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What would you do if somebody attacked your loved one? Surrender or fight? I don’t think surrender can be universally seen as power. Context is paramount. I think everything in the universe is love. Both fighting and surrendering are forms of love. Somebody who doesn’t love won’t fight because he doesn’t believe in anything. And all the beautiful things in the world exist because people were willing to fight and die for it.

How is jumping into a void an equivalent to surrendering? Perhaps my understanding of surrendering is different to yours. If I want to do something that I don’t want like jumping into a void I have to fight my fear otherwise I will not do it. Last week it was public speaking and I really had to push myself off the edge and just do it. Otherwise I won’t do it. My default is surrendering to fear. And that is not the surrendering you are talking about.

Why did you delete this? Luckily I’m tech savvy. Hm. Life after enlightenment can still be hard from what I’m reading. You still have to deal with the same old shit.

That is what I’m saying but in a different way. Letting go of artificial rules and social conditioning that is not needed.

So I decided to join this self help group for ex addicts. Before joining this group I was doing fine but after I joined it I was doing worse. It was a really interesting experience to observe in myself. Before joining I was productive, working on my business, no uni so I had time for fun stuff. But after joining that group I basically copied the paradigm of the “looser club”. I know I shouldn’t be using such terms but for the sake of clarity I did. I was going to those groups 2-3 times per week and each meeting lasted 2 hours. Social conditioning is so powerful guys. If you hang out with low consciousness people you basically adopt their energy. It is almost impossible to resist not being influenced in the same way you can’t stay clean if there is a literal shit storm happening in your living room. These people who were joining these groups were all fine people. People with a good heart and who were doing their best but I felt sad too how they are stuck in low consciousness paradigms. They are basically spinning their wheels. Those groups are basically echo chambers. If you really want to heal from addictions or improve you must not join a looser’s club. It is not a value judgement. It is just basic social dynamics. When you join a group your unconscious basically downloads the values, code of ethics, and vibe from the group. You have to find a group that is up the scale, not down the scale so the group can lift you up. For me the group pulled me down. For people who are very low like heavy depression and close to suicide such groups might come in handy so in no way I’m poo pooing those groups and making value judgements. Just sharing my introspection and observations. I could clearly see some people basking in their negativity. Joining such groups had a profound influence on my. It is almost like the group vibe lulls you into negativity. I was conscious of it and I tried not to be influenced by it but it is very hard to not get influenced by a group vibe. I wonder if there are people who developed the skills not to get influenced by group think and how you developed that skill.

Nigeria has a big population and a lot of precious minerals that will be in high demand for high tech and batteries. Precious material will be the next fossil fuel.

Viktor Frankl who’s seminal works on this topic are profound disagrees with you on this topic. I’m leaning more towards his position tbh.

Are traumas a burden or a gift? That is the age old question. I choose to see it as a gift.

When shit hits the fan (like a war) it becomes clear who needs who. In good times we need good women (which they aren’t many). In bad times we need good men.

Time is more valuable to waste than your ego getting bruised. From my experience girls do give out IOI’s, it is mostly unconscious process for the girl. Attraction is not a conscious process to begin with. That is why the more you try to control attraction the less of it you will have. As Leo said, you can tell if a girl is receptive in 10-20 seconds. The thing is you need to hold frame which I have problems with. Especially young girls are unforgiving if you fall out of character.

Testosterone is only bad if you don’t know how to deal with your emotions. And yes there are men who can’t deal with their emotions and those are the guys who suck at chess.

@How to be wise we know how. He documented it all. The question what he damaged.

So thanks to meditation and prayer I got some experiences with gods love and today I decided to talk about it to people in person and this a group of people who are open to god. It was an ok experience but there a pattern that I noticed in myself: every time I pronounce the word god there is a cringe feelings inside of me. I feel so airy fairy. Probably because I was atheist for a very long time and also because I’m still a little bit angry at God for not answering my communication with him when I was a kid and in a very dire situation. How do I get rid of this cringe feeling? First of all I don’t understand why he rejected me as a kid. I didn’t even ask anything from him other than a humane existence or at least his acknowledgement and love.

Buddhism is not bullshit as some say.

Repetition is key. It is a matter of thinking habit.

Aren’t you female though?

People tend to go after things they are good at. The reason why there aren’t a lot of women in chess is because they are bad at it. If you created a program with equal amount of women and men you would still have men being at the top of the game. I don’t get why SD green people have a hard time accepting males and females having different minds. I mean we have different bodies which means we also have different minds. To be great at chess you need to be a spacial thinker and be stoic. Chess will teach you in a very harsh way that in life your emotions don’t matter when making quality decisions. And that is against female nature.

Is it not obvious

What has childhood to do with god? True. I’m not secure about my views. I wouldn’t be able to put a great stance against an atheist in a debate. True. I unlocked clairvoyance in the last year. I can intuitively recognize falsehood.

Last week I had a crazy weird success story also but I still have some cognitive dissonance and my brain doesn’t want to register the success and forget about it for some reason.

That guy didn’t seem smart to begin with. Just imagine him being taking Putin’s position. It would not be very good. Although Putin is a mad man. It is the best Russia can offer. You don’t want to trade your existing devil for a worse one.

If you don’t smoke or drink you have to overcompensate with vibe otherwise their subconscious register you as not one of them. Socializing is mostly monkey see monkey do. It is very simple.

Back in the day there was a price to be paid if you asked a girl to fuck. You could get be thrown out of your tribe or killed by the top G’s. Today basically you can go around with your dick in your hand and your life and livelihood is not in danger.

It is not just the size of the Brian. What is equally important is a well balanced and interconnected brain regions and parts. Some people just have more connections in their brain. I’m such a person and people always get flabbergasted by all the links I can make.

This guy is a voice of reason and love and at the same time ruthless against the feminist paradigm. Must see for every high conscious female out there. And before you guys dunk on him. He has higher credentials than all of you on this subject being a Psych.D