Devi Shanti

I mean you aren't paying for drinking the tea. You are paying for electricity, water, cleaning, food and other material things you will need for having the experience with Ayahuasca in safety and confort.

Yes they are. Only affiliates pay a tax for maintenance of the organizations, just like any other religions around the world. What is not allowed is having a business of Ayahuasca, for example. It can't be for lucrative purposes.

Actually only Ayahuasca is allowed. Not synthetic DMT.

@Leo Gura yeh... But this term sounds weird for me when we are talking about a couple's relationship. How could one of both leader it? The way it works in my marriage is I follow him on what he is better than me and he follows me in what I am better then him. It's a game of mutual inspiring and following. We are both leader and follower of the other

@ajasatya

@Spiral you can't change people, but you can inspire them to changing that's the magic thing I change myself all the time for the good of my relationship and I appreciate that my husband also does this. This is what make us grow up together.

Yeh, @FuriousGeorge that's a good point focusing on the root Chakra. @Chakra Lion I suggest you to do a kundalini yoga program focused on muladhara. Pompousness is also an excellent source

@Chakra Lion Sometimes we go deep through mental delusions when we are actually needing to take care of our physical health. You didn't lost you interest in sex because of your spiritual path or some transcendental thing. It's much more probable you have less testosterone then you had in the past and yes it's a problem. If your wife loves you, she will do whatever she can for not hearting you and be sure if she got to the point of having this conversation with you it's because she is bordering her limit. If I were in your shoes, I would have a serious search about testosterone decreasing and how to recover high levels of if and also go to a doctor to make some hormonal tests. There are many types of supplements you could add to you diet. Also physical exercises are very important. Good luck!

Yeh, I know.. that's why I pointed my view, for them to know we are different. It's a pity if they find us exhausting If I were a man, I would find it an amazing challenge!

Honestly I would not take this type of compliments in a good way... I find it intrusive. I would find it more interesting if he gave me a gift and complimented me, like giving me a lipstick and saying he imagined it would highlight my beautiful lips that he loves so much or something like this.

If you would like she to be more feminine, don't make her feel non feminine, but highlight what she already has of feminine traces. Make it clear for her that you love these things on her and make compliments using adjectives like "feminine", "gracious", "delicate" and associate them with how do you see them, like "exciting", "sensual", "sexy", "lovely". This attitude and words will transmit her this message of valuing her femininity because she will know it pleasure you. Keep in mind feminine ego is your friend in this moment. Give her gifts for her to wear what you would like to see on her. Besides this, make sure you are being enough "masculine" around her. Strong woman tent to have no difficulties on taking initiative in relationships, even when their men should be doing it. So, take initiatives, be the man of the relationship. It is much more easy and natural for a woman to be feminine when there is someone doing the man's role appropriately.

A good tip is keeping the provocative atmosphere. Don't only approach her when you are really about to have sex, but be around her sometimes during the day. Some hugs, kisses, provocative words... And then get away as nothing much had happened It will help keeping the flame active because you will be making hormones work and giving space to imagination. This "thriller" put some piece of emotion and stimulate sexual desire for both.

@Finland3286 amazing ?

@Finland3286 cool! Thanks for the update and congratulations for your courage ?

its size matters nothing if you don't know how to use it well. By the way, too long penises can hurt girls. You better have a short one and do a good job than keep this obsession that can cause you injuries.

A self actualizing woman would like to learn new things. Studying some subjects (reading, listening to talks etc), looking for self knowledge (also reading, meditating etc) and taking care of her physical health (diet focused on nutrition (not only in calories), physical exercises etc). She would not be obsessed with physical beauty, but would probably look good because she is healthy and loves life. It doesn't mean she would never use any make up or a beautiful dress, but she will probably prefer comfortable clothes most of the time.

@Finland3286

I can't see how spirituality is apart from having a family. For me, being married and having a family is an authentic spiritual path. Maybe you should try reconciling interests ☺️ Also, one thing to have in mind is that for women, this decision of having babies weight hard in the balance because we only are able to achieve it until certain age. Imagine that you are a girl and you started a relationship when you were young and didn't think about having babies yet. Then you are older and still in the same relationship and your guy doesn't think about it. If he decides he doesn't wanna children and you want, you still will need time for finding someone after the break up, consolidating this new relationship and then having babies with this person. Time is precious!

Well, since it is a long distance relationship, you two guys have to be very aligned in your expectations for this relationship and life, because things like what you are telling us (feeling sexual attraction and strong connection with other people) can happen, and to remain together, your connection has to be stronger. You could make a list (it can be written or mental) of what you really expect and need from a partner and a relationship. It would help you to see clearer if this relationship you are in worth it or not. I had an experience similar to yours. I was engaged to a guy and we were together for like 2 years and a half, then I was admitted in a university in another state and moved. In the begging I missed him very much, but passed some months, I felt an emotional distance and lack of mental connection. When we met on vacations I felt it was different. We had plans for moving together etc and then he wasn't pleasant to talk about this anymore. I had this commitment with him, but actually I felt really alone. At that period (about 6 months after I moved), I felt really alone, and that commitment to him started not making sense to me anymore. I didn't cheat on him, but I started felling very strong attraction to other men and I didn't have that mental resource "but my guy is better because this or that", because it was like we became so different from each other, that my mind and my body were looking for a stronger connection. We still stand in a long distance relationship for 1 year, but in the meantime I even felt in love with another guy (didn't take action), what made me realize that I had a giant absence of sharing love and that relationship wasn't providing me that anymore. Then we broke up. Maybe you can relate with my story, maybe not. But still, you have to be with someone who you share your priorities, dreams, passion, love with. If it lacks something essential in your relationship, it will be more and more evident with long distance and time.

You already have good pieces of advice here. Mine is be patient. Things like this doesn't heal that easy and fast and it's totally normal. But be sure it will pass. You can overcome it. Good look!

@Deepconcepts I agree that life is simple and I live a simple life and I enjoy it. I would really appreciate if you could be clearer on you explaining and believe I am an intelligent creature just like you what am I overcomplicating?

@Deepconcepts sorry, I didn't get you. What do you mean by things are simple under the surface?

Otherwise we would be in a jungle, where everybody and everything is all about primal necessities and the end. Maybe we are. And this explains a lot of the mess mankind is going through. But do we want to be on this stage forever? Sex is easy game, people. We can do much more than just that.

@Space people only talk about the reality they know. Each one has her or his own story to tell about life. I am telling mine, you are telling yours. I just don't think it's uplifting telling people things like they were absolute and from it you could understand there is no hope for true love and durable relationships. There is a world of possibilities where we can choose throw away precious people because they don't wanna have sex with us in the second date, or educating our sensibility to find the bright through the eyes of this person we are with, open our hearts and learn from this person, making this relationship be a way of self improvement and mutual fulfillment.