BlessedLion

Only read books for informational reasons, not inspiration. If you truly want to be great, motivation shouldn’t even be a question. From there, go hard in the paint and never stop. You’ll have to learn to say no to many things, sacrifice a ton, become obsessive about your craft and likely seem weird to others. You have to be willing to die for this thing, like if you can’t do it, you’d rather be dead. This is how I feel about meditation

Nice!

@How to be wisei think it’s all about intention and integration. Many party with them but to use them seriously is different

@RendHeaven I like your take on psychedelics !

Solid advice

@katewashere I also feel like even if you meet people from other places in your country, they’ve somewhat adapted to that culture. It’s interesting to go to the source and meet people from there in their element.

I wouldn’t say I left the US for this reason in particular, I just wanted to travel and be in a country that was more relaxed and integrated with nature. The women I met were just an add-on. Honestly, I probably would’ve had more sex if I stayed in the US but it wouldn’t have been as good. However, when I did a Brazil trip it was solely to go to the source of whatever is pumping out those Goddesses. Instead of “uprooting my whole life to find girls” it was more like “exploring the globe and meeting amazing women on the way.” But I would also add that, for some guys, this is exactly what they should do. It’s pretty mind opening to meet women from different cultures especially if you’ve only ever known yours. @acidgoofy Cool. I think in Medellin it’s a bit different because so many people go there to party, the locals probably just avoid Gringos a bit more.

Hm, the divide here is deep. I think it’s healthy to take a break from this place every once in a while

I’d love more content on God, Enlightenment, Types of awakenings and all the distinctions in between. Possibly something deep in how the mind functions and how to use it better. Anything sex, relationships Life in solitude, monk mode

This is so lame though. “The work never ends” “they point out blind spots” When do you just get to relax? I never understand this about couples, especially in spirituality, it’s like this never ending project where they are aiming to be perfect. Working on their triggers, childhood traumas, shadow, etc. It’s a massive trap imo

I’m super happy in monk mode and people think it’s unhealthy. They can’t seem to understand how I can be so happy in solitude and think I’m lonely

Best spots/countries?

I’m actually finding it much more effective and relaxed to make a good impression the first night, end it with a kiss, then go on a proper date the next. Then usually that leads to sex and it’s more relaxed. The whole one night stand is unnecessarily going fast.

I probably have some children in Brazil

I find the void quite peaceful. It’s just empty restful silence. Your true nature

It’s nice to feel appreciated by women from places like Brazil because they actually appreciate you as a man. Way less stressful in certain ways

Pretty sure Tyler is a US based woman so has a bitterness and bias towards us talking about this. The truth is there’s a much better and more attractive option and it ain’t in the US. This is no different than doing pick up in a club, it’s just pick up in other countries. The women love it too and get to experience something new so what’s the harm? Sex tourism is specifically paying for sex in countries where prostitutes are cheaper, which also is fine if people want to do it. As long as no one is getting hurt.

I have been living not working for like a year now and I’m definitely never bored nor do I miss work. But I consider going back because I miss the thrill of saving and investing money to eventually buy a badass house and live with even more passive income. But that’s kinda just a hamster wheel. I feel I could live “poor” in a place as long as I’m by nature and have good food and people around me. Btw. Poor doesn’t mean scraping by it means living on like 1K/2K/ Mo in South America, which, there is pretty high end. I don’t want to spend my youth working, when I can optimize my avatar and live in a restful state.

Why would you want this tho?

Yesterday I met a woman who just got divorced because the guy cheated. They have a 3 year old child now who will live with separated parents, and now any other kids they might have had will not exist and what could’ve been a beautiful family will not exist because he thought it wasn’t a big deal. So yeah….

Obviously if you learn Spanish that’s a huge plus and an even bigger plus if you go to an actual university there. I didn’t even know that was possible. Which university?

You guys sound like my kinda dudes ? I left the US 6 years to work and live remote. My job was paying stacks so I lived like royalty in Colombia, we rented a penthouse that overlooked the whole city and it was less than 1K each. Nuts! So yes, 1K/Mo you can live well, but if you can spend 2K just do that and live in a badass pad. I’m curious which part of Colombia you lived @acidgoofy? Because I was in Medellin and felt like the locals were kinda annoyed by the gringos, probably because there’s so many. Most of the women I hooked up with in Colombia were European/Canadian and American ironically. Because I just didn’t get much interaction with the locals, but maybe it’s changed or you were in a different spot. But yes, the locals are very warm and friendly regardless, very nice and cool people. I’ve actually never been to Argentina directly, every other country in SA, yes, but Argentina I haven’t yet. I make my claim based on the Argentinian women I’ve been with in other countries, so maybe they are different. But I’ve observed them to be the most beautiful , behind Brazilians of course, in South America. I heard they have a bit of a feminist culture there but it’s probably nothing compared to the cringe that is now the US dating scene. They still have the feminine masculine polarity. Im probably a bit biased here, because I struck out in Colombia and have done well with Argentine women.

Someone did 5MEO and killed themselves?

Not sure where you’re from but an American I go t a Brazilian visa so I can do 3 month stints then I just leave and go back. Portuguese is tough but if you go to the cities like Rio and São Paulo many women there know at least some English and even if they don’t I created relationships and sex buddies with women who spoke no English. It’s so much more about the energy there. if you’re between Colombia or Argentina I’d say go to Argentina. The women are hotter and more open to foreigners. Brazil is the best by miles though imo.

Be honest about it. Cheating is a spineless act. Just be honest that you’re attracted to other people and maybe your girl will be open to a three sum open relationship or taking a break. If not, then break up, but don’t fuck her over by being a snake. Plus it will eat you up. Guilt sucks