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Bro you are going way to fast. Girls are like cats. If you hold your hand out the first time and she doesn’t come have some patience. Perhaps she needs some time. What you did was just project your own pain onto her and scared her off with your hissy fit. Also if you are so into a girl and are so invested while she is not, it is a huge red flag for girls. Emotional investment has to be done gradually and calibrated to her emotional investment.

For example if I’m competing for a girl and I see the other guy being sad, I can be heavily influenced by that and stop pursuing her. This is a question about competition. In competition the eye is on the prize, not on your opponents feelings. I really have a hard time developing this ruthlessness that is needed to get mine. I think it comes down to emotional mastery? Not being identified with feelings of compassion? Obviously I want to be a compassionate person but I think it should be in balance with my own survival needs. At this moment I feel I’m too soft. I want to have the ability to be hard or soft according to own wishes. I don’t think there is a magic formula for this. Just be selfish by not listening to my beta feelings? I’m not happy with being this soft.

Don’t resist being needy. Just be yourself and be needy and look for girls that put up with that. You can’t just throw away parts of yourself and don’t listen to people who say you can. Just see yourself as a vessel and currently there is neediness energy within you. flush it out by recognizing it and live it out. Don’t be ashamed by being needy. Resistance to neediness will only make it worse. So put your dick on the line and just have congruency. Your inner and outer should match. The worst is if it doesn’t match. You will be labeled creepy. So just own who you are.

Yesterday I was taking a dance class. This girl with whom I danced one time just left her own partner out of nowhere and started standing besides me and started smiling to me. This was so socially uncalibrated and abrupt that the dance coach and me just stood there flabbergasted. I bursted out in laughing because I was charmed but also I didn’t know what to do or what to say because everybody was looking for my reaction. Omg, when becoming more alpha one gets shit tested. Not by girls but by whole groups of people. And I’m not ready for it. Also girls with boyfriends started giving me eye fucks. It is so weird because I have respect for their boyfriends and don’t look at them while they don’t give a fuck about their boyfriends and eye fucking me. Perviously I didn’t get this mucha attention. This change in my vibe happened after a break up and letting go of seeking validation of girls. Major point for letting go is this; letting go is not a conception but an experience!!!! so a lot of things in game one has to experience on self to truly understand it. Metaphorically it is about reading about the moon versus going to the moon. Men fall for the flesh. Females fall beyond the flesh.

@Fleetinglife I think next target of Russia is to create upheaval in former Yugoslavia. Serbia is a time bomb filled with extremists that are waiting for their opportunity. It doesn’t matter if Serbia is a sovereign state. Extremism like Serbian extermism or Kurdish extremism is difficult to be dealt with because they are not a state actor. That is what you don’t understand. YPG PYD is not a state but a terrorist organization so there is no threspassing. NATO is allowed to create buffer zone in north Syria. That is why nobody is making a fuss about it other than far right extemists. Serbia should tread softly because Russia will soon be poking the Balkan and I believe Turkey should move its army to Bosnia and Albania to make preparations.

This is a very old thread and I can’t recognize myself in this thread anymore. But thanks for bumping this thread up I guess. ?

@Fleetinglife Serbia lost Kosovo with having that mindset. And you have learned nothing. I hope Serbian government is smarter because playing with borders is playing with fire.

@Fleetinglife Adana agreement. Look it up. Stop watching stupid far right videos. They are not giving you an accurate view of the situation. I know you are Serbian and shit but that doesn’t change anything. These far right politicians only care about themselves. Try looking into stage green sources to understand geopolitics.

It will feel like reffing your car engine at high speeds while standing still.

And rightfully so.. US forces need to move out of the region. They are playing a dangerous game by supporting YPG terrorists to destabilize the region.

@ShardMare https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6_a_GFWs-Is

Is 5-MeO-MALT hella expensive or is it me? The only source that I could find is 300 euro for 10g. I remember 5-MeO-DMT being much cheaper.

Find the physical manifestation of apathy in your body, it is very subtle but it is there. You will need to find the trigger of apathy, remember it and meditate on that sensation to release it. The body is the doorway to the emotions and inner world.

@Roy you don’t even send the day of the meet a confirmation message that the date is going as planned?

Omg, that guy in the video (Adam) aged like 10 years in 2 years time.Haven't seen his video in a while. I'm always shocked how fast people age who do a lot of psychdelics.

You can change your self image in two ways according to the book Through real life experiences: real successes and failures Or by using the hack of visualization Your nervous system doesn't know the difference. So if you are visualizing success all day and actually feeling the sensations of success, the primitve part of your brain doesn't even know the difference. You are not only rewiring your subconscious self-image which is subconscious by definition but also your body. Success chemicals are being released in the body and you are gearing yourself for success. If you are interested in this work I recommend Joe Dispenza, his work is even better.

I’m a guy who always wants to proof something so when dealing with myself that is also the case. If I’m worth it I want proof but in self esteem self image books they say “you are worth it just because”. Is there not something like reality? You want you self image (the map of yourself) fit reality?

@puporing @Rokazulu ok. So if god decides his creation shouldn’t exist anymore I should be in peace with that? That strikes at one of my core fears: letting go of control. I mean, it is not even in my own hands and if it is not in my locus of control I should be at least content with whatever comes my way. Being fearful and going out like a wuss is not how I want to go out. I want to go out as a warrior.

Post your favorite comedians and their performances

Some of these are very disappointing lol

The body is the portal to your feelings so if you can't feel emotions that doesn't mean you don't have emotions, you just can't feel them because you pushed them in your unconscious the solution is to get to the physical sensations, get out of your head and into your body (root chakra) and stay with the bodily sensation As a rule of thumb: give more attention to your bodily sensations than to your mental activity

Any good book recommendations on this topic?

@Leo Gura should one burn every set to the ground? There is this one girl I like but she is a little standoffish. I don’t know whether to give her time or keep trying to lead.

Your self image and the emotions you have about that image will attract experiences with the same emotions. It is a self reinforcing system.

Perhaps I was projecting a little bit. I would still have fun while finding my soul mate. If he doesn’t want to have fun because he thinks that is taking advantage of girls, then he has to be in peace with his thirstiness. Can’t have the cake and eat it too. should he jump on those girls? There are girls that want to be jumped on. The thing is that it has to be mutual. Mood has to be right. ?