Kiko

We Humans we are so fucked up.. I feel sorry for what you are going through right now. I just wanted to say that i am most attracted to girls who hurt me emotionally, tend to fall for them every fucking time.

No, i havent confessed my feelings. However she knows that i like her so even if i confess what would be the benefit of that..

Something that Leo said here in this forum and really hit was something like that "attraction is not logical phenomena`` and "menkind are selfish animals" . Theese two thing really hit me and i just started to think how i can make people like me using this knowledge...

Guys i really strugle with holding conversation and especialy with people that i dont know or barely know. Sometimes i avoid greeting someone that i know because i just dont know what to say.. What are the things that i have to work and and maybe techniques that i could implement in order to get good and holding conversation going. I will apreciate your comments and opinions

Thank you for the comments so far guys. I will apreciate further discussion aswell

I am from Bulgaria. Its not common girls to pick up guys, although it can happen. P.S. Actually my coworker get approached by women pretty often. However i dont know how many men in the world have this kind of gens: Height 198 Big muscles Handsome face Money

Max Tornow is presenting himself as a business guru which can help you build your ``online freedom business``. This pictures are the type of marketing that he is using to sell this dream lifestyle to his clients.

Can i play some spiritual music in the background? What is the expiriance, can you explain it in some way?

Hey guys, My best friend has a girl best friend ( not girlfriend ) which i really like. Last 2 months we have been hanging out couple of times with a girl and my friend and we got pretty close. My friend is always trying to get the girl and me together, he is making me to pursue her and said that she likes me because she told him so. I showed her that i like her sexually and the funny thing is that every time i try to get intimate with her she rejects me. I dont think i am in her friend zone because i haven't gave her a reason to friendzone me. Sometimes she is flirting with me and sometimes she is playing bitchy. I cannot stop thinking about her but i think that she is playing with me and i have to give up. Should i keep hanging out with her when she or my friend invite me, when going out togheter, or i should cut contact with her and let her go.

Okay quick update: The bitch flaked as i expected so i cut her lose...

Agree

This time i will go for a kiss for sure..

Yeah sure, i know that dinner as a first date is not good idea

Guys quick update: yesterday i was with mu best friend and her and my friend forced me to text her and said that i didnt show 100% intent and she might be confused. i texted her everything went fine and set a date for the next week this time 1on1 ( this will be the first time 1on1 with her) this time i will be direct I will come with update if smth happens

I didnt want to push very hard but that might be the thing that i had to do....

Its funny because everytime which i hold eye contact with her she start gigling and ask me why i am watching at her. Actually she is letting me touching his hips but could that be that she just dont want to be rude to take of my hand?

Should i push her when we are alone even if she is pulling away a bit?

She is allowing me to touch her body but she is kinda neutral. Should i go for the kiss if she doesnt reciprocate my touching and she is neutral most of the times? Should i look her in the eyes when we are alone and tell her that i want her?

My personal opinion is YES IT WORKS, but you have to know what you do. I personaly don't have sucess. Friend of mine ( he is short but good looking) has sucess with Tinder and Instagram, its easy for him to arrange date with unfamiliar girls just from tinder and insta. He found his current girlfriend with instagram (she is good looking and smart)

Okay, but what if you are working full time job and your LP requires working on it after work?

Before while ago friend of mine introduced me to a very cute girl (which is very good friend of him) he told me that we would be very good couple. For a period of time he was planting a thought in my brain that she is exactly the girl for me, she is very cute and smart etc and it is the best option for me. (HE WAS SAYING THESE SAME THINGS ABOUT ME TO HER) As the time goes we hanged out couple of times and i started to like this girl very much (i think there is smth to do with the brainwashing he did to me). One night we were alone in the car and i decided that that was the perfect moment for kiss. I got closer to her but i saw that she got quite uncormftable and i left her. Since attraction cant be faked how to accept the fact that she doesn't like me sexually. Its not her fault that doesn't like me its mine.... How to stop judgeing myself for she not liking me, and how to accept the fact that she doesnt want me....

Hey guys, band aid Let me tell you my story. I am 26 years old male. Everything started 2012 when i was 17 years old. I had been struggling with ocd for my entire life ( i didnt go to the therapist i diagnosed myself) my brother and my father also suffer from ocd. In this year my ocd got pretty intense i was obsesed with a thought that if somebody touches me it has to touch me again in order to reverse the magic (basecly i was imagining that if somebody touches me i will have no luck till the end of my life in he doesnt touch me again and i will fail in everything). I know it sounds weird but only people with ocd will understand me. This particular ritual was so painful and it was so draining that i decided to stop and said to myself enough is enough. i will no longer follow this compulsions because if i do that i will follow them till the rest of my life. The problem was that before i commited to that i hadn't reversed the last magic, ritual made by one guy who touched me, and didnt touch me again. So i was left with dark magic in myself. The thought says that this dark magic left in me will make me ugly, i will fail in everything, i will be misrable till the end of my life if this guy doesnt touch me again in order to stop that. I was thinking, Ok this thought will wear off for sure. However as the years go by this thought wasnt going away, it was always present, everytime when i am failing at something the though just got bigger and bigger. And i really got uglier than before prove of this is that before this event i was cute boy who was liked by girls, really, girls in high school use to approach me often and i didnt suffer from attention from girls. Since the event i havent been with a single women, i repel every girl which i try to interact with. And every time when i get rejected guess what, the thought is here. Rejection is always very painful, because i connect it with the thought and the belief. I tried alot of things new Belief systems, Self development, Law of attraction, working on myself, making a lot of friends, partying, but somehow i realized that these things cannot fix the problem, they just put band aid over it. The thought says that if i want to be my old self i have to spoil the magic this particular guys touch me one more time. I still know the guy but i am embarassed to ask him to do that. This belief tortures me for 9 years right now, i ve been suffering with depressions and suicidal thoughts. The last event that triggered me to write this in the forum ad share my story was because of rejection of a girl that i really like who rejected me. it is so painful to feel that again. I guess i will die alone and missrable.

could psychedelics help me heal that wound. And what kind of psychedelics?

What if i find the person and put end of all of this. Will that happen if he touch me, would that be the end of this torture. What do you thing?

Hey guys, I think its time to admit that i am not good with girls and dating. Ive been lying to myself that has noting to do with me, but obviosly it has. Right now i am 26 years old, educated and smart guy (passioant about personal development and spirituality) with decent job, former football player. Altetic body 1,88 cm hegiht, not the most attractive male i guess but i consider myself good looking, consider myself with pretty good humor. I have a lot of friends (some of them rich) i dont lack social connections, people like me for company, i dont struggle attracting friends. I have very little experiance with girls(in terms of intimate relationship). Every new interaciton that i start with a girl even if she is interested in the begining is finishing very quicly, very often getting nowhere. Obviosly there is something in me that repels women. I used to say to myself that its their fault, but ive met really cool and smart girls( no superficial ones, i dont like them) some of them not extremly atractive like 7, but still very cute and smart. Somehow they also end up not interested. Even girls which are obviously far away from me in terms of level, they also end up not interested. I have to be honest, with some of them i would be embarassed to go out, this is how better than them i am. I really dont know what is wrong, I have a lot of friends, people like me for company, i dont struggle attracting friends. I grew up with pretty bad social anxiety, and i still have to the certain extent. However that doesnt stop me to being cool around people and have friends. In high school i was liked by lots of girls, really they used to aproach me and text me very fucking time without even moving my finger. I didnt take advantage of any of those ofcourse because i was very shy with poor social skills. I REALLY REFLECT ON ME AND TRY TO FIND WHAT IS WRONG WITH ALL OF THAT. Dont tell me may be you are too nice with girls. No i am not, not asshole aswell. I will apreciate your comments on that. I want to take full responasbility and not crying and blaming others like a liitle bitch!