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@Preety_India Hypocrite, you just made a thread about a friend ghosting you and it broke your heart, now you telling people its ok? ... @Lyubov I would copy past what you wrote here, send it to them, have a 100% honest open conversation with them about it, then if nothing changes, say the good byes. Move on. Its better to avoid the same behaviour that got you into this mess in the first place. Start with honest communication about how you feel, make it a top value. No longer engage in games of miscommunication/misunderstandings.

"Quantum realities have a categorical indeterminism built into them". Sais a paradigm.

Its about the associations your making between Free will, meaninglessness and pessimism. No free will does not imply meaningless. Meaningless does not imply pessimism. Free will or not? Is a question, why does the answer to a question change anything? Have no idea the answer to these question, just trying to point to some things that could of been overlooked.

@1liamo78 My world: No free will -> Optimism/neutral Your world: No free will -> Pessimism.

Maybe the question is not so much about free will but about pessimism? Free will or not why is this bad or good? No free will points to -> meaninglessness points to -> pessimism Multiple steps where taken, jumping. Each jump a mystery to unravel.

Do you work at a animal shelter?

The trick i use to last forever and to cum on demand at the same time with my partner is to relax the body, be present and to not think about a sex fantasy. If im about to cum, il turn off my sex brain. Its basically a recontextualization. I was experiencing from a context that built up ejaculation pressure, then switched it to a neutral context. The real trick is that you should always be in the neutral context. Im sure there is a more advanced spiritual method with unification... Not sure how to go about training or unlocking it.

Frame everything in the 3rd person. While pointing to self ask: 1) Why does she feel bad about the break up? 2) What will she do now? 3) How will this change her life? 4) ... Its an exercise that separates the character from the observer. Can also try pointing to your self as a it. 1) Why does it feel bad about the break up? This is meta-ego training. Ya know its working when there is a experience that nothing is happening to you. A realization. Its happening to that other person over there.

I woudnt call Veganism a holistic ideology, but it could definitely be a part of a holistic solution.

At this point authenticity longer has meaning, it only had meaning from the paradigm that contained it. Authenticity is transcended. Is the only way to truly be authentic to transcend it?

Example of navigating the chaos.

Its about learning how to navigate the chaos more then it is linear thinking. There are many plateaus on the road to mastery, each requires a kind of differentiation and integration to overcome. But it seems it has very little to do with vertical growth unfortunately. The top players are solid orange or maybe its just the only stage that gets to the top, winning and losing is a top value. https://christopherming.com/notes/the-art-of-learning-josh-waitzkin/ If anyones interested in mixing chess with spirituality, Josh Waitzkin is the way to go. Not super advanced, but its a good way to learn the art of learning through chess.

Master level, stopped progressing because to improve required memorizing games and openings. Didn't see any benefits in doing that, so changed hobbies into software. Would love to go back to the game and see if i could incorporate god mind intuition as discribed by @Carl-Richard.

Isnt kombucha very high in sugar?

http://www.cook-greuter.com/Cook-Greuter 9 levels paper new 1.1'14 97p[1].pdf I hope everyone did their Cook Greuter homework.

@Lyubov The first day i signed up to this site i got into a heated discussing about game b with @Preety_India, There is no changing her mind or see reason, she needs to self discover this on her own. There is a Game B way of engaging in everything. Like a Game B way of communicating with people on this forum, that is probably worth exploring.

Leo touched on it in his latest video.

ahah, no need to argue, but definitely curious to know the mistake that was made? The phrase "truth is relative", what does that mean to you when you hear it?

All truth is relative. You solved it (relatively). lol Christians believe Christianity is the one true truth and their 100% right, while at the same time being 100% wrong from every other perspective. Right now nothing is knowable from your perspective and your 100% right, while at the same time being 100% wrong from a more inclusive perspective. The bigger a picture you see the more right you are. lol Some truths are more true then others. There is always a truer truth. With the exception of Absolute truth.

I dont have a doormat, problem solved.

I think therefore i am the product of an algorithm.

Great Question +1

... this is a value i trained vai imagination strong good associations towards, so it will automatically make me want her. But this is what has been consciously trained into place. Not sure there is a difference between growth and consciously designing the subconscious mind.

@RendHeaven Yes, in elementary i had the standard crushs on the hot girls in class. Had nothing to do with there personalities, they where mean girls... lol After that heart break i did alot of thinking about what made me attracted to them in the first place. Started experimenting with how my attraction worked. Realized its entirely my imagination and emotions attached to them. If i imagine and associate positive good times with the person im looking at, ill get super attracted to them. There's a middle step its possible your not aware you've been doing, its responsible for the fixed attraction to hot girls, in this case you associated negative traits on to her and couldnt imagine even touching her... The associations where made as a child and you've lost the power to make new ones. Well thats not true, just need to unlock it again, with some training. When i have sex with a women ill associated alot of good energy to them and ill want them again over any other women. Its like the ex-girl friend effect, even if i could be masturbating to a hotter girl, the ex-girl friend or crush is 10x more effective. Its about Just imagine yourself having sex with her, imagine having a great time with lots of fun and positive emotions and you'll be craving that ass. Imagine a romance... fantasize. Its the reverse, you imagined a story of not being attracted to her and confused that with "my attraction preferences". Its the story thats creating the preferences not the other way around.

Objectification during sex, not any other time. All the feminist ive dated never communicated what they wanted in bed, i had to figure it out. They have a tendency to suppress their sexuality, because it comes in conflict with their agenda/pride.