integral

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  1. Its possible hes leading a lot of does girls on with out realizing hes doing so, but they likely friend zone him quick enough, so i wouldn't worry about it. A friend of mine is the same way, they just get dopamine from it and small talk is as necessary as oxygen to them. Hes getting his needs met, to limit him is probably a mistake. Just got to accept that hes getting his dopamine hit from it and you dont.
  2. This is not me, relatively speaking lol
  3. The trick to blinding memorizing everything to pass a test is to create flashcards of questions and answers based on all your notes for a subject. Then run does flashcards into a spaced repetition algorithm until you get 100% recall score for everything. This works because its the equivalent of creating a practice test based on all your notes and then practicing on that test everyday.
  4. @Kubia The first relationship is a INTP + ESTJ pairing, its the most common marriage mistake. Avoid. Down the line if you break up and have kids, you'll be left with a person your stuck dealing with for the rest of your life and ESTJs tend to have strong double standards and "my way or the high way" approach to separated parenting. Dive deeper into girl 1 to see what her values are and how she would raise a child for example, see the clear differences and try to predict down the line all the topics you'll disagree on. Its likely your values don't match and she values stuff you don't care about and the issue will be that she will push strongly to get her way, while the INTP tends to just give up with peoples bullshit.
  5. How will society/government look like when AI replaces all jobs? We will have to evolve beyond the need for an economy or how we think of economy will be nothing like it is today. Economy will be a tool that creates and distributes resources by AI for the collective.
  6. Develop empathy and understanding, the gentle men is derived from that. Its not an act.
  7. We need to funnel all our wealth the most wise people on the planet, not warren buffet.
  8. Makes sense, but i think the title is pointing to people will provide no value to the current economic system.
  9. Its been over 5 years now that I've stopped brushing my teeth and I've noticed no difference, i do have a good tongue and finger cleaning habit right after every meal to get it all off the teeth. Is brushing teeth a myth we have been thought by the social matrix? There is likely some truth to keeping teeth clean but maybe its been marketed and over exaggerated. Water mouth rinsing + tongue and finger scrapping habits after a meal is probably all someone needs. Good mouth maintenance habits are entirely not thought or spoken of and are replaced with "brushing teeth" paradigm. Thoughts?
  10. Time skipped to Mr.Girl Felt Violated Story, 9 minute segment. Frustration with tier 1 inability to step outside of its own shoes and fully take on another persons perspective. But he communicated it with little strategy to help her understand him. He just stood his ground inflexibly with violent communication habits. Sounds like a green move to me.
  11. For a lot of guys this would cause trauma, even if they consented to it.
  12. These personality type models are tools to help you create your own internal models and distinctions of people. Personality types cannot be learned by reading it from a book, it’s learned by applying the tool. Just like you can’t learn much about piano from a book. It’s learned from practice and experience. The map is not the territory because you are the territory, you’re constructing it on the fly.
  13. Body scan penis and feel the heart beat pumping into it.
  14. When he realizes he’s bad in bed he will get his shit together. Sounds like he’s just completely unaware right now because you guys don’t communicate properly. It’s not about buying a sex toy and telling him to use it, there needs to be a full conversation on the topic, he needs to understand the entire situation. And all the options he has available to him to satisfy you. Another issue is that this topic is something you’re avoiding to communicate, it scares you to talk about and you have very pessimistic predictions of the outcome. Maybe this stems from not being able to communicate your needs or expecting your needs not to be met by a partner. Expecting a partner not to take your needs into consideration.
  15. https://www.tiktok.com/@xoradmagical/video/7046972905338572038 A friend experiences the above regularly. Multiple talking voices as a thought stream, understands all of the at the same time. Its stress. Im lost to how something like this comes about or how to treat it. How could the mind get to this point???
  16. Did you laugh or smile during the date?
  17. The way its thought in school and in the media is just a sales pitch. Just the fact that the option exists and women are being thought it in school at the age of 14 is a massive marketing move that no one seems to acknowledge. Im not a big believer in incentivizing children into taking hormone pills. Does it really make sense to be on the pill for the rest of your life if you don't notice the side effects? Does it cause mental health problems? What are the real pros/cons?
  18. "I want to die peacefully in my sleep like my grandfather, not screaming in terror like his passengers" -Jack Handey
  19. @Opo The diet is a healthy one, no processed foods/sugar, but there is natural sugar is many things. Its a autopilot process of using tongue to clean mouth and rinsing with water that is then swallowed. Its done while multitasking other things. Using the things i have to clean the mouth instead of tooth paste or tooth brushes. Im not seeing how tooth paste and a tooth brushes is superior to a tongue or a finger.