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The guy in the pic

Basically the answer to every negative emotion is self acceptance and self love. But actually transmuting the negative emotion to a positive one is a whole ass different skill.

Shame is a social emotion. But it is hard wired into our survival brain. Shame basically has to do with fitting in the group aka following others. While to be good with women you have to be shameless but in a light hearted funny way.

@RendHeaven agreed

You need to set boundaries

Who is that?

If anything men today are too feminized. And her solution for these men is to become more feminine. 😭 Usually these problematic men were raised by problematic women and didn’t have a good male role model.

We all have our shadows that we project onto the world and onto people including the opposite sex. I think Emerald is just no different. She has problems with the opposite sex (admitted daddy issues) and tries to fix these internal issues with external solutions (trying to fix the world) but imo she totally misses the mark. She has a huge shadow for somebody who is trying to fix others. Especially if you want to tackle huge issues like abstract concepts as battle of the sexes you need to be shadow free. I think a lot is already explained by Jung himself. Reading his stuff is so essential.

So what is your solution to the shame then? Don’t you think these guys can’t feel this shame? They do. It is just in capability of not being able to process it. I think you have weird ideas about what men discuss about among themselves. Most men are level headed about their issues. I don’t see a lot of men complaining compared to women complaining about men.

@Princess Arabia you don’t believe in cause and effect? If I jumped from my balcony I believe bad shit will happen to my body. So in that sense I do believe in cause and effect and Newtonian physics ….. But I also believe in quantum mechanics. In that realm all happens spontaneously.

🥲 thanks for the pep talk. So what are you saying? I’m not in control. Yea I knew that but that doesn’t help. My hands were shaking. This never used to happen that the hottest girls are approaching me. Usually it was okish girls who would advance on me once in a blue moon. I was like “how is this even happening?”. I need to get use to the new reality that top notch girls are interested in me which is totally out of my comfort zone at the moment. I think all of this is happening thanks to Joseph Rodriguez. His shit really works.

I’m not a chaser. I like to attract. I’m just back from a night out and attracted to the hottest girl in the night club but when she approached me to dance I was like wtf and I messed it up. It was all over my face how nervous and out of league I felt. I could hate myself right now but sometimes you just fuck up. Especially if a jaw dropping girl approaches me which doesn’t happen that often I just get dumb struck.

I’m where I’m. And I gotta love that.

@Princess Arabia I meant not valuable enough instead of hot enough. People look at things that are valuable to them and they want them. You basically want to be wanted. I don't see how that is demeaning. Perhaps I could have said it in a different way though. The video explains my position very well. You just have to "be" love, instead "doing" loving. And what is love? I don't love girls. I love the Self. Girls are not worth it imo. I just go straight to the point: loving God.

Attracting a girl is like attracting a cat. If you run after it you will just chase it away. With pickup more is less. If you are not attracting a girl you are just not hot enough and you need to work on your confidence, status, outfit, and vibe. If you are just a lustful person she will feel that. If you are a hot guy, the horn dog game will work for you. But if you are ugly, low status, you need to use love. If you are a loving person you will radiate that too. And she will be attracted to that.

You guys think they are stupid? They are rich because they have a high IQ. There is no “moving”. Their HQ are already stationed in those tax heaven countries. You don’t want to scare away wealth. There is a reason why even SD green countries are not going nazi on rich people. They are paying your salary.

That is not possible without a world government. Currently they are stationed in tax heavens. Your national policies won’t have an effect on them.

Wealthiest people left the matrix. If you are going to tax them heavily they will just leave for another country.

In my day I worked at a burger king and after seeing the disgusting stuff behind the scenes, I'm still not eating at Burger King. I can't imagine it is different at McDonalds or stuff. Sometimes I need a snack and I do indulge. So yesterday I was at sandwich restaurant Subway and there was a fat guy working behind the counter. He was soaked in sweat. I had to wait in line and I saw him clean some disgusting stuff from the table and from the floor. And after doing that he went back behind the counter to help his college with sandwiches.... without changing his gloves. Like I couldn't imagine a more disgusting scenario: the only thing he could do to top that situation was to shit over the place. I can't even imagine the stuff happening behind the scenes. I'm just done with fast food chains I think.

The writer was into depth psychology. I think all human stories are stories of the archetypical hero. And all lead to the quest for enlightenment.

There us strong Jewish lobby in these countries. They are very deceitful.

I found a pattern that is really effective on girls. If you see a hot girl in a group, first talk to her with minimal investment, doesn´t matter if she returns the emotional investment or not. Then subtly back off, give to her ugly friends (or any uglier girl) more emotional investment than her, joke with them and pump the state. You will see the hot girl in her head doing the computation like ´wtf is happening, why am I getting less investment than her'. This works so well. Never use logic on women. You got to know how to game her emotions for her own best interest. Even if you are in the classical sense a high value man, if you don't know how to tap into her feelings, you are just barking up the wrong tree. Women value power/status a lot so these are the levers you have to play with. For me it was important to be mindful of thoughts of me being inferior or less than her, if you think like this you will embody it and she will feel it and treat you according to the merits of your self image/esteem. She always have to feel like she is getting the better side of the deal. That is the main lesson that I extracted from my night out yesterday.

After finding a business mentor I discovered how important it is to have a mentor: now I’m looking for a spiritual mentor. So couple of day ago I found a business mentor. He is a business law guy and it opened up a new world for me. He knows all the little tips and tricks of doing business. If I had to figure this shit out myself it would have taken me 20-30 years and be at the age of this mentor. Development is about getting from A to B and you want to find somebody who has walked the path you are walking currently. This doesn’t matter if you are looking for a therapist or business partner/mentor. It is weird how everything I’m :doing is a spiritual practice at the moment. On SD yellow everything becomes a spiritual practice. Currently I do have a therapist, business mentor but I’m looking for a spiritual guru. Where can I find one? I tried to visit some local yoga and meditation centers in my town and it was very disappointing.

Artists won't disappear. It is like saying that horses would disappear because of invention of the car. No, horses and cars have functions for the human, just in a different way. AI is just another tool for the artist. If you have any brains you would study the shit out of AI. It doesn't matter what field you are in. It will influence your life and your job. I'm already making crazy money thanks to AI.

Well, I didn't say that is the only thing. That is 1 of the things she gets out of it. That is just your experience. And which men you were dating? They couldn't get their dick hard in their early 30'ies? Probably because of porn use. I don't see early 20'ies and early 30'ies as a an age gap relationship. Early 20'ies girls are at her peak while early 30'ies men are at their peak. It is natural that they are attracted to each other. Probably there are men who appreciate a bossy 30 year old woman but it is not me. I actually know men who do (they are an outlier; they are attracted to older women because of mommy issues). More power to them and more opportunity for me. But the thing is a bossy woman will rarely find a good partner, it will be a very dissatisfying relationship because she will have to downgrade to a lesser man in her eyes and the only way the relationship will hold is that she knowing she can't get any better. You have your experiences and you are entitled to it but I think you dated older men to overcompensate some stuff. Granted you admit that but I don't think every girl who dates an older guy dates to self medicate their emotional wounds. And lastly: what feminists don't get is that fertility is something that can't be overcompensated with other attributes. Sexual relationships can be for fun but at it is core it is about reproduction. If nobody cared about fertility, humanity would end and that would be the end of all human relationships too. There are people who don't care about reproduction but from the POV of the consciousness of humanity they are just outliers. If there would be a disease that would make all women infertile, hell would break loose.