Galyna

this is exactly what I am saying here: This is how the illusion (maya) of the solid world has been creating “you” for a long time. It’s been creating “you” through the stencil of the perceiver and the perception.

I am so happy to help my forum friends. ☺️ Now, the next question is: why do we need pain to ascend?

Desire creates “you” and yearning along with this… This energy pushes you and makes you do something…. However, there is no you in this desire, remove the self. It is Lilla. Consciousness plays with itself by creating void within itself: (In your case the desire for a deep intimacy feels like a void, being incomplete without feminine energy). Your illusory self, in the absence of a partner, starts the journey, desire pushes you for a quest. Any void always wants to be filled (please be aware of the duality here: void vs full). First you create the void, then you are chasing to fulfil it, and your desire here serves you a purpose. It creates the demand. Once you are passionate about it, you are going on the journey, to find a woman. But do not you see how this Reality plays with Itself by creating scarcity, then by chasing it, then by accomplishing it. Hahahahahah. That is the game consciousness plays. Because it is infinitely bored. You are not a human being, my friend! Wake up! P.S. you will get your girl, no worries. Otherwise, if you have not.... you would not be desiring it so much, the secrets hides here.

No problem… I don’t believe in the law of attraction because I don’t believe in the self. What and who is going to attract the dream girl? You think you exist as a “doer” therefore you believe in a free will and effort you can make to attract a dream partner. You use language to describe the phenomenon of Reality or self. You are One, there is no other. the only way to “attract” is to realize and totally surrender to the fact that you might never meet such woman and then to accept this fact. It is truly not up to the illusory self how reality will unfold and appear, this is what it looks like when you are literally bowing down your head in front of the “unknown”. You surrender your deepest desire no matter how much it hurts. Bring your egoic self to the cross and give it away to the hands of “death”, no you , no dream girl. Give your self, your ego, otherwise your desire will drive you crazy. It is a very deep topic I need to write about it fully. Because you can’t just surrender and pretend it doesn’t hurt. It will hurt, so just observe the pain and let it die in your awareness, when your awareness high enough, it will trigger another spiral in awakening. You will become invincible. You will let go…then it will happen ? yes I am married and I have a son. When we met with my spouse we were 25. I didn’t even know about the concept of conscious coupling. I love him as a human being, but we both realize we are not a good match. So unfortunately, we are not soulmates. if I would be married to a soulmate, I would never step on a spiritual path…but pain pushes me to do the work.

@Someone here Yes and no, LOL. Both answers are true because it is a duality game. NO: There is no other, no other Self rather than this “your current” self, resting in the “present” moment. YeS: to play the polarity game: female/male duality, this Self/Awareness/Being/Reality through yearning and longing and manifestation can create the appearance that there is someone there for you, your perfect half, your divine masculine/feminine. It is how polarities play out in this physical word. You desperately want to be in your masculine, how can it be possible? Very simple! You create feminine to contrast and experience your masculinity through her. If aware enough and longing for God’s like experience, you create highly developed feminine (with advanced level of awareness) to achieve God together through this deep divine interaction. That is how you ascend. Call it twin flame or soulmate connection. This is your path to your Self, path to your Home! "I am the LORD, and there is no one else; There is no God except Me. I will embrace and arm you, though you have not known Me..."

@Adodd you are settling in experience of being “silent observer”, which is just awareness becomes aware of itself. It will happen more often, then it will normalcy. Later on, you’ll start noticing another weirdo “thing” - you body will seem like living life on its own. You don’t need to control it. Body will be doing things on its own only for you to notice and recognize that there is no “doer”. But you won’t notice it immediately, the registration of this fact will only be realized post factum!

Maybe I should become a writer then ?

Disclaimer: there is no other, so everything I will describe here will be used as a mere representation of polarities at play. Everything that you see in other is nothing more than a projection of your own mind. There is only one thing that exists, and it lies within “your” current direct experience. You are hunting pleasures all your life, and sex is the most desirable one. Goose bumps, short of breath, pumping heart, butterflies in your stomach when anticipating sexual intercourse with the other, blood rushes though your veins. But what is sex really? Is it just a genital pleasure or a multidimensional divine paradise? Sex is the physical act of intimacy that can have different dimensions and goals. You can achieve so many goals through sex, and pleasure is just one little facet of it: healing, success, ascension, energetical charging, talent expansion and profound insights about feminine and masculine nature. Dimensions of sex can be physical, emotional, mental, spiritual, and energetical. Unfortunately, many of us only utilize couple of sexual dimensions during the whole entire life course. Spiritual aspects of sex are unknown to mediocre people. Perceptions can have different doors, sexual intercourse with a soulmate is your door and way to the Absolute/Pure Consciousness. Energy can play out itself as an appearance of masculine or feminine. It is one energy that carries different polarities. By contrasting and playing with polarities, the infinite potential deepens its Being. The most important condition that leads to insights and revelations is when you meet yourself in the another being. When your inner self embodies in opposite outer polarity, it closes the infinite loop, and leads to profound God realization. Ascension happens when you penetrate your outer self (partner) and realize that you have never been separated, and actually is One experience (Being/Reality). In the moment of pleasure, you are losing yourself to Divinity, to a point where you can’t define the borderline of your and partner’s body. You literally merge, dissolve, and melt into each other, this is Souls’ Ecstasy. Time slows down and you get so much pleasure that you are tittering on the edge of abys, you are about to lose your egoic illusory self. Every part of your body is in sync with partner’s one. Sex becomes an effortless tireless dance of naked bodies that move rhythmically toward each other, and only drops of sweat on the face bring you back to reality. The most erotic moment happens when you can unceremoniously throw everything off, not only clothes, but your ugliest parts into the love’s face and elate by being exposed. At this moment you become weightless. Healing happens when you build trust and integrity. This level of intimacy requires tremendous courage on both sides, a pretty high level of awareness. Can you imagine being a masculine guy and disclose all your complexes and fears to the woman you love? What if you appear as a loser, unattractive “little” person, who pretends to have so much confidence, when in reality, you are just a child with bunch of wounds and preconceived notions. But what if you go that far and receive acceptance, and when intimacy deepens with time, you will gain the whole appreciation of your most absurd, awkward traits in your woman’s eyes. Soul orgasm happens. It is important to understand that sex is a pure projection of your mind, plus it works on a hormonal level as well. You are constantly co-creating your partner, sex is not in your genitals, it is in your head. Sexual energy is very powerful. Usually, man gives, woman takes in sex. After sex man keep utilizing feminine resources because they are bound energetically. It comes hand in hand with masculine success, when feminine and masculine energies have a proper balance and exchange, they can create wonders for both genders. Man takes sexual energy to go to conquer, woman retains and preserves to keep the survival at stakes. However, why so many of us live in relationships that are far from perfect. Improper balance of polarities and willingness to compromise your deepest desires just to be with someone and never experience loneliness. You chose a wrong partner, consciously or unconsciously. Doors to divine sex are within the realization that to develop, keep and evolve your sexual intimacy off the charts you must meet certain condition. And this condition is your own Self. This is what you long the most, to find and drown in yourself with the help of the opposite gender. You want to splice inner and outer, and to die in this union. You, as man, all your life, desperately looking and waiting for your “inner woman” to be manifested in the outer woman you meet and recognize in the crowd. The greatest pleasure of all when in sex is to observe these two women making love to each other. You can fuck hundreds of women, and never experience the bliss of fuse with your inner Self, when you actually disappear as an idea and become everything. Sex starts with connection, prior to any physical activity. Mental dimension of sex is to get pleasure by sharing and being understood, by saying and actually be heard, by being accepted and forgiven, by being trusted and get totally naked, absolutely vulnerable. And the cherry on top when you see yourself in your partner. You understand his motivations and fears because you are alike, one enclosed in two separate bodies. Your inner woman breathes through her body, and her inner man moves through yours. This element of recognition allows partners to achieve the greatest orgasm, on all levels. Because your soul and body elate from just one thought that you can be loved unconditionally, and when loved like this you are invincible. Your masculinity thrives and wins all the bottles, it expands, and it wants to give. No clitoris/vaginal/g-spot orgasm can be compared to the one that happens between two souls that are alike. You can have a set of pretty boobs, beautiful pussy, face, and figure, but her fundamental difference will push you off, you’ll never be satisfied. Sex will suck your energy because your woman wouldn’t give nor her full heart, neither her pussy, she won’t reflect you. But when you do have soul consonance with her, she is always wet and you are erected, because you cannot get enough of each other: mentally, physically, and emotionally. That’s what true sexuality is: when masculine closes feminine nature. It is unbreakable, it does not know any time, other people, or obstacles. You are always hungry for each other, simple things turn you on, even despite distance, discord, or silence. Sex is always there, and this intimacy takes different shapes and forms. In bed it is in variety in positions, in mundane life is in insights when you interact with each other. This intimacy is sacral because it carries knowledge, expansion, and bliss. And the more ego you dissolve, the further you penetrate your woman: through your penis, heart, actions, and love. All the masks are taken, you are totally naked, in this merge and splice you’ve become One. There is no other, has never been, and never will be: transparent, naked, sexual Being.

@Amit thanks ?

@Gesundheit2 ?

@puporing thanks ?

@NoSelfSelf thanks ?

@mojsterr thanks ?

Ofc I would ?, you just guys hang in there. I will make a post.

Lol, wrong. you can achieve so many things through sex, pleasure is just one of it. 1. Healing 2. ascension 3. Energetic charge 4. Better understanding of your polarity and masculinity/feminine sexuality 5. Success 6. Even sex can help you to expand your hidden talents

Also, what are you trying to achieve with sex?

Oh me..let me expend on this…would be a great topic for my article. I will share.

Sex has dimensions, are you taking from physical dimension point of you? Have you ever tried to explore another dimension through sex? Sex is a door to divinity. You have a little bit twisted vision of it.

@Someone here you are welcome, Sommie ☺️.

The deepest answer I could give probably will be: infinite potential, call it God, wants to know Itself. It creates polarities. By contrasting and opposing, infinite potential experiences itself, every single facet, every single opposite. The pleasure lies within the experience itself, and in the demension of depth by which it can be known. Doesn’t matter what quality it has, what matters is how it feels and contrasts with its opposite. By experiencing each side of the coin, infinite potential derives knowledge, which leads to further evolution. Therefore, infinite experience can never be known, as it unfolds forever and drowns in eternity. Purpose can’t never be found or known because it contradicts the existence. Chase is beautiful. It gives birth to new potentials. Once the purpose is known, existence would cease, as it would reach this purpose at some point by default.

This realization puts you in the Gods mode. You literally understand that you can bend reality by the way you think.

@Inliytened1 yes, I remember you explained this to me about two years ago, time flies…..

I always knew I was the only conscious f…bustard in this movie. ??? I need to be reminded of this every day to leverage my God’s power. I wonder if I am constantly aware of this, could I start to create reality I want where all my dreams come true? But at the same time I must surrender and trust that the movie I watch is exactly what I need and wanted the most.

@somegirl I agree, but if we dig deeper, it is also not their choice, it just happened for them to be born on that territory. They have zero control over their thinking, as much as us, people living in different parts of the world. We are just lucky to have access to different systems, other than communism. History, survival and territory you live in are totally in control of your mind. Only few people can stay open-minded.