Galyna

@Tyler Durden alter ego? Hahahah…. pls make a post about persistent non-symbolic experience. I can’t find much information about it, other than that by Dr. Martin.

The God is not what this word points to…many of us misuse this definition.

Guys, can you pls drop the word “God”? it is so misleading to people who are new on this forum. Mind twists this notions and it takes us further from what reality IS.

This is exactly how I feel… also, I don’t think there can be multiple POVs at all experiencing the world since those povs are not in my direct experience and the direct experience is all there is.

This post is a honey for my soul. Thanks ?

@tsuki Great, thanks for the feedback....

Another crazy synchronicity... I was driving the car last night, and your part 1 of these series popped up as a suggestion on my home page on the YT. So I am contemplating about part 1.

Sacred intimacy, or when two become one. Lately, I have been questioning this phenomenon a lot. Five years ago, before even knowing the concept of the twin flame I wrote an essay with my vision of sacred relationship. The main idea of the essay was to meet another being, aka myself through a masculine counterpart and transcend my ego which would lead me into spiritual enlightenment. Last year I met a guy who triggered a profound change within me and shook my whole entire life. By far it has been the most challenging relationship I have ever had in my life. It is a relationship with myself! it breaks my ego. Lesson I’ve learned: - To love myself - To get rid of the social limitations about the traditional relationship - To be in the present moment - There is no “I” Every time I interact with him, I have some huge profound epiphanies about masculine and feminine nature. The only question I have is about the nature of projection. It feels like my mind, being in love, can project a lot of my qualities onto the other Being. How do I catch it and not project? By just observing the experience of our relationship and go with the flow? Choice is illusion, is it all about spontaneity? I am recreating the person in my mind, idea about the guy, and every time I do this, he appears exactly as I am creating him. -----> This leads me to the biggest realization of my life, call it God mode: I am the Creator and the experience itself. Thank you for your help.

@Nahm It is going to be your response on every post of mine. I got it.... @Iesu yup

I've never mentioned the word "box" please read my post again. I wrote that everything is Consciousness.....which images Reality. Nothing and Everything are just dualities. I cant move any further with language.... @Terell Kirby the thing is that mind can not hold the paradox, it is going to break up my mind....this life/incarnation has never happened, time/space/3d are just illusions.

@tsuki How are you going to register the existence then in the state of "nothingness"?

@BipolarGrowth @Vincent S @Nahm @LastThursday Thanks for the comments...

@Shin @Terell Kirby @Tyler Durden @BenG @Nahm Here is what my understanding, correct me if I am wrong. My language is going to be dual, just to relay my message! There is only one Thing in existence, and this thing is Consciousness which is coming from nothingness. Nothingness cannot be imagined since our mind still holds a notion about this abstract phenomenon. Existence and non-existence are properties of your mind. Non-existence is impossible by default. There is only existence. Consciousness is infinitely creating Reality by imagining Reality into Being. This act is a pure imagination. I know it, read a lot of times, had experience of becoming “nothingness”. I also had experience of being unconscious under anesthesia, I had a lot of lucid dreams. What I was talking about is the following. For anything to exist at all, this thing should be imagined. Even though imagination is a primal quality of Reality, this is a foundation for you to be here, even as a game’s character! You need a screen to even exist, a container to hold so-called “Reality”. What I am telling you, that existence is impossible beyond this imagination. When consciousness imagines Reality into Being with this body-mind bundle it explores itself via various experience. Seems like time-space-dimension are a must for the imagination to go on, but they are only concepts. Also, if you are imagining another Reality (where you can exist on a different level as consciousness, even in a resting state) on top of this reality, this is just another layer, which is unnecessary. Truth lies within the direct experience; it is here and now, the rest are just thoughts.

Then they are generated by what?

Because an ego is on the way to a harmonious union. You have to be really developed to have that kind of relations. It is harder than life. Been there, done that. Not working. It is not your responsibility, it is their responsibility to recognize the destructive patterns they hold, which are in tern, prevent you from your dream relationships. Sure, there is a lot to it, because your ego is constantly being tested, it is not that simple. I fall every day, every day! I do something very sloppy, I promise to try harder next time, I have to get up and walk again. I fall again, I get mad and angry, I cry... Sometimes I have to work on the same pattern 1000 times before I achieve results. It requires emotional labor. It hurts, it is painful. Self-development within the realm of the human relations is not an easy game.

Man is a human being, he does not need to jump over the head to prove something to other people. Man should act as a normal human being first, with regard if he has a penis or not. Basic rules can be applied to any human relationships, whether it is intimate or friendships. Respect, integrity, compassion, transparency, ability to recognize and see one's motives....etc.

Please show me any spiritually inclined woman (your female counterpart, your soulmate) that will have these kind of thoughts in her mind (to kill herself if you leave her). Why would you be with a partner who shows any kind of co-dependency? Addiction, huh? Your audience might take you too literally.

You will get a lot of different answers about this one. Each person has a different background and preferences. Women are NOT afraid of men, they have various issues that evokes different fears that pertain the relationships with men. 1: What exactly does a man provide for you? Why are men so " Awesome"? It is a polarity that I am attracted to, masculine nature. I can provide for myself, so can you. 2: What does make a man a creep/ scary? Inconsistency with words and actions, lack of integrity. 3: What is the most important thing a man can do to not make women feel afraid but safe? ( if you have to go down to one word, to the essence). He should truly love her, with all his heart.

From what I have read, it does not relate to Enlightenment. It is a deviation from the norm. It can affect a lot of areas of your life, including loss of memory, it heavily impacts your cognitive abilities. I would not want to have this. You can also develop this condition during the life course.

How do I differentiate between "mine" and "his" in this situation? Where do "I" start and at which point does he finish?

Thanks for your comment. I get this but it is the nature of the mind to retain memory and make conclusions based on the events. With all this being said, each person might see situation differently, and ultimately each of us perceives this Reality through the stencil of our own perception.

Raising frequencies helps but even then ego manages to survive somehow.

Well, who are you looking for? You will find exactly that.

@Sempiternity you nailed it. now think about motion lol…that is what’s fascinating. How does it create the illusion of the past that slowly fuses with now, how does it connect moments, passages of time?

First of, it is not "his" decision. Reality plays out itself as is, and it is a dance of consciousness. Free will vs. fatalism is a duality, it assumes that there should be someone out there to will something into existence. But there is not an entity there who writes a script, aka God. Reality as is, expresses itself into being by "appearing" as a physical form, call it "free will". The guy who restricts sexual encounters is not separate from the physical reality with his own will, he is a part of it. On a level of a human being he does not have a choice, it is an illusion.