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I am everything These are all tools in a tool belt. Skills that are naturally developed vai self-actualization.

I've had this tab open for a few days now, didn't respond because i have nothing to add. Was waiting for contemplation insights or for some back up from other members. Even my boomer mother read it, she said "That's exactly right. Your only limitation is your own thoughts" There are likely prerequisites that need to be unlocked before i can understand this. I had written a list of thoughts and questions, they where deleted after realizing getting answers to does questions would not take me any closer to understanding "Self is Infinity and Infinity must be itself!".

Are you running on your heels or your toes? Next, just start body building. Work different body parts on the days that the legs need to rest.

That's the trick, making new connections/associations between what your seeing and what your feeling. Explicit designed fantasizing creates these connections. Imagine having sex with a man or an animal with all the strong emotions. By practicing this it will slowly loosen the knobs that are currently tuned into "conventional attraction" for most. Ive done this training with chess, by masturbating to chess. All successfully. Right but this is the relative/absolute mix up. We are keeping it relative, lets play the game of attraction and see how far we can push it. Then we can loosen the larger master knob that controls all other nobs. Maybe lol. Battle of attrition, one knob at a time. Yes conditioning. That fine, we are mostly a slave to it when the path ways that construct our conditioning are closed off. Can they be kept open or reopened? Loosening the knobs.

yeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee Another discussion of people convinced they understand attraction. Its constructed, and you've lost the ability to rewire yourself. All preferences are constructed. Ive never met a women i was not 100% physically attracted to and ready for. Notice the feelings that arise when watching this. Maybe disgust? That's a reflection of something you've rejected within yourself. Its shadow. Withholding love from yourself Watch until you've re-contextualized your attraction. If everyone on the planet looked like that, thats what you would be attracted to. ----------- Tips: Fantasies about having sex with her and loving the experience, make sure to properly manifest the emotions (physical sensation, excitement, anticipation, masculinity, her lust for you, your lust for her, she wants to be filled). Run a detailed emotional simulation.

@Michael569 Thank you, will report back with results.

Its here, have not seen it yet but it would be great if this was a view into a Game B, Tier 2 relationship.

Been playing meta chess with a friend. The rules are: Each turn you can play a move or change a rule, to a maximum of 3 rule changes per person. Some rules will counter other rules, so you need to be strategic and time the rule change. Some rule are not allowed like: Giving yourself more then 3 rules. Any rule must apply equally to both players. Interesting rules we came up with: Of course we made a lot of simple rules like, "kings can move like queens and knights", making check mate nearly impossible. Counter rule: 3 checks is checkmate. When a piece is captured it needs to be placed back on the board. Can pick any square. So your placing your opponents pieces back on the board. Its chaos. Maintain a story of all the pieces and there lives, when a piece is moved, tell the story of that piece. If the story isn't congruent, game is lost. In the end all the pieces develop a relationship with all the pieces they interacted with. Piece develop feelings for other pieces when they are close to each other for more then 3 move. Pieces in love cant kill each other. To move a piece you must first send a random text to someone about it. (this one was abit painful) To make a move you must first do a push up. He can barely do 1 push up... so this rules was to my advantage. Blindfold rule. All pieces are removed from the board or half of the board is blindfold and the other half isnt. Infinite board. Pieces can move to squares outside the board range. Any piece can be removed from the board and saved for the next game. At the start of the next game the player can put the pieces saved on the board. Each player alternated between moving there pieces and opponents pieces. Ex: Player 1 moves, Player 2 moves, Player1 moves others pieces, Player 2 moves others Piece. Repeat Every turn increase the number of moves that can be played. On turn 2 make 2 moves in a row. On move 3 make 3 moves... Check stops the sequence. Capturing a piece gives the player and extra move. Can be saved for later. Slouching back on chair is a loss condition. It becomes a game of maintaining presents. After a move is made the player must freeze in place. Any movement is a loss. Including eyes. So you must be strategic about where you place your eyes before hitting the clock. lmao Before hitting the clock you must tell the opponent something you like about them. Cant repeat yourself. Gets intense for bullet chess. Every pieces strength is relative to the number of adjacent pieces. Pieces of equal value can be sacrificed for a captured piece to return to the board. 4 pawns + rook = queen. A piece of higher value can be scarified for an opponents piece of lower value. If the opponent resigns they get an extra rule for the next game. Rules designed to incentivize resignation. lol Phycological war. A rule sweetening resignation, weakens the mind and all choices that comes after it. Reducing the opponents field of potentiality. You can choose not to move. If you dont move for 10 moves in a row, you win. Great way to make the opponent choose to do nothing. lmao, it results in them always loosing. The rule is designed to make them experiment with it. ---------------------- What rules can you guys come up with?

Made the same connection. Thought the video showed a healthy green path. Practical for 99% of the forum. I imagine yellow is at a construction level that can craft a perspective on the go. Perspective fast food, take out. Business opportunity.

The "it could be worse" coping mechanism doesn't work long term, but great for that quick perspective shift.

Great stuff. If your not happy, just force all these habits into your life. No fighting, kicking or screaming. Just do it. 1-be optimistic 2-graditude 3-let things go 4-live in the present 5-live aligned to value and authentic self 6-self love and confidence 7-focus on wins 8-resilience and self forgiveness 9-sorround yourself with happy people 10- happy people give back 11-creativity 12-meditation 13-get enough sleep 14-exercise <<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<< START HERE, especially if your a INFP. 15-laugh often

lol i know what you mean. What i think is happening is the sexual energy is naturally being transmuted to other things. Maybe this comes from not needing a woman or a relationship. Being independent and comfortable single. Being single and not realizing your single, is when you've got it. Having a passion and interests that consume that energy.

Has anyone tried this? If the DMT is released at the same time DMT would naturally be released by the brains deep sleep cycle. Could this have a benefit? Could some one trip during sleep and still finish there sleep cycle (sleep another 6 hours) then wake up naturally? Could this soften the DMT trip exhaustion? Or deepen the experience? Stealth Incognito Tripping.

Zoom out, there is a life cycle to a relationship. Acknowledge the impermanence of what a relationship is, fully accept that. Appreciate the time you have together.

I didn't need to breath, I only did so out of pure stupidity and ego!

This. Most important component. Befriend them, step one.

I was wrong. Shortly after this thread was started i met a 13 year old at the park where i train. We instantly hit it off and bonded, at some point the conversation went to SD he immediately latched onto the idea and began exploring it. We started by making simple distinction in the population, classifying people, behavior and ideas into stages. After he got a grasp of this he began exploring things on his own, constantly asking question for months. We explored perspective switching, moral relativism, systems thinking, 3rd/4rth person perspectives, ego awareness, personality types, life is a dream philosophy, self-development, body building, emotional mastery, communication intelligence. He was/is very quick and enthusiastic about all of it. Rapidly absorbing and applying everything i introduce him to. Not sure how this 13 year old found me, but he hit the developmental lottery lol. Typed as a INFJ. In the matter of a month or so, his behavior and self awareness significantly changed that the parents commented on it. It all started with conversation on SD, that strongly peaked his interest and unlocked his higher self. It seems SD has a magic to it. The unavoidable things that happened along this journey: - He placed himself at yellow, i let it be that way, as a way to help him identify with his higher self, i didn't see a need to correct this. He eventually self corrected this belief a few weeks later, but still strongly idealizes yellow and turquois. - He struggled abit to understand how hitlers actions came from a place of love from hitlers perspective. A conflict of what he things is right and how what is right is relative. It eventually clicked on its own. He is still confused on how rape and murder is self love and perfectly right from the perspective of the rape and murderer. Needs constant re-explanation. A relativism issue, that i need to play with more. - He will default and flip flop between a 13 year old thought process and higher self. Depending on mood, emotions at this age completely send him into a regression. Forgets to zoom out, likely a issue caused by not enough practice, no life experience and brain not finished developing. - His attention span is more focused on what hes interested in exploring at any moment and not what i want to teach him. So i go with the flow of his interests and drive the conversation to the most relevant insights. This might be a effective teaching strategy. Class exploration, general chats, teach them what most peaks there interest. - He will just reject things if hes not emotionally interested in. If i try to force a subject on him to explore, its fully ignored. When hes emotionally interested, the fireworks go off, creative exploration.

@Preety_India yes it feels like a rush of optimism. "What have i been doing up until now? It was all so simple all along."

Oh no the desire is no longer there, freedom. Its like a child is not thinking about sex.

A random guy with no knowledge of the experiment is sat in a room, maybe having a casual chat with another guy in the room, who asks him how he feels at key moments. In another room there are a group of people 10+ who can see him vai a 1 directional window. They are told that guy is terrible, shown crimes he committed (fake), negative thoughts about that guy are put into them and they are incentivized to feel negative or positive way about him. The guy in the window is tested to see if he feels anything or if his experience changes. Has this experiment been done before? Will the sudden change in feelings of a group of people directed towards another person have a measurable impact? Or is it to systemically subtle to measure in this experiment format? Would be cool if we could prove energy transfer for interpersonal systems that is direct. Has no science been conducted on this? Is it still to advanced for the current altitude?

It depends, everyone is different. If i don't ejaculate for a week, ill loss all interest in sex and ejaculation, i wont notice attractive women around me. The switch is completely turned off. It does the opposite of anxiety and stress, it gives mental clarity and high focus/motivation, deeper sleep, colors are brighter. Sex is just another object in awareness, give it less attention and its forgotten. For other men it spikes their sexual desire to an unlivable tortuous degree. Its really an issue of not being able to just let it go. They are stuck in a mind loop of sex or it could be a build up of zinc in the body, the body is trying to get rid of it.

At around the 6-7 time ill be shooting blanks. No fluids, just pulsing. Did you experience this?

INTJ and INFJ are often misdiagnosed with autism. They are also most likely type to have child hood mystical experiences. Ni dominant.

Jesus buy me a private jet. A large portion of Low Orange is religious, Bro culture is a good example, fast cars and gold crosses.

High intensity Exercise. 3-6 hours a day. Will flush out toxins in the brain that build up during waking hours + increased blood flow.