Galyna

@Shin @Terell Kirby @Tyler Durden @BenG @Nahm Here is what my understanding, correct me if I am wrong. My language is going to be dual, just to relay my message! There is only one Thing in existence, and this thing is Consciousness which is coming from nothingness. Nothingness cannot be imagined since our mind still holds a notion about this abstract phenomenon. Existence and non-existence are properties of your mind. Non-existence is impossible by default. There is only existence. Consciousness is infinitely creating Reality by imagining Reality into Being. This act is a pure imagination. I know it, read a lot of times, had experience of becoming “nothingness”. I also had experience of being unconscious under anesthesia, I had a lot of lucid dreams. What I was talking about is the following. For anything to exist at all, this thing should be imagined. Even though imagination is a primal quality of Reality, this is a foundation for you to be here, even as a game’s character! You need a screen to even exist, a container to hold so-called “Reality”. What I am telling you, that existence is impossible beyond this imagination. When consciousness imagines Reality into Being with this body-mind bundle it explores itself via various experience. Seems like time-space-dimension are a must for the imagination to go on, but they are only concepts. Also, if you are imagining another Reality (where you can exist on a different level as consciousness, even in a resting state) on top of this reality, this is just another layer, which is unnecessary. Truth lies within the direct experience; it is here and now, the rest are just thoughts.

Then they are generated by what?

Because an ego is on the way to a harmonious union. You have to be really developed to have that kind of relations. It is harder than life. Been there, done that. Not working. It is not your responsibility, it is their responsibility to recognize the destructive patterns they hold, which are in tern, prevent you from your dream relationships. Sure, there is a lot to it, because your ego is constantly being tested, it is not that simple. I fall every day, every day! I do something very sloppy, I promise to try harder next time, I have to get up and walk again. I fall again, I get mad and angry, I cry... Sometimes I have to work on the same pattern 1000 times before I achieve results. It requires emotional labor. It hurts, it is painful. Self-development within the realm of the human relations is not an easy game.

Man is a human being, he does not need to jump over the head to prove something to other people. Man should act as a normal human being first, with regard if he has a penis or not. Basic rules can be applied to any human relationships, whether it is intimate or friendships. Respect, integrity, compassion, transparency, ability to recognize and see one's motives....etc.

Please show me any spiritually inclined woman (your female counterpart, your soulmate) that will have these kind of thoughts in her mind (to kill herself if you leave her). Why would you be with a partner who shows any kind of co-dependency? Addiction, huh? Your audience might take you too literally.

You will get a lot of different answers about this one. Each person has a different background and preferences. Women are NOT afraid of men, they have various issues that evokes different fears that pertain the relationships with men. 1: What exactly does a man provide for you? Why are men so " Awesome"? It is a polarity that I am attracted to, masculine nature. I can provide for myself, so can you. 2: What does make a man a creep/ scary? Inconsistency with words and actions, lack of integrity. 3: What is the most important thing a man can do to not make women feel afraid but safe? ( if you have to go down to one word, to the essence). He should truly love her, with all his heart.

From what I have read, it does not relate to Enlightenment. It is a deviation from the norm. It can affect a lot of areas of your life, including loss of memory, it heavily impacts your cognitive abilities. I would not want to have this. You can also develop this condition during the life course.

How do I differentiate between "mine" and "his" in this situation? Where do "I" start and at which point does he finish?

Thanks for your comment. I get this but it is the nature of the mind to retain memory and make conclusions based on the events. With all this being said, each person might see situation differently, and ultimately each of us perceives this Reality through the stencil of our own perception.

Raising frequencies helps but even then ego manages to survive somehow.

Well, who are you looking for? You will find exactly that.

@Sempiternity you nailed it. now think about motion lol…that is what’s fascinating. How does it create the illusion of the past that slowly fuses with now, how does it connect moments, passages of time?

First of, it is not "his" decision. Reality plays out itself as is, and it is a dance of consciousness. Free will vs. fatalism is a duality, it assumes that there should be someone out there to will something into existence. But there is not an entity there who writes a script, aka God. Reality as is, expresses itself into being by "appearing" as a physical form, call it "free will". The guy who restricts sexual encounters is not separate from the physical reality with his own will, he is a part of it. On a level of a human being he does not have a choice, it is an illusion.

Choice is illusion. Do not want to be rude but in your writing, it still feels as you are operating within a paradigm of holding control over your actions by allowing or restricting sex.

LOL, welcome to the club. Form is an illusion, eternity is a thought. Scary, huh? The deeper you go, the less you will be left with, at one point you will hit the wall and wont be able move using logic and language.

We have been communicating about this since this forum exists, the issue can not be resolved with human language. Simply, when you are in coma, deep sleep or under anesthesia, who is registering reality? Something does exist, call it "consciousness" but not in the way as you think. You are this Reality, it pops up when you wake up every morning, and it contains everything, including body, room, your bed, others... But again, I am using a human language to demonstrate it. If time and space are just concepts, reality can not pop up into existence! Simply because it does not have a ground for it. Therefore, it is an illusion, hallucination. There is nothingness and actuality this reality has never happened. That would be the right direction to go but it is mind blowing.

that will imply the notion of time again, close loop, you see?

This is a language paradigm, try to remove language and see if you still can describe reality. How would the reality be perceived without any language?

Physically reality as you know it doesn’t exist outside of the sensory perceptions.

You? Who? And if there is no body, is perceptual experience still possible? Time and space are just concepts.

A little hint: human language is limited in the pursuit of Truth. Nothing really has happened. Everything you wrote are just thoughts. You can not grasp the concept of illusory time with a human mind. As soon as mind wants to fathom it, it breaks, been there, tried it millions of time. If you could not speak, hear and write, what reality could you perceive? would there be a notion of time?

I do not claim anything, since it is impossible to measure.... My take on it: it is possible to have some glimpse of the divine, however, it can not fully realize itself for one apparent reason: and this reason is infinity, there is no end or beginning to it. Whatever your realization was...it is just a facet, one facet of the infinite creation.

Question time first, and you will find the answer.

Imagination happens, there is no one behind the scenes.

@Chi_ My brother-in-law died last week from free climbing. He was a preacher, 33 yo. I wonder about number 33.