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@universe Thanks for the reply . Very wise.

I'm the only one that I use sexuality as a way for my ego to validate itself more than just to enjoy sex/connection? I have had multiple examples of this, but I'll use the recent one, lately a friend of mine recommended me an online dating app to get laid. He said he could take me a good picture and I would find a nice girl. But I have 0 interest in doing it. I do want to have sex but if I just get it withouth not doing anything it feels like it completely loses its appeal. For example if I would meet this girl in a normal scenario, in a club, or whatever, and I could "seduce" her to take her home, then I would feel like I deserve sex with her But just swapping right and doing nothing and just expecting having sex with her, it just feels like I am not bringing nothing to the table. Am I the only one who thinks like this? (I'm not saying is a good way to think. It's.not. but just wondering if I'm alone in this...)

Interesting. I haven't had the experience from the heart yet. Thanks for sharing! @DLH Very interesting! Just what I was looking for!

@Nahm the 'bad' thing is that we might forget it (maybe you don't) very fast. But, even that won't be 'bad'. If we couldn't forget it then love would be limited to not forget Truth ?

Withouth the ego, Reality does not include suffering because it's not existent. However, ego seems to be a normal thing to exist in human beings. So you must inquire the ego.Since it seems to be the "false topping" that has been added to what it is an already perfect and loving reality

@Gesundheit Agree ? . If I'd have to take a guess, the experiences from the deepest trips seem to conclude than in fact I am God and I am imagining/creating reality always in the present moment..so anything that *Is Not in the present moment, for pure definition it literally doesn't exist. Because existence is reality. And reality is the present moment. But I still think I am talking right now to a human being out there (you) and not just my imagination..maybe because is not clear still to me, or maybe because I want to keep living in delusion and truth would be too radical to keep living in accordance to it

@Moksha From what book did you find that Quote? No such a thing as being re-born or past lives You are all lives so that Buddhism stuff doesn't make sense to me, at least yet Lol

I can imagine it was scary before you surrender lol. @eputkonen Do you have any posts talking about it?

Perfectly described ?⚡⚡

You are "awakened" uhm?

I never know what to do in this situations Lately Its happening on my job and I never know what to do.

? I must say All of those advices are quite risky in a job scenario if one of those people are usually your boss?

Those are very good advices thank you! I liked a lot "Don't say anything at all, until they've all run out of steam. Then say "ok"." @Nahm They are saying "I can talk to this guy he will listen even if other is speaking to him too" it seems Lol

Lol what?

Any guides or roadmaps for newbies?

It's a perfect analogy imo ! ?

Great great post. I think you explained it in a detailed and brilliant wat yet so simple! Just a personal question, are there other Conscioussness/Infinities experiencing THIS creation from other imaginary bodies? That's the million dollar question. And of course one that I never won't be able to answer. Since whatever people will reply to me I'll just project my own authority / belief on to them.

Great ? Thanks for sharing

I just think also it boils down to pure chemistry in the brain. If you have to wait 3 months for the brain to stop having urges, then doing noporn why having at seconds away the possibility of watching porn it just seems unrealistic in the most optimistic sense. That's why addicts go to rehab, literally so they can't access the drug while the they have urges. Because if you have urges and you can get the drug in minutes then its just not possible Lol. @LfcCharlie4 I have tried porn blockers but I always find a way Lol . By no means I'm playing the victim thing of course thought. I do plan to quit porn soon I just think I need to do some action in the social life / gf and then I will go strong on quitting porn.

Find refuge and peace in the present.

I tried exercising a lot. It definitely helped a LOT. There were times (like 90% of times) where I would feel bored, depressed or anxious and going out and doing a long run would just make me feel very good and make watching porn unappealing. Yet there were times where no matter what I do the anticipation of euphoria that my brain would produce would be just unbearable. To test myself I actually went up to 14 days resisting urges of watching porn. There were times where the promise of euphoria would be so high that it made me think if porn is really a drug. Like, I haven't done crack or cocaine or meth or anything like that, but the urges I experienced on those 14 days would be so strong it felt like a teaser of what a meth addict experiences. I don't know..maybe at 30 day mark a switch happens on the brain, and you no longer have to fight those urges. But it's definitely a challenge knowing that you are just a SECONDS apart from that world. And you have to have faith that you actually will reach that point. In my conclusion I'll just work on my social and sexual life and I'm sure quitting porn would be a more realistic choice by that time for me then.

Great challenge, I should add myself to it but I must confess I have tried to quit several times and I have come to the conclusion that if I don´t have a gf or active sexual life is like an "impossible" (this exageration, of course) to not watch porn. Like my mind kind of says "Im gong to get sexual stimulation, if you don´t give it to me in reality, i´ll get it on porn". What do you think? I think you just can´t quit the mind something and don´t give it anything in return.

Lol. You say it like it was nothing. Looks like somebody else too have fallen into another trap...

Loved it. Good advices there! But this made me laugh because you write it like it is nothing :

Does it really matter? The fact is to have a deep understanding of reality you must go beyond the human mind and human form. So whatever you experience, you actually never can't really explain it in words, write about it, ir even THINK about it. Even talking about Truth is not really truth. If not you could just trigger Enlightement just reading books The map is not the territory