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  7. Posted

    Incels seem to fundamentally believe they are victims, which would mean they are fundamentally wrong about attracting women.They love to throw around the word "can't" when talking about attracting women.

    There is a YouTube channel called Squirmy and Grubs, where the guy is like 4 foot tall and in a wheelchair, in a loving relationship with a beautiful woman. If literal disabled people can attract, so can a so-called incel. 

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    The title is kind of misleading, she's not making me consider a relationship, I'm doing the considering all on my own. 

    After my first week of serious game, doing night game every night of the week except for one or two nights, a girl came and stayed at my place on Saturday. 

    She is gorgeous, has one of those fierce work ethics, and overall has a good vibe. 

    I moved into a big city a month ago to start my life away from my parents, and also open myself up to the pleasure of sex and socialisation, and soften my tense personality through pickup. Coming out here I was certain I wouldn't even think about a relationship. 

    It's not like I'm obsessed with this girl (I'm going on a date with a different, beautiful Columbian girl on Monday) but she's definitely made me reconsider whether I want to be with just one person. 

    I have a feeling this is the most common trap of all, considering a relationship with my first pull lol. What do you guys think?

     

  11. Posted

    I have a very difficult relationship with my brother. 

    He is older than me, perhaps this attributes to his tendency to give unsolicited advice, fairly constantly to me. I find myself being extremely frustrated with him when he does this, as he assumes he knows better than me, when I really don't think he does.

    He strikes me as a very entitled person, he is fairly successful for his age, making a career in the fine art industry work well for him. But he is very comfortable with financial support from my parents, the government etc. It's as though he feels he is entitled to it. 

    He came into the kitchen whilst I was cooking for my work day the next day, and decided he would voice his concern about my cooking keeping him awake. I was admittedly blunt and cold in my response to him, but he was quite clearly trying to get me to apologise to him or stop cooking. Man's gotta eat. He just stood there yelling at me trying to get a response from me, so I just resorted to 'I don't care, go away'. 

    This is a recurring theme in our relationship. He tries to get me to change a behavior I think is justified, he pokes and prods, I tell him I'm not interested, he remains upset.  

     

    The reason I think I may be a narcissist is because I think my life would be way better if he wasn't involved. I don't think I'd be bothered if he never spoke to me again. 

  19. Posted

    No one has really come out with a legitimate reason to not be vaccinated. If there was a good reason to not get the vaccine then go ahead.

    Thimerosal is found in some vaccines and you don't want that in your body, but we are in the middle of a pandemic and mercury can be detoxes, so in my opinion it's not even a good argument in this case.

    My issue with the whole anti-vax movement is that they have bastardised insights from the field of mercury chelation (e.g. how mercury can cause an autism diagnosis), and the weaponised them to boycott all vaccines. This is a very simplistic way of looking at the topic.

  23. Posted

    Also, Leo is dead right about being observational when opening. This is a game changer. I have undoubtedly confirmed this in my own experience. 

    One of my friends was having approach anxiety, I pointed him in the direction of a girl in white linen or hemp pants and told him to tell her her pants look like they're made from weed (weed, hemp, get it? Lol so dumb ik). Like 5-10 minutes later he was making out with her. 

    Throw comfort questions like "what are you studying?" out the window, and replace them with something like "you look like you study... Psychology". This will get the ball rolling so much more effectively. 

  24. Posted

    On 05/12/2021 at 3:19 PM, Thought Art said:

    What are some tips for getting better at socializing at social events or loud places where groups of people drink and laugh and dance. I was at a staff party tonight and it was a lot of fun, fancy etc... I work in a pretty upper class environment.

    I did dance, and I socialized with my table but I would have liked to walk up to other tables and just start talking to people but I felt like that was too awkward and scary. That I wanted to sit down, but also deeply wanted to just sit by myself.

    The server was super cute... I felt like I could have made more eye contact with her. I could tell she was attracted to me. I was with her as well aha.

    I have long noticed that at the end of a social party I can often feel a deep loneliness, awkwardness and out of placeness. It's a total illusion I think if I just let go and flowed. I am fun, likeable and attractive but... This has long been a sticking point.

    Tips or questions?

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    I've had this issue as well. When you go out, bad nights happen in my experience, but ultimately approaching people is what will build your mood. 

    Just keep approaching until you're on cloud nine, and then you will just flow and feel awesome. You'll think to yourself "how am I being so smooth". 

    Also like put some effort into your grooming and outfit, if you're wearing a monster energy drink t-shirt don't bother approaching a girl. 

  25. Posted

    I don't lift weights, Ive never tracked my calories. 

    I do Classical Hatha yoga and BJJ to stay healthy, and occasionally rock climb. 

    I try not to get wrapped up in chasing protruding abs and having big arms, but when I look in the mirror that's all I'm really doing it for. 

     

    My actions say that I am working out and eating well to feel capable, energetic, alive and at ease, but I'm not sure if that is my true belief. 

    What about you?