do what they wanted to do, and they slowly began to understand what I was pointing at. It's like a mechanic telling someone that doesn't know shit about cars that they're an idiot for not changing their own oil, brakes, coolant, spark plugs, coil packs, etc because it's basic shit--and it is but that person never had a father that showed them how to do it on the weekends growing up!

Are ya'll really that scared to post about toxic behavior in women? Lmao. OP, I'll spare you the cowardly 'tHoSe aRe tWo SiDeS oF tHe SaMe cOiN' and I'll give you an actual example: Women that will string you along. These are harder to spot because they use Nice Guy tactics but in the form of femininity and beauty. They're like the Nice Guy version of a woman where they'll touch your arm, smile and laugh at your jokes to get something out of you, which isn't actual physical/emotional interest--which already has been laid out on the table that you're interested and not at all a secret to her. She knows. If you don't have much experience with women you're going to get absolutely destroyed with this. Now, this is ONLY if you literally have a genuine interest in this person and aren't in it just to get your dick wet or you're a needy bitch. This is when you like someone and that someone pretends to like you and you're eventually running errands for her like a fucking fool. It's extremely toxic because you then think that something is wrong with you, you'll go on this forum and they'll say all women are angels and it's YOU who's at fault and to improve yourself by [insert cliche self improvement advice]. It's a never ending cycle. I've got friends who jump through thousands of hoops and are a dancing monkeys to these chicks and don't even realize that they're doing it. I call them out on it and they get mad. Months later they're updating their social medias with sad memes and weirdo incel ideology posts about how women are trash or whatever. It's stupid. The kryptonite to this is to be an authentic, kind, asshole. Just playfully be a dick. Be yourself! It weeds out any women who wants you to change the oil on her car or to get her stuff or just wants attention. How do you do that? Watch Leo's video about why women love assholes or something like that. He's right on the money with it. You're not changing who you are, you're becoming who you really are. Don't be afraid to walk away or say no to shit you don't want to do or don't like. I see you posted that you've got problems being needy. That's a huge unattractive trait that women see in men. The only way to get "rid" of it is to continue meditation daily and do the spiritual work to find out who "you" really are. The neediness will slowly melt away until you realize you don't give a fuck in a good way. You actually attain what the paragraph above this one says. At this point, you'll realize how easy it is to spot toxicity & baggage but you won't judge them on it because we're all conditioned one way or another. Just peel back the layers homie.

this thread sucks

Trump definitely did have the best balance IMO. He balanced letting people get infected and die and keeping the artificially inflated stock market above water successfully for a few short weeks before the stock market took a shit. Thats my President!!! :MAGAdrool:

Ironically, the guy in the video looks like the type of guy to date single mothers lmfao

Ah yes, half of America is trembling at the thought of NPC right wing overweight sexless Call of Duty cosplayers with Walmart assault rifles will fight to take over the country. This means war…. Brought to you by Dunkin Donuts! America runs on Dunkin.

It's wild how the more evil and reprehensible you are as a human being, the more you are rewarded and just given a slap on the wrist. And good people get shit on 24/7 in most cases.