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Go to where high consciousness women are more likely to go, do not waist your time approaching random women on the streets. Where are they likely to go? Maybe yoga classes or spiritual retreats? For online dating pick a site that attracts more conscious people like okcupid not tinder. This should be intuitive, contemplate why you didnt realize tinder attracts low consciousness people. When on a better site only match with woman that have spiritual or self-development somewhere in there profile. Don't waist a second of time with any other women, the only people you are compatible with are into self-development and they will always write it into there profile because its the center of there lives, so that easily filters out 90% of people. Stop playing games, hold yourself to a higher standard of deeper contemplation. Obviously your being biased and generating a emotionally charged perspective, identify and catch your-self when you do this, then take it to the next level. ? --- We all experienced this, dated alot of random women and learned from experience what we want and what we dont want. I dated the beautiful BPD as well, it was hell. It was all a learning experience and preparation for the real mature relationship that will come. Imagine if you never had does experiences, you would be completely unprepared and emotionally immature for that great woman that is coming next. It was all necessary. So dont take resentment, the reality from the start was you where not mature yet, so you attracted immature people. Now that youve been to war and grown up youll be able to identify and allow the mature woman into your life. Zoom out and look at your life path then compare and identify other peoples life paths, there is a predictable pattern. What you thought was top tier woman at 19 is not what your think a top tier woman is today and it is not what you will think a top tier woman is in 30 years from now. Everything is evolving, constantly changing based on our vantage point. The over emphasis on beauty is the most limiting blind spot men have. Introspect and grow until you can over come it.
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Its a misconception that empaths need to tune into only the negative parts of other peoples experience. If you have the ability to tune into the negative then you can tune into the positive.
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integral replied to Someone here's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
Every synchronicity can be explained with a understanding of interconnected systems and the complexity that arises from it. I personally have no experiences with glitch's, saying its a glitch is like a caveman calling fire magic. Its a interpretation based on there limited vantage point. -
integral replied to joelpires's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
I dont need a reason or a insight about what happens after death to be ready to die. It comes from experiencing enough of this life to be satisfied. its like eating alot of chocolate at some point you just don't need to continue eating it as you full and dont need anymore. Enlightenment is like being so full on life you no longer need to take in any more, your satisfied, so death is effortless. -
? Women that are not my ethnicity all look identical to me. The differences being physical health. What is "high value" is relative.
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Well if I moved to Korea id be extremely popular because I'm not Korean. In Korea they grew up mostly exposed to Korean faces and mannerisms and learn patterns from of attraction from that. Making them unconsciously more forgiving to different ethnicities.
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@hlo_world I think the main point Jordan made is you have to do the work everyday to get results. Leo covers this topic thoroughly in these videos.
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Chilli: Potato, Beans, Rice, Vegetables, Tomato sauce, Pressure Cooker.
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Partially True. There is part of our biology that yearns for athleticism and with out it addiction like smoking are used to satisfy that basic human need.
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The forum is not a place to blindly push red pill ideology (coming from frustration and resentment) with a unwillingness to learn.
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One reason is trying something new for the first time creates a lot of anxiety as you don't know what to expect. A good strategy is to stop vaping it and instead plug, this way you can control how much your taking. From there start with 1mg so you get a feel of how it will effect you, to get comfortable with it. This lowers anxiety and fear. Then the next day or week try 3mg, then 5mg, slowly increase the amount until your "ready" for more.
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integral replied to Actualising's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
Yes, you can think with out language or sound entirely, with only images. Or you can think with out images or language and just work with the raw intuition of knowing what your thinking about with out a symbolic representation. Try to think with out subvocalizing, it helps when your in a calm state to practice this like late at night. -
It depends where your at in life, if you 20 and pursuing a career then relationships seems far less important and your keeping your self busie all day. If your at home doing nothing or comfortable with your life situation then its easy to start to become lonely and seek a relationship.
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Want to share. I think they are a victim of there own framing of reality. Its like living in a hunted house and there's 2 ways to look at it, your a victim or YOUR the predator. The right mindset when in a hunted house is "I AM the danger, the ghosts are scared of ME"
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In this situation you had to bring up the idea of you guys dating. Not everything has to be a mystery, clear communication is a thing.
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Got to select the part of the text you want to quote, then a new quote button will pop up.
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How DIET Affects Your Brain & Mental Health | From A Former Schizophrenic | Bioenergetic Nutrition --- @LSD-Rumi I suspected this for a while, when I eat certain foods that i think trigger a histamine reaction i get way more uncontrolled mind chatter. Have you tried fasting for 24 hours, how does that effect your mind chatter?
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?unconscious people attract unconscious people I am 100% sure its the she was not hooked properly, I dont like using the word hooked doe its simply forming a good connection and impression on her. By the time your kissing she should of opened up to you about her entire life and feel comfortable talking to you about anything. If you showed her your value she would of stuck around. Your value is not your status or money, all this is superficial, your value is she loves talking to you, she knows she can trust you, she always feels good when your around. Showmanship is not it. It can work to get shallow results but its a gimmick. Its important to always go deep into conversation dont idle in small talk and expect results. Its a balance between humor and a sense that the conversation is meaningful. She has to feel like something meaningful happend when she spoke to you.
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Teenagers and collage kids have non of that and are banging like rabbits. Its all relative.
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Notice how emotionally biased people become when they dont get what they want. ?
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If you focus on the clouds can you change the pattern that you see? Have you tested if you can control what you see with concentration or continues effort?
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Eating window: 11pm - 3pm Sleep: 9pm No Fap Exercise 2 hours right after eating small meal at 11 pm Eat final meal at 2:30pm Meal 1: Lentil Pasta, asparagus, pesto. Meal 2: Raw Spinach, Bell Pepper, Tomato, Carrot + more Lentil Pasta. Eat Huge Final Meal only when hungry.
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Take a sample of her DNA and genetically engineer pheromone cologne to match her biology. Irresistible.
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When you date there best friend. Irresistible.
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@StarStruck Ive seen you work hard on this for over a year now, your the most hard working guy I know on this topic, its impressive, the theory and insights are on point but its time to get results! I know you can do it, at some point you got to let go of the theory and that theory vision and get changes in perception from life experience. When actually sleeping and dating these women changes in personality will occur, you'll be way more relaxed, confident and authentic, its possible Joe Dispenza can help but what your really looking for is direct experience changing you. Its true I was ignoring stages of relationship development people have to move through in order. Expecting people to skip stages doesn't makes sense. Also ?man you'll learn real quick how unimportant it is to date a 10. Its a ridiculous pickiness that only beginners care about, in practice her looks wont give you the relationship of your dreams. How can you date someone if you cant talk to them about your insights, wisdom, random ideas you have? Theses girls at clubs especially in there 20s are not at your level, there very immature and cant handle basic conversations, they take everything personally. Right now you want the 10 because you dont know what you want because people learn what they want from experience dating. With no experience its all a naïve dream. Its likely you'll be much happier with someone who is on the self-development path as you, if there not its like dating a child. On top of that in practice there is a lot of random factors that cant be controlled or predicted that determine compatibility. So being overly selective doesnt work with out really knowing what you want from years of life experience dating. Intuition needs to be built.
